Thread 33210754 - /adv/ [Archived: 1048 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/13/2025, 1:24:28 AM No.33210754
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Every comment I have ever received about my appearance from a woman

>You look like the guy from the Good Surgeon (pic rel and from a Latina I knew in college)
>You look like a young Rory McIlroy (from a middle aged lady)
>You have really broad shoulders anon (girl in high school)
>You’re lucky to have such a nice nose (from a Jewish girl with a really big nose)
>Youve got very small ears (my cousin)

And that’s it, do I sound chopped? Or not that bad?
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 1:30:15 AM No.33210779
>>33210754 (OP)
It sounds like you are good looking but have the demeanor of a little boy. Go to the gym and work in construction.
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 1:31:46 AM No.33210786
>>33210754 (OP)
>>You look like the guy from the Good Surgeon (pic rel and from a Latina I knew in college)
impossible to judge without tone and expression
>>You look like a young Rory McIlroy (from a middle aged lady)
a nice mom thing to say
>>You have really broad shoulders anon (girl in high school)
this is the one unabashedly positive one
>>You’re lucky to have such a nice nose (from a Jewish girl with a really big nose)
this was about her insecurity and not really a compliment
>>Youve got very small ears (my cousin)
neutral

none of that is bad, but if 5 compliments is it in a lifetime? you're nothing special and you will have to cultivate other things to succeed with women. you're not going to be pulled into bathrooms at sorority parties and all that stuff
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 2:30:30 AM No.33210944
>>33210779
What do you mean demeanor? How can you tell that from the post?
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 3:18:01 AM No.33211087
>>33210944
From the comparisons other people made
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:04:16 AM No.33211639
>>33210786
I’ve also had a few generic ones about being tall but I didn’t include them. Is 5 really so few? I’ve never dated so I figure it’s rare enough to get compliments as a man
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:38:15 AM No.33211793
>>33210754 (OP)
>Post picture for us to really see
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 5:29:36 PM No.33213671
>>33211793
No fucking way, I’m not doxing myself
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 8:13:14 PM No.33214494
If you're tall and have broad shoulders anon then you're probably mentally sabotaging yourself. Women love tall broad shouldered guys. Go socialise as much as possible until you become normie passing and you can escape this miserable hell hole, also yeah work out too. The only tall guys I have seen who are bad with women were lanky and overly self concious.

Honestly you just need to get out of your own head it sounds like. You can make it for sure.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 2:29:11 AM No.33216559
>>33214494
>Go socialise as much as possible until you become normie passing and you can escape this miserable hell hole
How do you do that starting from scratch? How do you even meet people to socialize with?
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 1:59:16 PM No.33218419
>>33216559
best advice i can give you is find one friend who is extroverted and just tag along with them to a group setting. ideally have this friend be your roommate or something. if youre in college both of you join a club. this is the only way ive ever been able to build up any social life, and from there you build more connections and it becomes easier.

other than that, i have no idea haha. i think a lot of it is luck and repeatedly trying to join clubs, and not being dismayed when that doesn't always work out because a lot of it is luck, or being an extrovert which i assume you arent since youre on here. having negative self talk and self pity is by far the worst hindrance though, ive been plagued by it for years and this site only increases this mindset. do whatever you can to avoid the pessimistic attitudes, even do some CBT and meditation, otherwise every social setback and mild comments like in the OP will become neurotic obsessions and ruin your mind.
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 2:24:04 PM No.33218499
>>33210754 (OP)
most men haven’t received any compliments at all, you are obviously attractive
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:42:22 AM No.33221514
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>>33218499
nta but for real? a older lady made a job about kidnapping me
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 4:51:48 PM No.33223204
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>>33210754 (OP)
>You look like the guy from the Good Surgeon (pic rel and from a Latina I knew in college)
kek any Latinas here? How hot is I AM A SURGEON?