Im 18f, i masturbate daily, sometimes even 5 times a day. And when i do i dont really watch porn, just think about dirty stuff in my head, stuff that i would never ever do in real life. but im worried if and when i get a boyfriend and we start having sex, will i have trouble getting off if im not thinking about those dirty thoughs in my head. Or is the real dihh so powerful i wont even have time to think about them?Should i stop masturbating, or should i try to get off to something else, like normal porn?

>>33197618 (OP)
Generally speaking you're fine. You have a high libido and you're a teenager so your hormones are raging through you. Masturbate away.
The only possible concern is that if you're only masturbating to highly specific things then yes, this can become a psychological problem when you try and have actual sex with actual people. Try and vary your fantasies.

Hot.
It's fine though femanon. Just don't make it to where you put important things aside just so that you have time to masturbate.

Not an answer but “Is the real dihh so powerful” is fucking wild.. especially on 4Chan I’m so sorry I just have to bring that up. Had me giggling a little too much, anyways, cumwell!

God that's so hot.

You like bondage and gangbang don't you? You are fine, most women are like that

>>33197618 (OP)
Just get a boyfriend who's into the same stuff. Unless that boyfriend would be a horse, because you're getting off to a thought of a thousand-pound stallion ravaging your tight pink teenage pussy with his throbbing two-foot cock, haha.

>>33197618 (OP)
>Hey guys! I have a vagina! I am going to talk about rubbing my vagina! I do it a lot, teehee~. I like to think dirty thoughts as I touch my genitalia!

>I am a female and I call attention to my sexual appetite, full knowing this site is full of horny guys. So please give me compliments and attention :)

>>33197757
Not really, its more taboo, and i usually dont insert myself in these fantasies, just think that i would be watching it.

>>33197776
I mean i think some older guy daddy thing for sure. the thought of animals have crossed my mind but im not actively gooning to it nor would i ever want to do it at all

>>33197788
How would people compliment me if they dont even know what i look like

>>33197618 (OP)
yes you should stop masturbating and also understand that these things go infinitely in either direction, meaning a person can continue going in the direction of fornication or chastity infinitely.

if you see a disgusting alcoholic 50 year old man who is a monger in thailand for example, that is a person who has gone off far in the direction of fornication.

if you see some elevated being, a saint of a person, then that is a person who has worked hard on themselves and is chaste.

women are the accumulators of the astral energy which is why men are so attracted to them, which is why lust can ruin your attractiveness.

it is a good condition for you to attach when you are seeking a partner because if you can find a chaste man then they are going to be the superior partner, whereas the feeble minded dissapators usually enter into drug addiction, employment troubles, etc. or if they manage to overcome the simple troubles, then you are at risk of them being adulterers, or them being simply stupid or potentially abusive.

if you think i sound silly please do not underestimate this because sex is your root energy and most of the problems you see from all the people in society are caused by sex in one way or another. there is a youtube video you can watch that is titled "Women Have the Power to Change the World Through Sacred Sexuality".

>>33197618 (OP)
>stuff that i would never ever do in real life.
That is precisely what masturbation fantasies are for

>>33197618 (OP)
is it causing a problem? no? then don't stop

You won't have trouble getting off in future.

>>33197822
lol

>>33197618 (OP)

Daily? Eh I get it, most people fap on a daily basis. But 5 times a day is crazy ngl

>>33197618 (OP)
Do not obsess over something too particular or niche. And I mean this. The legions of incels you see here in 4chan will never get laid because they ended up having weird fantasies that no woman in her sane state of mind can satisfy. Open up your horizons. Find a guy and fuck his brains out, and then another one.

If you feel horny as fuck and you have no one to have sex with then yeah, masturbate but try to do it to porn in any shape or porn, try fucking gay porn, or hentai or whatever, but variety always. Particularly as I say if you are getting kinda obsessed with certain things

>>33197798
are you new to the internet?

>>33199091
I've had boring days when I masturbated 4-5 times, but that's not the norm of course

>>33197618 (OP)
Most girls have trouble coming by themselves during sex, and need hand stimulation too.
Consider that normal sex happens at the speed he can move his hips, not at the speed of your hands.

Normal masturbation is fine as long as you don't have to do it too fast and too strong.
Clit vibrators and g-spot vibrators do overload and desensitize you over time as you fear. Better avoid those if you want to cum naturally.

