>>280335059>>280335651>>280337751>>280337888>>280338000Both guys and girls need to realize this is super common. Guys sometimes can't perform and making a big deal out of it just makes it worse. You've gotta mentally be able to let go to really enjoy it, otherwise your fight-or-flight response fucks it up. Same thing with girls who get too nervous and either can't stay wet or loosen up. If you're comfortable around each other you can just pause things, calm down and cuddle, and wait for the horny level to recharge and try again.
I think blowing your load early is more of a teenage raging hormone danger. By the time you need to chill to the fuck out so your brain doesn't ruin things for the dick. Thankfully, unless you're dating club sluts an adult chick gets this too and will just let you take your time without getting frustrated with you.