>went out with girl
>had a good time
>agree to hangout again
>setup hangout for today
>confirm date
>she says shes down but asked if it was cool that she invited her guy friend

So I got 2 options now. Make up an excuse closer to the """date""" saying I'm busy or whatever or go and try and get something going with the guy there.

How do I avoid looking like a bitch?

>>33203871 (OP)
Tell her no because you thought this was a date

>>33203871 (OP)
>she says shes down but asked if it was cool that she invited her guy friend
Why didn't you tell her that no, it wasn't cool?

>>33203902
>>33203890
I'm autistic and it was a phone confirmation I spilled my spaghetti. I'm on damage control now, but if I cancel I feel like she will get the message.

She doesn’t want it to be a date so she’s trying to let you down easy Jesus fuck how socially incompetent are you retards
Cut her off and run the other way she’s a duplicitous pos

>>33203871 (OP)
She might want her gay pal to vet you

>>33203905
>im autistic
Forgive me for calling you socially incompetent. You are but have some excuse
Lie to her. Dates are 1 on 1, so just lie to cancel because she’s lying to cancel on you anyway (she’s lying that it would still be a date)
Anything believable. She won’t interrogate. Fuck her, run the other way

>>33203871 (OP)
you've already dipped into the friendzone territory, it's over

>>33203922
I know her guy friend he's actually a cool guy and he's 100% into her but hes in the eternal friendzone.

I've known this woman for like 5 years.

>>33203936
So she wants to put you two simps on the same orbit, I see...

>>33203871 (OP)
>>33203905
Yeah you should've just said no. Even if you're an autist, you need to learn how to say what you want and set boundaries. If you can't do that, you aren't ready for a relationship, because the woman will walk all over you. But it's okay to make mistakes. Just bear this in mind.

>>33203936
Then what other anons are saying might not be correct. Most likely, she told him about the date and he asked to come along because he's seething his ass off. This is actually bad for you. He is a "cockblock." The only type of cockblock worse than a friendzoned male friend is a fat/ugly female friend. So you are almost surely going nowhere on this date, it will be a wash. But don't cancel or you'll seem like a flaky faggot. You made a mistake, just go on the date and be friendly with the faggot guy friend, try to get him to like you if you can. But never agree to let that fag tag along again, he is being a useless leech.

>>33203959
Well the background is I dated her friend, we broke up a couple years back, and I didn't ask her out since they were still friends and we ended amicably.

I later find out this friend and my ex now hate each other and my ex cheated on my during the relationship so I stopped giving a shit but we hadn't seen each other in like 3 years.

This is a test. She's checking if you have balls.

The correct response is "Nah I'm just interested in hanging out just the two of us"

>>33204055
We're past that part unless I circle back and then say I want a 1 on 1 after the agreement.

>>33204074
"he was scared at first but then he manned up" is infinitely better than "He has no balls".
She's a woman. She knows you want to fuck her and she knows seeing each other alone is a date.
And she knows full well that the situation she's placed you into forces you to either decide to tell her what you want, or to sit down and be a cuck.

Theres a very obvious right answer, and wrong answer, unless you want to be a cuck

>>33204074
the sigma move is to cancel five minutes before they're supposed to arrive with some shit like forgot i had to run an errand

OP here. I cancelled and I told her to have a good time with the guy.

She instantly responded and said she wasnt gonna hang out with him alone and she was free weekends now if I wanted to get together.

I asked if she was free Sat and she said yeah and I asked her out and she said wait I forgot I had a date but if he cancels I'll let you know.

I'm out lmao.

>>33204765
Gj

>>33204765
shes playing games, drop her and dont look back this girl is wayyyy more trouble than any pucci is worth

>>33204765
holy shit bro you got played
next time stay strong you almost had her

>>33206125
stay strong as in continue along with their threesome date like a cuckold?

>>33206166
No you shouldnt have given in right away when she came back

>>33206184
playing games is for retards
OP is better off without the bitch, why should he start playing games?

>>33204529
Go full sigma and make it an insulting joke.
> Oh sorry, I gotta cancel last minute. I forgot I'm asexual.