Anonymous
6/11/2025, 6:48:41 PM No.33203844
Should i be straight honest about my intentions from the beginning on tinder? And how should i do it?
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Anonymous
6/11/2025, 6:55:31 PM No.33203875
>>33203844 (OP)
No, it's generally better not to. Even the women looking to just fuck generally don't like being upfront about it. Exceptions would be divorced older women, married women with cuck husbands, and women looking to cheat. Those are the only ones who are very upfront and don't play around it.
That said, you should work on controlling your lust. It only leads to bad places. Speaking from experience. Just trying to fuck is born from needing to satiate base needs. You should strive for higher pursuits and actually find a partner.
No, it's generally better not to. Even the women looking to just fuck generally don't like being upfront about it. Exceptions would be divorced older women, married women with cuck husbands, and women looking to cheat. Those are the only ones who are very upfront and don't play around it.
That said, you should work on controlling your lust. It only leads to bad places. Speaking from experience. Just trying to fuck is born from needing to satiate base needs. You should strive for higher pursuits and actually find a partner.
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 10:57:15 AM No.33207267
>>33203875
Why bang the same pussy over and over again if you can help it? You should be spreading your seed to as many women as possible, it is your biological duty as a man. Also women are typically whores anyway so your relationship would likely end in travesty.
Why bang the same pussy over and over again if you can help it? You should be spreading your seed to as many women as possible, it is your biological duty as a man. Also women are typically whores anyway so your relationship would likely end in travesty.
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 11:05:25 AM No.33207275
>>33203844 (OP)
Everyone wants to fuck there, you don't need to be autistic about it. You won't be arrested for lying about it. Just say "undecided, it depends etc." when it's about if you want a relationship.
Everyone wants to fuck there, you don't need to be autistic about it. You won't be arrested for lying about it. Just say "undecided, it depends etc." when it's about if you want a relationship.
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 2:58:10 PM No.33207842
they want me to pay $10k to worship their feet for an hour while they don’t charge blacks anything. I hate my life, I’ll never get to have my dream.
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 3:00:54 PM No.33207857
>>33207267
Women and men on Tinder are typically whores, yes, so everyone’s at home with each other
Women and men on Tinder are typically whores, yes, so everyone’s at home with each other
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 3:18:00 PM No.33207903
>>33203844 (OP)
It’s tough.
You want to be straightforward and honest, but outright saying that all you want to do is have sex is ultimately going to be a major turn off in most cases.
Put your charm on and I would suggest you say something along the lines of only being on the app to ‘have fun’ and that you’re not looking for a relationship yet.
Do this after you get to know them a bit but before your fully on a date. It’s a delicate dance and it can lead to rejection (ESPECIALLY on apps) but if you’re patient and earn their investment in you before talking about sex your chances of getting laid go up.
You also don’t want to make them feel pressure in anyway. You gotta accept that you gotta do a date first and it can go either way.
Be respectful, well groomed and honest about who you are.
It’s tough.
You want to be straightforward and honest, but outright saying that all you want to do is have sex is ultimately going to be a major turn off in most cases.
Put your charm on and I would suggest you say something along the lines of only being on the app to ‘have fun’ and that you’re not looking for a relationship yet.
Do this after you get to know them a bit but before your fully on a date. It’s a delicate dance and it can lead to rejection (ESPECIALLY on apps) but if you’re patient and earn their investment in you before talking about sex your chances of getting laid go up.
You also don’t want to make them feel pressure in anyway. You gotta accept that you gotta do a date first and it can go either way.
Be respectful, well groomed and honest about who you are.
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 3:59:36 PM No.33208072
>>33203844 (OP)
If you're not a special outlier top-10%er who gets laid easily (probable since you're making this post):
a decent strategy is to mention (early on, or in your bio) you're actually looking for a long term relationship, then have sex, then slow fade / ghost / tell her you don't think it's gonna work / behave like an asshole / etc.
then move onto the next woman
for normal men, being honest about looking for casual sex is just shooting yourself in the foot
If you're not a special outlier top-10%er who gets laid easily (probable since you're making this post):
a decent strategy is to mention (early on, or in your bio) you're actually looking for a long term relationship, then have sex, then slow fade / ghost / tell her you don't think it's gonna work / behave like an asshole / etc.
then move onto the next woman
for normal men, being honest about looking for casual sex is just shooting yourself in the foot
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 5:44:01 PM No.33208523
>>33207267
Because it's how you get STDs and unwanted pregnancies, it's ultimately a hollow experience without love/romance, and the types of women who are interested in this lifestyle are untrustworthy. I'm giving you this advice as a man who's already lived it. If I could go back in time, I would never engage in my hoe phase.