There is no need to stop now if you don't have a bf or want to pick up guys now.

>>33197822
>if you see a disgusting alcoholic 50 year old man who is a monger in thailand for example, that is a person who has gone off far in the direction of fornication.
This is my end goal.

>>33199120

Okay ty, i am definitely too much of an retard to have sex. And i dont know if anybody would even have me.

>>33197618 (OP)
>will i have trouble getting off if im not thinking about those dirty thoughs in my head.
Probably, yes. But porn will make things worse. Can you not manage to fantasise about something healthier?

>>33197792
>I mean i think some older guy daddy thing for sure.
Have you considered an older boyfriend? Not that I'm an older man who likes younger women and enjoys being called "Daddy" or anything. *cough*

>>33199120
>The legions of incels you see here in 4chan will never get laid because they ended up having weird fantasies that no woman in her sane state of mind can satisfy.
Yeah I guess no woman can satisfy my weird fantasy of kissing lips and maybe vanilla penetrative sex. How can you be so clueless, most women are much more perverted and weird than the average incel.

>>33197618 (OP)
It's nice to have a strong libido, but 5 times a day sounds like a lot. Could you get it down to once a day?

>>33200218
How old are you ?

>>33200261
Maybe i should try, but when i lay in bed it just kinda happens. And when i cant sleep its ten times worse

>>33200279
>How old are you ?
Far, far too old for you. (smile) But you could probably find someone a lot younger than me who is still old enough to engage your older man fetish.

>>33200279
>Maybe i should try, but when i lay in bed it just kinda happens. And when i cant sleep its ten times worse
How long does it take for you to masturbate 5 times?

>>33197788
Incel is big mad

>>33200410
Well the whole point is that hes supposed to be older haha but i get what you mean, but i would like him to be old

>>33200437

I dont do it multiple times at one sitting, but like if 30 minutes or something has passed and im still awake ill just go again¯\_(ツ)_/¯

>>33200578
>Well the whole point is that hes supposed to be older haha
Yeah, but I'm guessing "older" doesn't mean three times your age! But when I was in my early thirties, for example, I would have been delighted to get involved with someone like you. It is possible.

>>33200628
But silver foxes are fine as hell too haha

it’s really normal to do this when you’re this age. everyone is doing it. it would be weird if you weren’t doing it

>>33200687
>But silver foxes are fine as hell too haha
Hah! Well, I probably don't live in your country (I'm in the UK), and I'm not single (I'm in an open relationship). But if I'm honest, if neither of those things were an issue, I might be badgering you for your contact details! Wherever you live, if you actually wanted to find a guy, even as ancient as me, to get involved with, you probably wouldn't find it difficult to find someone. There are plenty of old pervs like me who would jump at the chance! It has to be said, most of them would only be looking for sex and not a relationship: with that sort of age gap, people tend not to have much in common emotionally. But if that were what you wanted, it would be possible; and indeed, whatever your kinks are, I'm sure you could find someone who is kinky for the same thing. So don't be too scared of having non-standard desires.

>>33202248
How old are you?

>>33202248
Okay, thanks for the answer! and yeah makes sense there isnt much in common unfortunately. Of course if i had somebody older i would try to understand his hobbies, whatever they may be. I havent really tried to find anyone really, im too shy and akward in real life. I also feel like where i live there are no older men who would date a younger girl, but maybe someday i'll go out and try to find one

>>33202580
You can check out SeekingArrangement to look for older men.

>>33202580
Plenty of older men would have no problem dating younger girls, as the other anon mentioned. Me included. Now granted, for it to be something more than just sexual, you need to be mature enough, and at the least intellectually curious to learn from him.

>>33202486
>How old are you?
Hmm, am I still talking to OP? (suspicious expression) Well, I already answered that: literally three times her age.

>>33197618 (OP)
>i masturbate daily, sometimes even 5 times a day.
Incidentally, OP, I didn't really address this. Masturbating a couple of times a day and occasionally as many as five, is normal for a teenage girl who isn't having sex. Five separate sessions a day every day would definitely be unusual. (But of course girls have multiple orgasms, so coming more than once in a session isn't weird).

