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Previously on ATOGA: >>33197628

>>33202791 (OP)
Women, would you date a fat and balding guy?

I hate women.

>>33202714

>>33202791 (OP)
artists always shoving in our faces how much nonhumans love BHC.......

Have you ever seen those young people that have this uncanny valley effect because they have been using retinol and AHAs since age ten and now their skin looks like plastic? Real creepy.

>>33202799
Do you think alien women make and read smut about human men?

>compare hands with a girl
>hers are bigger
On a scale from 1 to 10, how over is it, where 1 is "it's over" and 10 is "it never even began"

>>33202801
Most young people I see have worse skin than I do, not sure if it's the vaping or what.

>>33202806
10

>>33202806
Did you make her feel bad about it?

>>33202806
That sounds pretty hot desu, I'm curious now if you have abnormally small hands or how tall she is?
Anyway wouldn't say it's necessarily over, the same way a lot of girls don't care if the guy is shorter

>>33202801
It's botox and fillers that make skin look weird like that, not retinol or ahas

Friend just shared this meme
Can't be the only one who thinks she's hotter now...

>every famous person had an encouraging mother or father even when they were poor
Shit, no wonder.

>>33202814
she went from normalfag teenage fantasy to men of refined taste fantasy

>>33202814
hot in both

>>33202814
Not a fan of short hair on women

Women,
Are you more likely to respond to a /soc/ post with a protonmail or a discord?

>>33202820
Fair, that might be the crux desu, I've always loved short hair and think she pulls it off really well

>>33202814
the haircut sucks but other than that she looks fine

>>33202820
I actually really like the "punk feminist side buzz"

It’s so hard to make new friends I don’t know how to do this

>>33202827
I had a crush on a baddie like this and went back to her place one night
She introduced me to her gf...

>>33202804
Alien women probably see human men as wild and uncivilized wich adds a taboo aspect similar to the blacked fetish.

>>33202830
Such is life.
Unfortunate that most girls who are open enough to not look "feminine" are typically lesbians.

>>33202834
Yeah legit, I guess there is a crossover...
Guess I got kinda lucky that my gf is pretty tomboyish but bi

>>33202824
The quality’s also really bad

>>33202804
Well a lot of UFO abduction narratives seem to involve an ethereal alien chick trying to bang a human guy, never heard of a woman saying an alien man tried to do her. I've always figured that if true it's a DNA harvesting thing and you're probably fucking the equivalent of those fake cows farmers use for bulls.

>>33202814
Anon the short hair is from like 10 years ago

Why is it that when you come across a cute girl, there is always her friend sending you the signals?
Why is life so complicated?

There's some seething nigger in my neighborhood that's breaking my sidewalk plants.
At first I thought it was because the plants were too close to the path, but then I took care of a plant on the other side of the sidewalk that could be mistaken as being the neighbor's but was actually mine, and the nigger had never touched that one, but then he did after I watered it and took care of it.
I guess the nigger is trying to make me angry by damaging the plants, but I actually find it funny that my mere existence makes this nigger seethe so much he's taking it out on some poor sidewalk plants.
The thing is that I'm new in this neighborhood and don't know anyone here. I don't even go out or talk to anyone or play loud music or anything.
And yet, they're still seething about me. Kek.

I know that asking why a nigger behaves like a nigger answers its own question, but still, imagine it's you in their place: why would you do this? It's pretty bizarre.

>>33202830
>>33202834
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t76ly1um59A
Reminds me of this

>>33202841
Wow you can really tell she’s hiding wrinkles with her makeup.

>>33202844
Are you sure it's not a dog?

>>33202832
I'd let an alien mommy tame me, I'm soooo uncivilized hehe just a dumb human boy who can't think for himself

>>33202814
>>33202817
having said that there is something quite funny about someone seeing a woman age and going "oh my GOD don't you think this woman low key aged?" like yeah no shit

>>33202843
I find the fat jealous friend is more common, but I found a cool trick to get her off your back
>Hey I'm gonna get us some wings and fries
sometimes you gotta go nuclear and get her the cheese sticks too

>>33202845
what a banger

>>33202808
RIP me
>>33202809
We kind of just dropped it, I'm not sure if she really cared
>>33202810
I don't THINK I have small hands... I definitely don't have big hands though. She was like 5'9" maybe?