Because it's how you get STDs and unwanted pregnancies, it's ultimately a hollow experience without love/romance, and the types of women who are interested in this lifestyle are untrustworthy. I'm giving you this advice as a man who's already lived it. If I could go back in time, I would never engage in my hoe phase.
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 7:10:44 PM No.33208972
>>33203844 (OP)
Yeah. It's fucking gross but dont manipulate people into sex, lots of people just want to hang so if you say that it will be a win.
Yeah. It's fucking gross but dont manipulate people into sex, lots of people just want to hang so if you say that it will be a win.
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 7:25:44 PM No.33209055
>>33203844 (OP)
You can but it only works if you are a Chad.
Women now have an abundance of men to chose from online. Every average woman and above who has social media, and they all do, is bombarded with hordes of male attention and suitors. But this also happens in real life, at school, in their social circle and everywhere else they go. They are importing millions of men every year into the west and have been doing this for decades now. The competition is fierce and you are now not only competing with your countrymen males but also endless supply of third worlders, some of which are hard working, decent looking, and willing to breed the average white woman and wage his life away for a chance to wash away his non-white genes.
No point mentioning the fact that all women who are worth their shit are already taken or the fact that a large part of women would rather be part of Chads harem playing the sex kitten.
You can but it only works if you are a Chad.
Women now have an abundance of men to chose from online. Every average woman and above who has social media, and they all do, is bombarded with hordes of male attention and suitors. But this also happens in real life, at school, in their social circle and everywhere else they go. They are importing millions of men every year into the west and have been doing this for decades now. The competition is fierce and you are now not only competing with your countrymen males but also endless supply of third worlders, some of which are hard working, decent looking, and willing to breed the average white woman and wage his life away for a chance to wash away his non-white genes.
No point mentioning the fact that all women who are worth their shit are already taken or the fact that a large part of women would rather be part of Chads harem playing the sex kitten.
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 9:27:33 PM No.33209530
>>33208072
Strongly disagree with this, because assuming you want to have a lot of casual sex, you want to select for women interested in having a LOT of it in a timely manner.
The men and women having a lot of sex are overwhelmingly nowhere near as attractive as anons think they are. Every swinger, kink scene participant, and polyamorous person is having 800x the sex you and basically EVERYONE else is, and they do it by being "the kind of person who doesn't have a problem fucking the other EXTREMELY horny and homely people". You, too, can thrive among them if your goal is exclusively to fuck.
This kind of slow-roll bullshitting means you're lying about your intentions in a way that aware women will pick up on and detest, is explicitly selecting for women who are going to date slower, is going to lead to them scrutinizing your personality and grilling you much harder than someone casual, and if you do care at all about the moral aspect of it, is generally just a shitty thing to do. Would recommend avoiding this.
>>33207267
>You should be spreading your seed to as many women as possible
first, you don't actually wanna get these women pregnant generally, you just wanna fuck, and second, even if you did, what you're describing doesn't work in an era of DNA testing. Match group dating apps are responsive to subpoenas in parentage cases, which can compel disclosure of name, phone number, pictures, and basically all necessary info to serve papers. The real question is
>do you want to pay child support to random tinder chicks
for which the answer is obvious.
>>33207903
The have fun stance is pretty much what you should go for - it's a more positive spin on "this probably isn't going anywhere formal" without putting a hard no on that.
Strongly disagree with this, because assuming you want to have a lot of casual sex, you want to select for women interested in having a LOT of it in a timely manner.
The men and women having a lot of sex are overwhelmingly nowhere near as attractive as anons think they are. Every swinger, kink scene participant, and polyamorous person is having 800x the sex you and basically EVERYONE else is, and they do it by being "the kind of person who doesn't have a problem fucking the other EXTREMELY horny and homely people". You, too, can thrive among them if your goal is exclusively to fuck.
This kind of slow-roll bullshitting means you're lying about your intentions in a way that aware women will pick up on and detest, is explicitly selecting for women who are going to date slower, is going to lead to them scrutinizing your personality and grilling you much harder than someone casual, and if you do care at all about the moral aspect of it, is generally just a shitty thing to do. Would recommend avoiding this.
>>33207267
>You should be spreading your seed to as many women as possible
first, you don't actually wanna get these women pregnant generally, you just wanna fuck, and second, even if you did, what you're describing doesn't work in an era of DNA testing. Match group dating apps are responsive to subpoenas in parentage cases, which can compel disclosure of name, phone number, pictures, and basically all necessary info to serve papers. The real question is
>do you want to pay child support to random tinder chicks
for which the answer is obvious.
>>33207903
The have fun stance is pretty much what you should go for - it's a more positive spin on "this probably isn't going anywhere formal" without putting a hard no on that.