Well I fucked up. - /adv/ (#33205045) [Archived: 1786 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/11/2025, 11:15:51 PM No.33205045
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Working this project with a girl, I though I was being smooth by making her my administrative lead, but I think she saw through it as a way to talk more regularly.

It sounds trashier than it is, I might as well as well give my self the ability to talk to her, this is a girl I thin likes me on some level.
I have a feeling it makes me look bitch made in her eyes.

How fucked am I?
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Anonymous
6/11/2025, 11:21:38 PM No.33205071
there's only tension because you want there to be. act as though it was her ability to talk and do administrative lead stuff that made her magnetic to you. then if she turns you down, fine, but it's understandable and not Machiavellian that you wanted good worker girl in your life
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Anonymous
6/11/2025, 11:22:17 PM No.33205075
Snap her your dick to present your alpha energy anon
Anonymous
6/11/2025, 11:22:54 PM No.33205077
>>33205045 (OP)
if you don't make it cringe, making obvious you're doing things to talk to her more often can be flattering
as always you gotta carry yourself with confidence
like it's a good thing you two are talking.
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Anonymous
6/11/2025, 11:36:28 PM No.33205131
>>33205077
Tbh I was leading the meeting so I think the confidence thing was covered.
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Anonymous
6/11/2025, 11:41:47 PM No.33205148
imagine some fat disgusting woman trying to talk to you at work and trying to get it on with you, this is the equivalent of what you're doing
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Anonymous
6/11/2025, 11:43:26 PM No.33205159
>>33205148
99% of the time talk about "don't date with power imbalance" is bullshit, but in this case, Anon, you are literally textbook exploiting a power imbalance
Anonymous
6/11/2025, 11:46:57 PM No.33205172
>>33205131
yeah well confidence and bitch made don't go together, whatever bitch made means
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:23:03 AM No.33205320
>>33205172
It's only a bitch move if it fails. Thems the rules.
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 2:09:23 AM No.33205786
> Make the cute girl your secretary
> Use the job as a way to talk to her
> She hates it
> OP keeps doing it

based, let us know how it goes.
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 5:16:10 AM No.33206430
>>33205786
Should I call her into meetings and have her take notes on my /pol/ rants?
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 7:05:01 PM No.33208933
>>33205071
That is also honest. She said she wanted to do this sort of work, I just sort of over promoted her. I have other people that could fill the position.
If It never comes up that is fine with me.
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 7:43:23 PM No.33209125
>>33206430
Unironically start doing this if you suspect its going south, she will fall in love with you because women and voila.
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 12:33:36 AM No.33210454
>>33209125
Kek
"Did you catch what I said 60,000 at most"
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:08:55 AM No.33211652
>>33205045 (OP)
so you set up an even more professional environment so that when you do make a move it will absolutely be inappropriate. how could this go wrong?