Will I regret not marrying the most beautiful girl I can pull? Specifically where I dated 7s & 8s and am now with a 5.

You should be old enough to know that the soul is the most important thing. A 9 w/ intentions of destroying you has put you right in the devils hands.

>>33209437 (OP)
choose the woman who's the most in love with you and will forgive the most stuff. nothing else matters
t. oldfag
(if you're somewhat successful and smart, you can also get away with fucking a hot woman once in a while)

Marry the woman who will potentially give you the most genetically advantaged kids. Don't make short / ugly / autistic kids, you're jsut setting them up for a life of misery. Left a very good companion because of that

>>33209528
Shit advice
I tried staying with a woman for "eugenics" reasons, it just didn't work out and I wasted years staying with a cold career-obsessed bitch
The love you have for your kids is a reflection of the love you have for your wife. If you want to give them the best start, make sure it's with someone who will raise them in a warm and loving environment. Don't pick someone to try to make designer babies.
>Don't make short / ugly / autistic kids
Then please stop trying to reproduce, if this is how you honestly feel

>>33209437 (OP)
While women can still be very attractive as they age their halo effect tends to where off by late twenties. There were women in my youth that I thought were angels, but in retrospect they were just normal young woman that liked one of the same TV shows I did. Though you will regret most of your life no matter what you do.

>>33209437 (OP)
>Will I regret not marrying the most beautiful girl I can pull?
Not really.
Even if you marry a 10/10, you'll always be looking at other girls and going "but what if i just went for her instead..."

Like you might have that beautiful blonde girl, but then you'll see the cute goth girl and start thinking how cute she is, and then the red head with pale skin walks by and you'll look at her. Or you'll attend your daughter's little league practice and see her friends playing around.

You'll always think other girls are cuter than what you currently have. What's most important is that your personalities work well together and you're not constantly feeling like you're putting yourself through hell just to stay in a relationship.

>>33209552
not him but you have to consider it when picking a wife otherwise you'll get a tranny/school shooter kid. you can't unbully or unreject your kid when he gets bullied and rejected

>>33209437 (OP)
Nah. You can see endless eye candy no problem. If she's not bothering you that's fine.

If you actually wanted to have sex with 7-10/10, you may not want to marry... beauty is fleeting for so many.

>>33209437 (OP)
It's a tough call Ngl

>>33209437 (OP)
Is it bad to aim lower to have a happier life?

That's the question.

>>33209602
I'm an ugly fuck. I can tell you right now, brokem home fucked me over a lot more than being ugly.

>>33209437 (OP)
its gotta be somewhere in the middle. As a guy who can pull extremely attractive women but prefers stable relationships, women's personalities often reflect their body type. If she looks built for sex, its highly unlikely she's gonna be wife material.

On the other hand, you will absolutely want to kys if you marry someone you're not that attracted to, yes, even you're a "perfect" match (except for the fact she's not attractive!)

Honestly I'm unmarried but I broke up w marriage potential partners who I wasn't attracted enough to them. On the other hand I've also been burned trying to make a wife out hot women who were only happy when they were bouncing on a dick

>>33209437 (OP)
tits are nice but if there's no love and understanding you will be miserable

>>33209437 (OP)
Don’t settle for a girl you’re not attracted to. You need 7+ combined with deep compatibility. Beauty is important, but there’s diminishing returns. Honestly sanity and values are more important long term, but you need both. Nothing will ruin your life like a mentally ill nutcase. Better to grow old alone.

>>33209602
Your kids will sort it out. Being rejected and bullied is part of life. The wrong woman will ruin your life and ruin your children’s wife. Attraction is important, sanity is at least equally important, if not more so. You can tell who doesn’t have experience dating one of the many fucked up women out there.

>>33209596
That's why it should be acceptable to have more than one woman. Like more a collection with different kinds of flavours. Skinny- chubby. Blonde - med. Tall - cute and short. and so on.

