Thread 33202714 - /adv/ [Archived: 1795 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/11/2025, 1:01:38 PM No.33202714
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Girl I’ve been seeing for the past 2 months practically blocked me from everything for going to my sisters graduation. Her reasoning was I put myself in a situation where there were other girls around. She is very insecure and knows this. Had me update her everywhere I went (pictures, videos, what kind of girls are around) one time I didn’t answer her calls because I was sleeping and she left me a voicemail crying asking where I am and she can’t believe she gave me a second chance (first time she caught me lying about the conversations I was having with my bros, made it seem like they were good guys) anywho yeah I’m blocked, it’s been maybe 4 days since we officially ended it I guess. She left up a playlist on Spotify with 5 songs that are pretty much about heartbreak and missing me loving me etc. What do? As fucked up as it sounds I like her. She doesn’t go out at all. Plays vidya. And is really fun when things are alright. Only absolute way to get in contact is to either call her number using *67, wait until she gets on a game we used to play together, or go over(not doing this)
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Anonymous
6/11/2025, 2:09:05 PM No.33202803
>she doesn't go out at all
clearly
>plays vidya
oh wowsers that's so unique and quirky... 30 years ago, today that's like saying she likes Taylor Swift, who give a shit?
>she's fun when things are alright
most abusive and controlling people are, hence how they get people in their web to begin with. A girl who's going to have a melty over you going to your sister's graduation isn't worth your time.
Anonymous
6/11/2025, 2:28:56 PM No.33202851
Move on you fucking retard. Shes clearly mentally unstable and insecure as fuck. But you won't because your a pathetic low value male who gets no bitches and is afraid of losing access to her pussy.
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Anonymous
6/11/2025, 2:52:27 PM No.33202904
>>33202714 (OP)
sounds like a good thing that you broke up, she sounds extremely insecure and manipulative
you really wanna live on her leash for the rest of your life?
Anonymous
6/11/2025, 3:15:51 PM No.33203014
>>33202714 (OP)
2 months and already this problematic.

Just leave. There's nothing of value to gain there. You can find any positive traits she has in other women, but the negatives are flags as red as mars.

Run.
Anonymous
6/11/2025, 3:46:31 PM No.33203100
Sooo… leave her alone?
Anonymous
6/11/2025, 4:28:41 PM No.33203240
>>33202714 (OP)
good, leave her
these girls will ask for an inch but take a mile and they'll never be satisfied until you're in a glass cage (not that glass cage) and only they have access to you, they'll alienate you from family and friends until you only have them
t. been with that kind of psycho, my friend circle barely recovered, I've heard her next bf lost them all including female relatives.
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 7:29:02 AM No.33206872
>>33202851
>low value male
Maybe he juat really loved her, you projecting retard
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 8:21:10 PM No.33209277
>>33206872
He 'loves' an insane controlling woman, no self respecting man would put with something like that
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 8:39:32 PM No.33209349
>>33202714 (OP)
>My gf broke up with me because she said I put myself in a situation where there were other girls around by going to my sister’s graduation
Red flag.
>implying she doesn’t allow other situations where girls are even present
Red flag.
>She is very insecure. She sats she knows this, but makes no mentionable attempt to change.
Red flag.
>She has me update her everywhere I go (pictures, videos, what kind of girls are around)
Red flag.
>one time I didn’t answer her calls because I was sleeping and she left me a voicemail crying
Red flag.
>she caught me lying about the conversations I was having with my bros, made it seem like they were good guys, said she “gave me a second chance” when she did not break up over that
Red flag.
>I’m blocked now
Red flag.
>She doesn’t go out at all herself
Red flag.

OP, if you flip the genders here, your gf is the exact kind of person that the pamphlets at the library with the phone number for the battered women’s shelter warn people about. You have been abused.

Here’s a link, but feel free to look up other resources
https://www.thehotline.org/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=domestic_violence