In most cases masturbation is perfectly healthy, but it can occasionally become a problem. The first thing to ask yourself is: are you doing it because you're actually horny, or simply because you're bored? If it's because you're genuinely horny and you really enjoy it each time, then go for it. If it's more because of boredom or stress, that's worth keeping an eye on.

Signs that masturbation is becoming unhealthy are:
- It starts to feel like something you *have* to do, rather than something you want to do.
- It stops being enjoyable; and especially if find yourself constantly telling yourself how much better it's going to be the next time than it was this time.
- You spend hours planning it; for example, hours looking for the right porn clip, or hours and hours shopping for sex toys that you don't actually buy (or, worse still, buy but never actually use).
- Fantasies that used to turn you on stop working, and you feel like you need something more extreme.
- You're doing it so much that you don't have time to live a normal life around it; for example, if you're skipping classes, or showing up to work late, or missing dates and social engagements, because you're too busy gooning.
- It hurts.
- You frequently can't wait till you get home and end up doing it in grubby public toilets, or watching porn at work, etc.

So long as none of those apply, you're probably fine!

>>33202580
>yeah makes sense there isnt much in common unfortunately.
Age gaps can work. One of the two women I'm seeing at the moment is half my age, and we're very much in love. But at the same time, it's a very different emotional dynamic from a conventional relationship. It often feels more like having suddenly acquired a grown-up daughter rather than a girlfriend.

For example, we watch a lot of movies together. My own father is kind of a movie buff, and when I was young it was him who introduced me to classic films made by people like Alfred Hitchcock, Akira Kurosawa, or Ingmar Bergman. Because I don't have children of my own, I haven't been able to have the feeling of passing that on to my own kids. And similarly, my gf (when she was growing up) was envious of her friends who had "cool parents" who could introduce them to things like classic movies and retro gaming. So now we both get to experience that - me sharing with her something I'm fond of - and it's really nice.

(I have, incidentally, also been on the other end of an age gap relationship in the past at - at 29 I was seeing a woman who was 48).

But I have to be honest and say that a significant percentage of older men who are into younger woman are not actually looking for someone young so much as for someone vulnerable and easily manipulated; so, if you're going to experiment with that, go into it with your eyes open, and pay attention to what he does, not what he says.

>>33202595
>You can check out SeekingArrangement to look for older men.
(NTA) Isn't that more for sugar daddy / sugar baby relationships - ones where there is a lot of money changing hands?

Masturbating without porn is healthy but also masturbating daily especially 5 times in a day is more worse, I think you should try masturbating once or twice a week, I also masturbate once in 2 weeks but sadly I can't get rid of porn

>>33202737
>I think you should try masturbating once or twice a week
People on this forum have some wildly unrealistic ideas about how horny young women are.

>>33197618 (OP)
>>33197792
Post it or SAGE YOU STUPID SHIT CUNT

>>33202739
Sorry I didn't knew since I am a teen male

>>33202695
Not necessarily. They tend to be more transactional in nature than normal relationships, but generally, the men are older and have money and a good career going. Yes, there are married men there just seeking sex, but there are also single men seeking something more, who enjoy giving younger girls things they could never experience otherwise.

>>33202607
Well i dont know if im mature, and i think its pretty obvious at this point that im not normal. I have adhd and depression, cant get into any schools and basically im just a loser. I think dating somebody older would make me feel loved and cared for, despite me being a complete retard. But i dont think many mature men would be into mentally ill girls expect for sex. And that defeats my purpose of wanting to date. I also really dont want to lose my virginity on some one night stand i would be too anxious and i believe sex is more than that. But then again maybe i live in some fantasy land.

>>33202629
I definitely dont force it and its not cause of boredom. It doesnt come in the way of my normal life. I dont have any toys, i just use my hand usually. I dont know if im even doing it right. But maybe i should try to not do it as much, but then again its not really hurting anybody so idk.

>>33202677
Well is it that bad if somebody older manipulates me, at least i hope he would care about me

>>33202862
>But maybe i should try to not do it as much
As I said, so long as you're doing it because you're genuinely horny, and you enjoy it, it's fine. Don't worry about it!

>Well is it that bad if somebody older manipulates me,
Yes, that's bad. Very bad.
>at least i hope he would care about me
Caring about you and manipulating you are mutually exclusive. If someone is manipulating you, it's because they don't even like you - they simply regard you as convenient; they treat you like an object, rather than a person - or treat you like a cat playing with a mouse. There is NOTHING good about that.

