I believe I like Goth girls for two things:
1. I like spooky things
2. I can connect with them better because the ones I have met are a bit messed up in the head due to trauma and I can relate to them
Unfortunately each time I have dated one everything was too toxic and destructive. So if Goth girls generally have a lot of trauma and emotionally baggage, what would they be like if they healed? Would they still keep the same interests?
>>33209750 (OP)They wouldn't keep you, that's what.
>>33209750 (OP)I wasnt really goth to be fair but I had some edgy characteristics on me. No tats just bright red hair and stupid makeup and fishnets and such. I healed and now that I'm a hag, every day I am becoming more of a granola type mom
>>33209830>granolaI kinda want to get into granola things. Is it something you always had in you or was it developed overtime?
>>33209866I wish I had some granola in me if you know what I'm saying.
I'm saying I could go for a fun cereal treat.
>>33209900That's seems nice, I am glad you found healing
>>33209837aint that just goth girls in summer? swear they magically transform into a hippy when the sun comes out
>>33209900favorite granola brand? its like crack with some yogurt and honey
i'm 35, goth, healed a lot of my trauma over time. i had several toxic and destructive relationships in my past, due to bad choice in partners and my own behavior. im dating someone now who has a ton of trauma and i think us dating has been really healing for both of us because at the very start we decided this was the last time we were trying to date, and just put our full trust in each other. the relationship has been amazing and the sex is just as crazy as when i was crazier, lmao.
>>33212875Seven Sundays but it's way too expensive in this economy. It's a lot cheaper to cook up your own. Cents on the dollar.
>>33212885you got any decent goth music? I mostly listen to me brvtal death metal and black and am not a goth but some bauhaus, siouxsie and the banshees is decent but a lot I come across just sounds like slightly edgy 80s pop music, what is good goth music
>>33213030never heard of that as oim bri'ish innit, been making my own flapjacks as of recent, so ez even a spaz like me can make them
>>33209750 (OP)All the goth girls I dated, including my wife, just liked fashion, makeup, and the music.
>>33212885Has your fashion and style changed after you healed?
>>33212802My wife when I met her
>big tiddy goth girl really into goth music, all black clothes, the super pale skin, etc.My wife after the kids started being born
>modestly dressed traditional Catholic that veils in church, cooks everything from scratch, and never wears makeup - with bigger tiddiesI win
