How do I cope with the fact that dominant women basically don't exist
No I'm not perpetually submissive, but I would very much like a girl to just use me from time to time
Unfortunately, it doesn't exist outside of fantasy

>>33201333 (OP)
jerk off to porn
leave the women to me

>>33201333 (OP)
>dominant women don’t exist
Why are you so confident about this lol. Please touch grass and talk to women.

>>33201333 (OP)
Dominant women do exist. But they're fucking awful, OP. Your fantasy is male-coded, so your image of the dominant woman will stink of male projection. You expect a dominant woman to snu-snu you, right? To have an insatiable sexual appetite and use your dick or face like an object to get her off whenever she decides to use you? Yeah very hot and all.

But that's not reality. Reality for dominant women is she will pussywhip the ever loving shit out of you, nag you relentlessly, henpeck you, shit test you maliciously, manipulate you, and pluck your heart strings until they break. Then she'll take most of your money, she'll take and give nothing, and if you complain she just cheats on you on a whim.

Dominant women are usually highly mentally ill IRL. Because women are not meant to dominate, it goes against their nature.

>>33202071
>she will pussywhip the ever loving shit out of you, nag you relentlessly, henpeck you, shit test you maliciously, manipulate you, and pluck your heart strings until they break. Then she'll take most of your money, she'll take and give nothing, and if you complain she just cheats on you on a whim.
How is this any different than the average woman?

>>33202165
I always imagined a lot of that is women basically being forced into "dominant" position. They marry some guy and he stops giving a shit, so she's left to wear the pants and head the family.

Either that or they just marry some guy they never really liked to begin with for utilitarian reasons (single mothers come to mind) and it's basically them leading their own life with some beta in tow.

>>33202165
That ain't the average woman. The average woman does exist, but it's one of those things in life that is relative and personal.

The average woman for an escortmaxxer is a whore. Because in average he only bothers to interact with whores.

The average woman for a spineless simp is a domineering narcissistic cunt. Because he only ever bothered to choose women who love attention like it's oxygen.

You attract what you're attracted to my nigga. If that type of woman is your average, then you might wanna change up your life

>>33202211
>It's the man's fault the woman had to be dominant

See this is what I'm talking about, the power of the pussywhip. Notice how you pussywhip other men on women's behalf with your post there, your first instinct is to blame the man lol.

>>33202219
Not sure what you're on about. I never cried "woe is the poor women!". I just explained a situation where the guy stops giving a fuck and the gal is left to pick up the slack and basically be the man of the house. It's not like it's fantasy either, i've seen it irl. If it makes you feel any better the opposite happens just as well. I just think in the case of women it turn them bitter and cunty since they're having to basically be the man, instead of doing their part and getting a slap on the ass and a good job.

>>33202211
>I always imagined a lot of that is women basically being forced into "dominant" position. They marry some guy and he stops giving a shit, so she's left to wear the pants and head the family.
You say that like boomer women weren't giant whores who started divorcing and cheating on men left and right.
This is the end result of "girl bossing"
>>33202212
>If that type of woman is your average, then you might wanna change up your life
I live in LA, all the girls here are fucking nuts.
Every single one of my friends has been cheated on by their girlfriends and they all get whipped by them.
I even have friends simping for girls that aren't even fucking them.

>>33202258
>You say that like boomer women weren't giant whores who started divorcing and cheating on men left and right.
>This is the end result of "girl bossing"
Not sure what this has to do with what i said. If anything you should have quoted the second half of the post, them marrying some schmuck they don't like for utilitarian reasons.

>>33201333 (OP)
I do exist and my male sub does, too.
Took us a while to find one another though.

Unlike the clowns above stating women 'ruining men' is part of BDSM I'll state the normal case: men sexually abuse women left and right since they are sexpests. Women's nature is not 'stealing money from men and being subby', but 'living every day in fear a rapehon meets them'.
JFC read some social studies

>>33202258
>I live in LA
Say no more senpai. Get out of LA. Do not spend your life in any large city, not just LA. Move to the country or the suburbs at the least. It's already proven that socially, humans inherit transient psychopathy from city-dwelling. I'm not making this up.

The human mind only has capacity to feel empathy for up to 150 people at most. If you live in a big city, you pass 1,000 people by on the street every day.

What does this mean? It means empathy gets dulled in the city. It becomes normalized to have blunted empathy. Which means you date a girl with blunted empathy, another city dweller but with tits. And when she is confronted with the chance to get short term gain, like attention from another guy, guess what happens? Low empathy kicks in, she cheats without batting an eye.

Get the fuck out of the city bro.

>>33202291
>but 'living every day in fear a rapehon meets them'.
Guys more or less have this same fear, we just don't shout it out or pretend we're special for having it. I carry a gun and knife for a reason.

>>33202291
>Men sexually abuse women left and right

Except that isn't true. Even if we take the claim of "1 in 5 women are raped" that gets thrown around, that still means 75% of men don't rape. So no, men don't abuse women left and right.

What it means is you probably got abused though. And your whole gimmick is to become an abuser yourself. Congratulations on becoming exactly like the person(s) who harmed you.

>>33201333 (OP)
1. Get into a healthy normal vanilla sexual relationship.
2. Suggest it some night

>>33202479
OP here, I am 90% dominant, I just want to indulge in this fantasy from time to time
>>33202291
And how did you meet them?

>>33203342
All the better. If she is comfortable with power play, she will be open to "Let's switch tonight"