>>33212426
it is doable, but not at the same time. unless you're a muslim king of some sorts

>>33212426
100% agree. This is the only time I'm actually happy when I'm talking to multiple women. It makes me not need my wife as much and makes my wife try and desire me. I can't convince them to treat me like I treat them so they need a kick in the ass via another outside competitive force. No conversation with your wife over xyz issue will ever have the same effect as another women that wants your attention. Affairs are therapy for men.

>>33209602
If you don't want to have a tranny or school shooter kid then THE MOST IMPORTANT thing is that they are socially well-adjusted, and there are countless studies that show this is best achieved by a loving and stable two-parent home.
Yeah you can have physical preferences but again I thin the obsession with "geneticsmaxxing" is jut autism from spergs who haven't learned what love is like yet. And I say that as a diagnosed sperg myself (before it got rolled into ASD in DSM V)
>>33209596
Also this. Remember every 10/10 who's single, at some point had some guy get tired of her.
>>33212426
NGMI, this is a child's viewpoint. A man knows restraint.
>>33212711
LARP

at 30 you're going to be sick of interacting with them if you have any sense

>>33209437 (OP)
I'm 40 and still trying to have my first gf

>>33212784
How many children do you have?

>>33209437 (OP)
i date a hot chick in my mid thirties the second things got bad she bailed now 43 and alone. Im still searching for a hot asian chick..but at 45 ill take what i can get.

>>33212868
Same as you

>>33209437 (OP)
>Is everyone else as shallow as I am?
No

>>33209437 (OP)
What makes her a 5? Is she obese?

One thing I've learned from 9 years of marriage is that sex is important. Tensions build, emotions get riled up, and sometimes the only way to fix that is with a really good fuck. It's like magic. If she looks decent in lingerie and sucks cock like a champ, you should be able to maintain a healthy sex life.

>>33209437 (OP)
Basing marriage on appearance is the path to unhappiness

>>33209466
>>33209437 (OP)
if your women doesn't do anything you request of her then she is not in love with you.

>>33213002
Two?

>>33209437 (OP)
Dude, I was with what was a 9 to me for a couple of years. She literally crushed my soul. That's when you realise that looks aren't important if you're looking for the mother of your children.

I have tons of videos and photos of her for my spank bank though.

>>33212851
This.

>>33209437 (OP)
You only regret it if you aren't really attracted to the 5 and feel ashamed if you are in public with her.

>>33209466
this is the truth, regret not being with the girl who genuinely loved me unconditionally, that shit is hard to come by. Hopefully I get another chance to find someone like that again

>>33209596
>Or you'll attend your daughter's little league practice and see her friends playing around.
Didn't even hide the pedobait that well.

>>33209437 (OP)
My wife of 20 years is frankly fat and kinda ugly. She has nice tits but no ass and a meh face. That said, she has given me 2 genuinely amazing kids and falls over herself to make me happy. She raises our kids well, cooks as a hobby, and, as cheesy as this sounds, it just really nice to talk with. 20 years in and we WANT to spend our days talking together. Our dream vacation is to just lay in bed fucking and chatting. Yeah I can go pull a hotter woman but I have a woman who LOVE loves me. It is worth so much more.

me on the left

>>33215213
this is the dream...but want to hold out for a 5/10 asain chick still.

>>33209437 (OP)
37 here. I am single with no kids. I have already squared away that I will die alone. I suggest my fellow men that are under 25 to aggressively find a good girl and make babies. Once you breach 30 and start seeing your high school friends have kids and get fat, it over for you. The sad thing is that I am in better physical form than college. Abs and a swimmer's body at 37. What having a nice figure yielded me? Absolutely nothing.

t. /fit/

>>33216887
I would never give up even if I were 70 and had no kids. You're still young enough guy. You can find a 30.year old to impregnate easily. Why so sour? Guy in my family started a whole family around your age with a young wife

>>33216887
your not going to die alone man...37 you can still nab 30 32 year old and have like a kid at 40.

>>33209437 (OP)
you regret not staying with the one that loved you the most and you loved the most to be completely honest.
I've been with veritable models and regular looking girls and the one that I miss the most was a class act from top to bottom and very sweet, very caring and very loving.
But she was probably a 6.5 to 7 on a good day, still I loved her a lot and she's the one I miss the most.

