My sister got knocked up. Her boyfriend/husband cheated on her for 6 years before the other woman told my sister. Her bf leaves the house.

Sister tells my mom to take care of her. My parents already bought her a house and 1st and now 2nd car. My mom flies half way across the world to take care of her. She meets guy on Facebook tells my mom to leave. My mom leaves crying.

A few weeks later she is already inviting another different guy to live in her house. She asks my mom for 5k. She refuses so she asks my dad for 500. My mom's pissed because she's probably using that money for this random new dude.

Her 8 year old son even says she's moving on too fast. My mom tried to say the same thing but my sister forbids my mom to speak to her.

He's a good, smart kid. I'm hoping this kid doesn't turn out fucked up because of this. It's not my business besides my parents asking me for money which I ignore. Is there anything I can do for the kid or is this completely out of my hands?

You’re his uncle. It’s her life but you also can’t make your sister do anything. The best you can do is try to involve yourself in the kid’s life as a positive influence

>>33207837 (OP)
What’s wrong with some people? Try not to care except if you’re there. You’ll have nothing but the same disappointment mom receives. You’re not helping to help. Concentrate efforts on the kid when they’re old enough to communicate on certain levels. I had your sister for a cousin and offered to adopt and pay for the baby but she refused and that kid is a transgender now.

The girl in your OP is so beautiful. I want to kiss her

>>33207837 (OP)
Don't get involved except if/when you see the kid, then give him positive reinforcement and advice. Agree with him when he shit talks his mom but don't shit talk her yourself. You can gently say you don't agree with things she does, but don't be too harsh, even if she is a dumbass self-centered fuckup.

I am really starting to see how fucking sick it is that women will so often utilize the love for their children as leverage. I also have a sister who I have to tip toe around and this bitch is probably the only person in the world I won't speak my mind to just because I love my nephew and I know I can help him a lot more if his retarded mom doesn't ban me from seeing him. On some level she knows she fucking does this. Weaponizing her own son against anyone who would call her on her shit.

>>33208623
When you can get pummeled to death by half the world it changes your strategy

>>33208623
Tbf it's all the power they have. They're helpless otherwise.

>>33207837 (OP)
>Is there anything I can do for the kid or is this completely out of my hands?
Does he have phone/email/discord?
Let him know he always someone to rely and can communicate with for anything
Since his mom is a piece of shit he's going to have a really rough adolescence either getting into trouble or isolation

>>33210196
Yeah that's what I was thinking but the problem is if she tells his mom. She won't even let my mom talk to him when she is there taking care of her. She won't even let my mom talk to her.

>>33208647
>>33209288
>Bro it's ok to fuck up future human beings because like men are scary
Women are actually genuinely terrible as humans and are actually closer to Satan than men because of shit like this. My psychotic younger sister who should have been sterilized (in a better society) has two babies right now. She also weaponizes them in a similar fashion with my mom, their grandma. She'll fight with the baby daddy (not even husband, even worse he's a mulatto so I have quadroon nieces and nephews but he has money), crash at my mom's house for weeks or months, make her take care of them, and then fucking hop on a plane (flying is really bad for babies BTW) and then does who knows what with them back at the baby daddy's place when they make up. My poor mom is fucking distraught over those babies, she'd adopt them in a heartbeat but my sister uses them as a weapon to get free shit and child care from my not rich mom when it's convenient.
My 2 year old niece is a hyperactive iPad toddler and my 6 month old nephew gets bottle fed formula and neglected while my sister fucks around with niggers to make the baby daddy jealous, and sadly because there's not explicit abuse the state can't (won't) stop this behavior. But I hope you get sodomized by a rusty cactus if you think it's justifiable.