>>33202857
>We kind of just dropped it, I'm not sure if she really cared
Are you sure, or are you just being oblivious.
Usually tall girls don't mind being tall until someone does this "are you taller than me" thing and then makes them feel shit about it.

>>33202847
You really can't hide wrinkles with make up lol, it's fillers and sometimes filters

>>33202854
No, these two were both cute. Would be a wash who'd be considered cuter. But only one of them caught my eye.
Also this was at the doctors office. They are both nurses.

>>33202860
Is 5'9" tall?

I love women so much
I wish I could fall in love

>>33202864
I dunno, are you taller than her?

>>33202843
I have never had a girl send me signals

>>33202866
Yeah, but not by much because I'm a short retard

>>33202848
Referring to a nigger as a dog is insulting to dogs, anon.
A dog is more civilized than that.

>>33202864
NTA but for a girl, absolutely yes unless you're in the Netherlands or Scandinavia

>>33202868
Who knows, maybe she really doesn't care.

>>33202870
Australia, it's not unusual at all as far as I know here
>>33202871
At the very least I'm pretty sure I care more than she does

>>33202870
or the US or any other place in Europe or Korea or Japan or Australia, or, indeed, any developed country.

>>33202861
Oh ok this one’s really obvious. I guess that’s mostly why she looks weird and she’s 40 now.

hi women, i've unlocked the secrets of consciousness and now i'm scared about how i act around you. can you help me calm down?

>>33202861
Also looks like she’s had Botox

The only feminist women I respect are the radfem conservative terf ones. You can't be a whore and be out her talking about how men objectify you and how we're perverted.

>>33202863
>both nurses
blech, throw the catch back and cast again tomorrow

>>33202872
>>33202873
5'9 is tall for a girl, I'm about half an inch shorter and I'm always the tall one. I know maybe 2 other girls tops who are taller than me

>>33202880
maybe it's more logically consistent, but the egirls who play the 'teehee silly boys don't objectify me~' game are way more fun

>>33202879
Fucking everyone's had botox what's your point

>>33202880
it does make sense, actually, mainstream feminism has yet to consider the concept and masculine implications of cognitive dissonance from the female perspective, and until then women will happily maintain cognitive dissonance because they have yet to rationalize getting rid of it. i do suppose terfs represent this branch

(these are the kinds of silly things you engage it when you become ideologically captured)

>>33202880
>>33202883
Seems logically consistent to me
>1. Freedom is good. Dressing the way you want is an expression of freedom. It doesn't impact other people and is therefore not a bad action. It therefore shouldn't be shamed.
>2. I will use my freedom to dress a certain way because I enjoy it.
>3. I do not mind if other people find this sexy. In fact, I probably like that.
>4. Just because you find me sexy doesn't mean you have to pretend there's no brain and soul beneath my flesh. That is a whole different and unrelated proposition and I oppose it.

Men, would you prefer rum raisin cookies or chocolate-coconut donut holes?

>>33202880
I actually respect TERFs less because they were totally fine with all of the progressive bullshit destroying men's stuff and only had a problem with it when they started being impacted, they want to have their cake and eat it too. They may claim to hate trannies, but if they had the options
>get rid of all trannies in media and private spaces
>get rid of trannies just in women's spaces, increase LGBTQ stuff in men's media and hobbies
they'd choose the second one every time. They're erstwhile allies at best, and they're worse than the oblivious handmaiden types who are essentially just sheep, the TERF knows most of her beliefs are wrong but advocates for them anyways out of selfishness.

>>33202887
I have never heard of either of these things
Firstly, I hate raisins in biscuits, so I will never choose rum and raisin biscuits. Chocolate-coconut sounds good but what the fuck is a doughnut hole
Rum and raisin is a top tier flavour outside of biscuits though.

>>33202887
Any autism friendly flavor texture combos?
Otherwise chocolate coconut donut holes, hate raisins.

>>33202887
chocolate-coconut, how is this even a question? raisins suck dicks and balls (and not in the good kind)

Is there a lot of women that are into somnophilia ?

>>33202892
no. touch grass, take your meds

>>33202886
>muh freedom
>I will use my newfound freedom to objectify myself
>nooo why are you objectifying meeee
There's no consistency. They're being whores with their freedom then complaining why people treat them and see them as whores.
Your mental gymnastics don't change that fact.