>>33202833
Haven't you tried getting help for those? Like therapy? It sound like you need to fix up your own life first.

>>33197618 (OP)
What are you fantasizing about?

>>33202897
Well damn, yeah i want somebody to care about me, like a real relationship.

>>33202934
I have, but i struggle with finding a school place. And even if i did get better, i will always work a little differently than a normal person. Im really stressed about my future too, i hope i can hold down a job one day.

>>33202941
Taboo stuff, really embarassing really

>>33197618 (OP)
It's better for you to stop , i speak from experience

>>33202999
>Taboo stuff, really embarassing really
It's 4chan. You can tell us since you are anonymous.

>>33202999
>Well damn, yeah i want somebody to care about me, like a real relationship.
Yeah. And manipulative people can turn actually abusive further down the line. Obviously not all older guys are like that, but go into it with your eyes open. Watch out for guys love-bombing you, etc.

>>33203035
Like incest and sometimes animal stuff, dirty sweaty fucking. But like i said i dont fantasize about myself being in these sitsuations at all! i make up a fake scenario and go from there. And i would never do these types of stuff irl

>>33202862
>I dont have any toys, i just use my hand usually.
That's a good decision, incidentally. Excessive use of vibrators can give you the female equivalent of death grip syndrome!

>>33203165
>And i would never do these types of stuff irl
(NTA);You're no fun. :p

Why would you want to meet an older guy and not do incest roleplay???

>>33203172
I mean roleplay maybe, i think i would maybe enjoy it. but find me an older guy who isnt disgusted by that. but like the other stuff are no no

>>33203266
>find me an older guy who isnt disgusted by that
Any older guy who actively prefers younger women will want you to call him "Daddy".

>>33203165
>Incest n animals
That's nothing
>fake scenario
Post em

>>33197618 (OP)
How much time do you spend on it?

>>33203288
>Any older guy who actively prefers younger women will want you to call him "Daddy".
I wouldn't. I like younger women, but I'm not into the pedophilia adjacent stuff.

>>33197618 (OP)
Why. Just masturbate.

> im worried if and when i get a boyfriend and we start having sex, will i have trouble getting off if im not thinking about those dirty thoughs in my head
who says it won't be the same for him, kek

> is the real dihh so powerful i wont even have time to think about them
nah, for most women it isn't


> stuff that i would never ever do in real life
see... if that's turning you on so much, perhaps that's more like it

>>33203288
Not me. I would find that offputting. Now schoolgirl/teacher roleplay on the other hand...

>>33197618 (OP)
I don't suggest getting involved with video porn. Have you tried ao3? Lots of girls like that.

>>33206953
>>33207009
Pffft. Amateurs.

>>33207009
Doesnt it kind of have the same idea. Older guy and younger girl

>>33207276
No i havent, is there like written smut there or something? I have heard of it but dont really know what it is in detail

>>33197792
>I mean i think some older guy daddy thing for sure
(NTA) I'm not on there myself, but there are a couple of threads over on /soc you might want to check out, OP:

>>>/soc/33944239

>>>/soc/34003462

>>33207368
Thanks! I checked them out but i think im too shy to actually do anything. And im not good at texting and thats kind of the whole point of those, so i think i just have to keep it as a fantasy for now. Maybe someday

>>33207334
>No i havent, is there like written smut there or something? I have heard of it but dont really know what it is in detail
Yes, it's written porn

>>33207328
>t. Jeffrey /adv/stein

wow im 18m and this thread has demoralized me badly, i might commit suicide

>>33207658
Why? You'll be an older man someday.

>>33207660
i dont want to do that i want to spend my most virile times having sex instead of being emasculated and cucked

>>33207663
Why would you be cucked

>>33207787
because girls of my demographic are going for other men or being aroused by other demographics in the same way a coal burner fantasizes about niggers

>>33207800
Stack your chips

>>33197618 (OP)
I'm sure after a night with me you'd be wondering why you ever watched porn in the first place.

>>33214354
OP made it very clear that she doesn't watch porn. But I'm sure that, after a night with you, she would feel the need to start.

>>33215098
Rekt

>>33202248
ffs, you're a creepy bastard.