I have no idea how, but I found out that nudes only she and I ever had access to were uploaded to a porn site years ago. I was a dumbass in my youth and didn't protect/hide sensitive files like the nudes she sent me in my phone/laptop. Idk if I got hacked or if they were simply stolen when I sent them in for repairs/wasn't looking, but the point is they're online and it's cause I was a fkin idiot.

I don't want to have to get her involved, we're on good talking terms since we boke up years ago but she's going through a lot of her own shit right now, this would just be another level of hell for her if she found out.

Is there any way I can have them taken down anonymously? Would taking the DMCA route without her knowing get me in a legal mess? Is it worth proposing a bribe to the site admin or something (I've got some savings, nothing crazy, but I'm willing to part with them if it'll get the job done), or will they just reupload them as soon as I send the money?

I have no idea what I'm doing here or how to deal with sites like these, I just don't want her life to become this kind of hell because I was an idiot a decade ago.

What can I do here without getting her involved, if anything?

>>33207018 (OP)
tell them someone was underage in the image

>>33207018 (OP)
I mean if your identity isn’t attached then I’d just not do anything. I think you risk them being linked to you.

>>33207018 (OP)
>this would just be another level of hell for her if she found out.
You'd better be more worried about the hell that's waiting for you. Worst case you're going to jail for revenge porn.

Also why do so many idiots keep recording themselves having sex with fucking phone? Phone is your ultimate spy tool for government, moron.

>>33207028
My main priority is getting these offline ASAP so her life doesn't be come living hell. Her not despising me for life for being a careless idiot is priority number two. I'd honestly like both of these to get fulfilled, hence why I'm looking for options where I can get them taken down without her having to know, but one way or another I'm not going to rest easy until these images are taken down.

>>33207038
Does it count as revenge porn if I wasn't the one that distributed them? Granted, I'm an idiot for not protecting the files, but I didn't upload them myself

Also, it was 10 years ago, internet laws and common sense were a fucking mess back then. Not excusing myself from the mistake, but what idiot didn't have nudes on their phone in 2015?

>>33207025
Seems like a decent nuclear option, but it feels like this could go south fast, couldn't it? Idk, images get reported, traced back to her, she gets contacted, whole thing was for nothing?None of the photos are actual CP, obviously, but isn't there a way this could backfire? Or am I just being paranoid at this point?

>>33207053
how would they trace it back to her? and why?

report to the admin that you represent the person in said pictures and she wants them taken down
don't give them any more of her info than initials

then if they don't take it down, you're spending some of those savings on a lawyer who specialises in this

>>33207059
idk man, pimeyes or some AI bullshit. Like I said, I'm out of my depth here and most likely paranoid, but best to err on the side of caution imo.

>>33207080
Fair enough. Why give her initials though? Is it necessary? How will they know they're legit, or is it irrelevant if they are or aren't?

>>33207044
You're going to be hard pressed trying to prove that, everyone is going to assume first thing that you're the asshole who leaked it thanks to the news of so many similar cases.
>but what idiot didn't have nudes on their phone in 2015
Anon, not everyone was a horny monkey with a substandard IQ. I never really trust phone storage even back then knowing how easy it was to jailbreak and recover shit from sold phone.