How to get invited to parties? - /adv/ (#33207538) [Archived: 1795 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:37:18 PM No.33207538
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I mean, I already got a friend with whom I would go to clubs, but he wants just to get drunk, while I want to get drunk and talk with some pretty girls. And clubs in my country are usually full of turks and arabs and balkans nowadays, so I don't want to really bother with them.

Furthermore, my feeling is that such a party is a more intimate space than a club, where there are only strangers present.

But while a club is open access to everyone, a party is usually private, you can't just barge in, because you have no idea where one's happening, you'll have to get invited.

That's the problem for me, I was only at two parties in my life, both of the times it was a birthday party of a classmate who invited everyone. So yeah, how do I partymaxx?

The first guy I mentioned doesn't get invited either, then there's another friend who gets invited to parties plenty, but never invites me to them too, despite the fact that I've asked him to tell me, yet he never does.

TLDR: How to get invited to parties? Any /adv/ice?
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 1:53:18 PM No.33207683
>>33207538 (OP)
By not being a subhuman, boring, autistic or schizo retard.
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 2:10:25 PM No.33207734
>>33207538 (OP)
How old are you and what do you do?
I got invited to plenty of parties while being a student and having a couple friends, despite being a social weirdo
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 2:47:57 PM No.33207816
>>33207734
19, vocational-technical school
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 2:48:58 PM No.33207820
>>33207734
>>33207816
student
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 2:53:56 PM No.33207831
>>33207820
I mean once you've been to a few it might start to snowball as people start to get to know you and stuff.
The building I used to live in was full of students and sometimes someone would just invite the whole house over for a party. Other than that I've gotten most of my invitations through friends or my flatmate
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 3:05:47 PM No.33207874
>>33207538 (OP)
this is a "how do I make more friends" thread
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 3:14:04 PM No.33207897
>>33207874
No, I don't really need more friends, I just want to meet more girls my age.
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 5:48:29 PM No.33208552
>>33207538 (OP)
Make friends, dipshit.

>>33207897
>I never get invited to anything but I don't need more friends
So you have a bunch of lame alcoholic loser friends who don't get women, don't help you network, don't throw/invite you to parties, and you think you "don't need more friends."

Like what's the point of having alcoholic friends if they don't invite you to parties and help you get women? But you don't need more. I don't get it. Well, enjoy your life.
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 6:40:04 PM No.33208820
>>33207897
>No, I don't really need more friends, I just want to meet more girls my age.
Every other normie wants that duh, if you bring female friends they will invite you otherwise you need to bring in money or a cool venue (vacation house, pool house, etc.). If they can't benefit from you then they won't invite you, and if you do bring women or money or host the venue they will only pretend to be your friends because of said benefits, as soon as you stop being useful they will drop you. 95% of normies behave like this.

tldr; goyim cattle are duplicitous creatures beware
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 7:37:48 PM No.33209112
meet women throwing parties
meet women throwing parties
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>>33207538 (OP)
Just start hosting them yourself - for ragers, pic related, but if you mean "we all hang out like civilized adults and do [activity]", it's essentially the same process but with less of a focus on women: tell people what the event is, get a person or two to pre-commit to going so it's an event, keep inviting people whether or not they show up, and just expect and communicate being okay if people bring friends.

People will happily start coming out to "anon's hikes", "anon's wine and cheese", "anon's board game night", "anon's barbeque", or whatever the fuck your schtick is, as long as it's consistent and other people are knowably coming. People are desperate for somebody to invite them out to stuff, if you start actually doing it you become queen bee.
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 8:05:33 PM No.33209217
>>33208552
>"don't need more friends."

I just said that because >>33207874 would've thrown a fit otherwise. Otherwise, more friends, yeah, but I'm so deeply insecure about myself it wouldn't work really out.

>>33208552
>Like what's the point of having alcoholic friends if they don't invite you to parties and help you get women?

Inviting me for a change? Like it costs nothing and I'm not that much of a terrible guy, it wouldn't cost them a penny to invite me along. I mean why not? There's virtually nothing stopping them.

>>33208820
>If they can't benefit from you then they won't invite you, and if you do bring women or money or host the venue they will only pretend to be your friends because of said benefits, as soon as you stop being useful they will drop you.

What does the average high schooler bring to the table? But yeah, I get that.

>>33209112
I can't really say anything to that, I really don't have a location. And I don't have anybody to invite to be honest. It sounds like I'm making up excuses, but honestly I know myself and the people around me.
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 8:42:27 PM No.33209366
>>33209217
>I really don't have a location
The ideal home rager is in a shitty 1br apartment: if you have ANY housing that isn't at your parents, you have a venue.
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 9:14:15 PM No.33209495
>>33207897
>No, I don't really need more friends, I just want to meet more girls my age.
Every other normie wants that duh, if you bring female friends they will invite you otherwise you need to bring in money or a cool venue (vacation house, pool house, etc.). If they can't benefit from you then they won't invite you, and if you do bring women or money or host the venue they will only pretend to be your friends because of said benefits, as soon as you stop being useful they will drop you. 95% of normies behave like this.

tldr; goyim cattle are duplicitous creatures beware
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 9:23:31 PM No.33209520
>>33209217
>What does the average high schooler bring to the table? But yeah, I get that.
Not much, women or something else usually. Upper class adolescents will bring vacation homes, pool, basement game room, money and other perks.