>>33202892
no, but there's a lot of them into rape

>>33202886
if you accumulate thousands of followers because you post your ass in yoga pants then nobody's under any obligation to pretend that they respect you for your intellect. egirls are perfectly free to create alt accounts and find out exactly how many people care about their philosophical musings when their asses in yoga pants aren't attached, if they're serious about that. but they aren't serious about it, they're just teasing their followers, and it's all in good fun when it's done well.

I miss being a femcel who did nothing. Trying to get out there and make friends just ends with my feelings being hurt

>>33202874
>>33202879
She's had a lot of work done on her face which almost always makes women look older than their years imo

Why do moids like this long winded, boring telenovela shit?

>>33202895
You made a logical leap there. How are they objectifying themselves? I don't see any reason that wearing (for example) miniskirts thigh highs cat ears and a crop top would lead to you thinking that you don't have a personality and autonomy.
>>33202898
Correct, nobody is under any obligation to pretend that people watch porn stars for their intellectual discourse. And I have never seen anyone argue for that, either. Are you on some incredibly niche corner of the internet where people argue that or did you just sort of pull it out of your arse?

thoughts on calling your partner instead of texting and does it bother you if your partner is a dry texter? my gf said i’m old fashioned because i call and never text, yet we are on the phone for 2 hours and she refuses to hang up so surely she likes it

>>33202899
That's just what happens, people love hurting people's feelings.

>>33202892
I see a lot of fearmongering about men having sex with women in their sleep across the internet, and I've come to the conclusion that it's likely women fetish trolling because most men aren't going to bother to sleep-rape their own wife/gf and it would be borderline impossible to pull that off without waking her up unless she's washing ambien down with vodka before bed.

it's especially dumb because people ARE objects, we are just also more than objects at the same time, however it's perfectly reasonable to objectify people because we have a physical, objective appearance

>>33202899
Can relate.
Sometime ago another anon compared learning to be social with going to the gym.
But it's actually different. It's more akin to people kicking your shins and pushing the bar on your neck while you're trying to benchpress, then lying to everyone about you so they kick you out, and then spreading rumors so other gyms don't let you work out in peace and do the same to you as well.
I would rather stay home.

>>33202889
>>33202890
>>33202891
Based on these responses, I have to assume all men hate raisins in baked goods.

>>33202902
>Are you on some incredibly niche corner of the internet where people argue that or did you just sort of pull it out of your arse?
i suppose it's occasioned by aella's orchestrated meltdown a few days ago, but there are many tiktok thirst traps who pull this act as well. i don't think this is some obscure phenomenon.

>>33202841
Shit I forgot she's an astronaut now
>>33202845
Lol based song
>>33202857
>She was like 5'9" maybe
Damn that is pretty tall (hot)
Are you interested in her
>>33202864
To me it is but I'm 5'7"
>>33202887
The former probs

>>33202899
are you sure you're being totally hinged? if your feelings are being constantly hurt, that is pointing to an issue where either you're not good at filtering worthwhile people, or you're overly sensitive, or you're causing problems for worthwhile people, (or you're just really unlucky, which happens although it becomes less likely as this experience repeats over time)

>>33202903
F. I really prefer a daily call for an hour over texting throughout the day.

>>33202911
i like raisins and hate coconut but i was afraid that bulbous might argue with me if i said so.

>>33202899
True, but you don't avoid the hurt by staying isolated. Might as well learn to take the good with the bad since the bad is always there no matter what

Why are there so many tall girls here? Is it because giraffettes are more manly and thus resonate with 4chan?

>>33202911
raisins, even in their best use case, are ALWAYS worse than chocolate. nobody is ever happy to bite into something, expecting chocolate, only for it to be raisins, and so i think it makes sense

>>33202901
I have the first few volumes of this lol
>long winded, boring telenovelas
They're entertaining
>>33202903
I hate talking to people in any capacity so I just let my gf call me and yap on the phone

>>33202919
statistically speaking, the likeliest explanation is that 4chan has a relatively high ratio of trannies to biofems.

>>33202901
>telenovela shit
Buenos dias senora!