>>33216887
I'm 40 and dating way more than when I was 23.

>>33215213
>Our dream vacation is to just lay in bed fucking and chatting. Yeah I can go pull a hotter woman but I have a woman who LOVE loves me. It is worth so much more.

Damn, i think i'm speaking for this entire website when i say i wish i had this relationship. Nowadays it seems that women like your wife practically don't exist anymore. The few that are around get paired off pretty quickly, leaving us with the legions of entitled bitches who don't care about anyone but themselves.

>>33217005
just to twist the knife, I met her in an AIM chatroom and we basically immediately went from the "lets go to a movie and a restaurant" stage of dating to the "lets just hang out and watch One Piece" stage. I am so god damn happy to have her I will gush about it on a Burmese lego crafting BBS.

Look for the fat ones gents, they have big tits and will be perfectly happy if you will cuddle with them while they chatter about how Oda is massively under-utilizing Robin and Nami .

>>33216979
>>33209466

Why'd you guys leave these women?

>>33209437 (OP)
>Will I regret not marrying the most beautiful girl I can pull?

35 year old Anon:
You'll regret turning down the interesting and likable women in your life in favor of more attractive ones, and not forming meaningful relationships with people who make you happy. Focus on the things that count: compatibility, kindness. Good women are scarce.
There's a saying I like that's basically, "if your girlfriend shaves her head you should still love her just as passionately. This is the difference between love and lust." You should be marrying someone you'll still love when you're both ugly and your dick doesn't work.

>>33217044
>just to twist the knife, I met her in an AIM chatroom

That just makes me feel like i was doomed from the beginning, since couples (that meet online) use tinder/bumble/hinge these days. By the time i got to an age where i became interested in dating, aim was defunct. Us zoomers are doomed when it comes to dating. I'm happy for you and your wife though. It's always good to see a healthy marriage.

>>33217113
That's the trick anon, I was dating some other girl and she wasn't actually looking for a date, we just started chatting about how dumb it is for normies to obsess over boybands and we just clicked. Dating apps make their money by keeping you on the hook and they know it. They don't want couples, they want desperate people looking forever. Go touch grass, chat about hobbies, and be a good person. EZPZ

>>33217074
she left me not the other way around
but thing was dying, it was the pandemics and we were in different countries and more than a year not being able to see each other

>>33217218
Same thing happened to me man. Dated for 2 years, broke up during the pandemic bc it was long distance. Heart breaking. I think about reaching out again sometimes.

>>33217074
left one because she refused to travel anywhere with me to our ancestral land before marriage and made needy jokes about my finding a "more beautiful" girl while traveling without her. she insisted it would be right to get married after 4 months together because that's what everyone in her family does. almost everyone in my family dates for years before marriage. didn't even protest when i broke up with her. she was just cold, seething that she hadn't landed the bag (mE). her motto: "some things just aren't meant to be"

left one because she was dishonest about her capability to leave her adopted land. she told me "i can live and work wherever i want, honey" when it wasn't remotely true. she protested and was desperate to get back together a month later, and i said no

moral of the story: you don't know your own limits until you actually test them. if someone doesn't want to take the trip test with you, but you think it's important, call it off

p.s. don't date older women unless you're really submissive and need a dom figure to replace your yearning for motherly love. it will bite you in the ass

>>33209437 (OP)
I'm 37 and I haven't had a girlfriend in like 13 years.
I will most likely die without an heir.
That's my only regret.
Women are extremely expensive hobbies, jerking off is a better bang for my buck.

>>33217327
you got what you wanted. aren't you happy?

>>33216887
Fitness is its own reward.
Exercise is how you get energy.

>>33217333
Yes, I love my life.
I have no responsibilities and I just do what I want all the time.

>>33217347
Lots of people with kids die without a good heir. Better to spend your money while you have a say so a bunch of loser kids don't fight over it

>>33209466
>choose the woman who's the most in love with you and will forgive the most stuff. nothing else matters
Even if she doesn't want to have sex with you?

>>33216981
How are you meeting these women, especially young women in your 40s and in general

The only thing that matters for a woman is her youth. Get the youngest possible legal gf that sticks around.