Is it unreasonable of me to not be friends with people who don't use headphones while in public or rooms with strangers?

>>33170110 (OP)
you sound anti social

Meh, they can still be a great friend. I have a buddy that's a bit rude like that but they're kind, smart and fun to hang around, they're just a bit oblivious to their surroundings. They're a bit like Kramer, sort of weird in the head I guess but well intentioned

So imo it should be more of a red flag but not a disqualifier outright. You'd maybe want to get to know them a bit to see why they're acting that way.

>>33170115
found the guy that doesn't know what headphones are

>>33170110 (OP)
let me rephrase your question,

>Is it unreasonable to not be friends with people who are inconsiderate of the people around them?

If you point out to them that others might not want to listen to their music and they keep doing it, then take a shit in their breakfast cereal box and leave.

>>33170110 (OP)
I is perfectly reasonable to avoid people who are so anti-social as to inflict their horrible noise on bystanders.

>>33170155
>why they're acting that way.
Cause they don't give a shit

>>33170270
>If you point out to them and they keep doing it
I have and they don't care. They seem to believe strangers like their noise.

>>33170556
Yes

>>33170110 (OP)
It is unreasonable for such people to be allowed to live.

>>33172046
Yes

>>33170110 (OP)
Eh, you can rarely judge people on one aspect. I agree it's infuriating and inconsiderate when people do that, and I wouldn't want to start a conversation with someone like that. But if you have existing friends, don't cut them off over something so trivial.

>>33172224
>if you have existing friends, don't cut them off over something so trivial.
True, but luckily, I would never have befriended them in the first place.

>>33172121
Yes

>>33170110 (OP)
No. It's perfectly acceptable to not use headphones in public. It reduces situational awareness.

>>33175185
What?

>>33170110 (OP)
The kinds of people I hang out with wouldn’t blast their music around other people.

>>33171285
>>If you point out to them and they keep doing it
>I have and they don't care. They seem to believe strangers like their noise.

If you murder them, no jury will convict you.

But seriously, make better friends.

>>33175430
The question was
>Is it unreasonable of me to not be friends with people who don't use headphones while in public or rooms with strangers?

So I answered no. A lot of us without headphones in public do it because of the situational awareness. It is unreasonable to stop being friends with people who just want to pay attention in public.

>>33176767
>the situational awareness
The fuck? Are you deaf? I can wear headphones and STILL hear what's going on around me. If you need the volume to be so high to where I can hear the sound coming out of your HEADPHONES from across the room... then you're fucking deaf and you're damaging your ears.

If you care that much about knowing what's going on around you, don't be fucking listening to music at all.

Pick one.

>>33170110 (OP)
no sounds perfectly reasonable. if they don't want to hear you then you don't need to talk to them

>>33176908
oh i noticed i misread that as using headphones during social interactions. blasting music in public spaces when it's not appropriate is rude though so don't befriend them if you don't like rude people

>>33171285
That's a good reason not to be friends.
Other people don't necessarily want to hear their bs, music or otherwise

>>33170110 (OP)
Dude, I work with boomers who are constantly scrolling tiktok with no headphones I want them to get cancer and die.

>>33176922
omg... same

>>33176922
You know it's funny, some of them go into meetings, or places where someone is teaching a class or giving a speech, and their phones are going off with these loud disruptive ringtones bringing attention to themselves.

But this is the funny part, they never consider putting their phones on vibrate... so the disruptive ringtones just keep happening... over and over and over again...

Either they don't know a phone can be set to be silent, or they're too arrogantly ignorant to learn.

I've watched the same people do it repeatedly, every single day. It's mind boggling.

>>33176907
>If you care that much about knowing what's going on around you, don't be fucking listening to music at all.
Yes that is exactly what I was and am saying. I am a person that does not wear headphones in public because I don't listen to music and just pay attention to what's around me.

That's cool if you can function with headphones, I'm not saying you have to do what I do.

I'm saying that me, and other people who don't wear headphones in public, because we prefer situational awareness, should be unfriended for not using headphones in public.

>>33177309
>I'm saying that I should be unfriended for not using headphones in public
Well... look at you... owning up to your shit... like a boss

>>33177309
>I am actually NOT one of the people OP is talking about but I should be unfriended anyways for no reason LOL
lol what?1!1

>>33178374
I literally am, though?

>>33170110 (OP)
>people who don't use headphones while in public or rooms with strangers
That is the description, in the OP, and I fit it. I do not use headphones in public or rooms with strangers. Don't know how to make this much clearer.

>>33178807
ohhhhh I see what you're doing you're trolling me cause I never specified "while listening to music" lmao well good job you little fucker nice bait

>>33176999
Same

>>33170110 (OP)
No, that's only right and proper.

>>33180581
Precisely

>>33170110 (OP)
>Is it unreasonable of me to not be friends with people who don't use headphones while in public or rooms with strangers?
Yes. You already knew that though.

>>33183313
Ah, so you enjoy listening to people's shit music and retard tiktok feeds while you're trying to concentrate on your work. Got it.

>>33180581
It's good

>>33184284
It's shit

>>33170110 (OP)
No. Loud people are annoying and not worth your time. There's time and place for everything. They don't give a shit and neither should you.

>>33186906
>They don't give a shit and neither should you.
Amen

>>33186176
Awful shit

Time and place.
I mean, where at? Is this a hypothetical situation? Cars play loud music. Idk what the scenario is bro it’s to objective because there is always outliers. Idk be more specific…
I was walking to the store (2 blocks from my house) and someone was playing music on their phone loudly. I didn’t care.
The car that drives by with the SUPER LOUD BASS or the loud car engines irritate me more. Room would be annoying depending on where I’m at and why I’m there & what I’m doing I guess? Just depends man.

>>33195585
The scenario is any room where you are with them and you are not in the mood to listen to their shit music, which is all the time.

>>33170110 (OP)
Eh, ending a friendship over one thing is gay, but it is a rude thing to do. There would have to be a pattern for it to end a frienship.

>>33195585
>I was walking to the store (2 blocks from my house) and someone was playing music on their phone loudly. I didn’t care.
Of course you didn't care, because they're not your friends, you had the freedom to walk away, and you were only exposed to that for a couple seconds.

Now, imagine a situation where you did not have the freedom to walk away. No matter where you went, no matter what time of day, some piece of shit is playing their mumble rap trap shit on their loud speaker, while you're trying to get some peace and quiet.

>>33191478
Just awful

>>33191478
Brother

>>33200322
Sister

>>33199943
Just absolutely awful