>>33202925
O_O

>>33202903
That's cute, calling you old fashioned isn't a bad thing she's just teasing you a bit. Texting can be exhausting

>>33202903
for entirely practical to my moment-to-moment routine, i really prefer texting because i like listening to music and have a hard time talking because basically i'm a fucking moron (autistic). but in a domestic situation, i would rather be left alone when i need to do stuff and then we can be around each other a lot whenever i'm done doing that stuff

>>33202900
Why do celebrities think that makes their lips look good? It’s comical really.

>>33202799
Xenophilia isn't that gender specific

>>33202911
I'm the oatmeal guy from yesterday, I love raisins lol. I used to eat all of the oatmeal raisin cookies from nursing homes when I visited.

>>33202901
nobody unironically likes kanokari. we all hatewatch it. watching it is a contest to see who can hate it most, and who can hate miyajima most.

>>33202916
>daily call for an hour
If my gf wanted fo call for an hour every single day I think I'd shoot myself
I tend to spend a few hours with her IRL per day though

>>33202902
There is no leap, whore. You ARE a worthless sexual object. Being a whore doesn't give you any personality, let alone autonomy.

>>33202914
>Shit I forgot she's an astronaut now
They looked liked characters from the Fall Out tv show lol

>>33202942
Any kind of talk time is fine with me. An hour a day is the minimum I'd like, either in person or on the phone.

>>33202946
Legit, I like the fits but this this is some Barbie Star Light Adventure-ahh drip

>>33202946
I hate the rich.
They should gib me some.

>>33202947
>hour a day is the minimum I'd like, either in person
Ah k if you count IRL time too then that's fair

>>33202906
If there is not consent before i'm not interested in it, too intimate for someone other than a wife , and i've heard stories where the wife did not woke up even if there was no substance involved , just heavy sleeper , may be false tho but can't verify.

With the ozempic and pilates shift, do men only like super skinny girls again? Do male tastes change with trends?
I just saw a video of a woman who was maybe BMI 22 with a round face and people were calling her fat and unhealthy, but that's in the cutest range in my opinion.

>be me, 29m, dating gf for one year
>talk about marriage and family
>drunkenly tells me she sees us being engaged within the next 6 months to a year, talk about it all night
>her parents are talking about weddings and stuff. Dad asking her what song she’ll pick for their dance, mom talking about how we should consider school districts if we buy a house, brother telling people about me saying I’m the one and that our wedding is gonna be electric
>she asks me to get old with her and we talk about a life together

I am suddenly terrified. I’ve wanted this my whole life and she is the first woman I’ve truly loved. It’s so good but yet I all of a sudden feel so scared.
Like the idea that “holy shit this could actually be it” feels scary. Like I want her and I want to be with her and think that she and I can do all the things together. But I’ve been like anxious and hyper vigilant again and small shifts and details are making me nervous she’s pulling away when there’s really no evidence she’s going anywhere.

I’m like scared and idk what to do. She could really be the one. I don’t want to fuck it up or lose her.
She always hides jumps out at me to scare me. It’s funny. This morning I had a dream she jumped out at me when I opened the bathroom door but then she disappeared and the house was empty. I can’t stop thinking about it.

>>33202903
Depends. I like just random texts, sending each other silly memes for example or making plans for the weekend, that I can read and react to when I have a minute during the day. If we see each other every weekend then calling every day is not necessary, I prefer to actually have something to talk after a few days unless it‘s important or urgent. I detest yapping for the sake of yapping and staying on a call when there is little of substance to talk about. Generally I hate when people call me without warning or for no reason.

>>33202791 (OP)
M 23
What makes one an incel? What makes someone who's single like me any different from incels? I mean, while I do subscribe to some looksmaxxing concepts like mewing per se, I do believe that I can work towards getting the woman I want and making up for lost time.

>>33202914
>Are you interested in her
She's RIDICULOUSLY hot, I mean legitimately outrageously hot, and an interesting person we get along yadda yadda but it's all totally irrelevant because I'm a massive loser she just finds mildly entertaining at times and unintimidating. It's 200% never ever and I don't delude myself into thinking I'm anything more than an orbiter.

>>33202954
They probably just hated her round face, but also psychos on the internet

>>33202954
Obese is not thick nigger.
Don't take ozempic though, that WILL kill your bone mass.

>>33202946
They should do a space orgy next

>>33202919
4chan? Manly?

>>33202946
Katy is the only one who looks human. Disgusting bogged whores.

>>33202936
#oathed