Thread 33200513 - /adv/ [Archived: 1086 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/11/2025, 2:30:37 AM No.33200513
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Do girls even want to be approached most of the time? Obviously if its the right person anyone would be fine with it, but it seems like women are more annoyed by male attention than not. I feel like women only accept it because its better than having to take the risk themselves, but if they could turn off male approaches like an option in a video game, it would be off 95% of the time.
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Anonymous
6/11/2025, 2:34:13 AM No.33200526
Why is this thread made every other day
Anonymous
6/11/2025, 2:37:39 AM No.33200538
>>33200513 (OP)
Cold approaching is like being a door to door salesman. You have to barge in and convince them you're what they never knew they needed.
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Anonymous
6/11/2025, 2:39:11 AM No.33200543
>>33200513 (OP)
>but if they could turn off male approaches like an option in a video game, it would be off 95% of the time.
I know what you feel there, you just gotta be classy about it
Say 'hi hows it going, I'm *insert name*"
Its best if you can flow and be aware of her energy. Yes most women wont be receptive, try to look good, get a haircut (my long hair was killing my game, despite making me look badass), wear clothes that make you look like a nice young man

You really have to be detached from the outcome to have good energy, just imagine that you're seeking a nice interaction with her rather than access to her genitals, and then once you have that you can think about asking if she wants to talk later
Anonymous
6/11/2025, 2:45:04 AM No.33200576
>>33200513 (OP)
Anon listen to me, pua here, I'm going to say this only once. Are you ready?

It is not your job to make other people feel comfortable.

Look out for your own interests. Wondering if you will disturb her by approaching is just a weasel. Approach. If you are disturbing and she lets it known, you leave.

Stop being a pussy.
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Anonymous
6/11/2025, 3:03:13 AM No.33200658
>>33200513 (OP)
>Do girls even want to be approached most of the time?

according to the last 30 years of social commentary, no.
Anonymous
6/11/2025, 3:40:11 AM No.33200819
>>33200538
>Cold approaching is like being a door to door salesman.
Yep. And most people would rather they stay the fuck away. You basically have to adopt main character syndrome like >>33200576
to justify approaching strange women.
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Anonymous
6/11/2025, 3:47:23 AM No.33200842
>>33200819
When I wrote that I didn't mean that there's anything wrong with it, as long as it's an appropriate setting. What I meant is you have to convince them you're worth their time, because by approaching them, you're demanding their time. Charisma, confidence, good energy, the same skills a salesman has. I just wanted to phrase it the worst way possible.
Anonymous
6/11/2025, 3:50:46 AM No.33200856
>>33200819
>You basically have to adopt main character syndrome

That is not the real justification.
A girl is either interested or not.
If a girl is interested, she will make it known.
If she isnt, she will make excuses rather than confront you, such as being busy.

But from your pov; you fear the rejection and thus find reasons, logical, reasonable or even factual to not make the approach. But the real reason remains your fear of the rejection and your ego trying to avoid damage.
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Anonymous
6/11/2025, 5:19:17 AM No.33201157
>>33200513 (OP)
They want to be approached by hot men, yes.
Anonymous
6/11/2025, 10:33:57 PM No.33204844
>>33200856
>If she isnt, she will make excuses rather than confront you, such as being busy.

simple as that