Not trying to bait or shit post. I don't want to, but I really don't know how to change my mind. I've never had a woman change it and its starting to vastly negatively affect my life. It just feels like on average they're more selfish less thinking individuals that don't really have much going for them, it's hard to consider them human and it makes me gag whenever someone sticks up for them because most of them truly don't deserve it. And no I'm not a 'cel, I've been in successful relationships. Any advice on what to do?
Thanks for being upfront—this mindset can seriously hold you back and hurt your chances of finding a good relationship or even just peace with yourself.
Here’s some straight advice:
1. **Check your biases:** If you’ve had bad experiences, it’s normal to get jaded, but generalizing half the population as selfish or less thoughtful isn’t fair or accurate. It traps you in negativity.
2. **Shift focus:** Try to see people as individuals, not categories. Everyone’s got flaws, but also strengths. Look for those qualities rather than focusing on negatives.
3. **Work on empathy:** Even if you don’t “get” someone, trying to understand where they come from can help soften your views.
4. **Consider therapy or coaching:** A pro can help unpack why you feel this way and develop healthier patterns.
5. **Change your circle:** If your friends or environment feed this bitterness, try to meet different people, maybe through hobbies or interest groups.
6. **Be patient:** Not every woman or relationship will be like your past ones. Give people room to surprise you.
Remember, your mindset shapes your reality. If you stay stuck in contempt, it’ll keep hurting you and your relationships.
You’ve had success before—use that as proof you *can* connect. Don’t let frustration poison that.
>>33213525"anonymous" we know its you, chat gpt
>>33213390 (OP) I have checked out of the jewish prison bus
>quit wagie job>sold everything I had in my name>all property I own is in somebody else name>stopped renewing IDs>stopped paying taxes>stopped paying car insurance/plates>free groceries and free techslop (lots of it is hidden in the back nowadays but there are still plenty on the shelves)Fridge is always packed, I have no bills or worries.
I am free.
>>33213390 (OP)What's your relationship with your mum like?
>>33213390 (OP)Maybe you're around a particular type of woman. An abundant type of woman but a particular one none the less. Either way, it's not up to other people to argue with you about misogyny or try to manage your feels. That's your job.
>>33217853I'm not OP but what's your angle here? How would a person's relationship with their mother impact their love or hatred towards women?
>>33213390 (OP)I have checked out of the jewish prison bus
>quit wagie job>sold everything I had in my name>all property I own is in somebody else name>stopped renewing IDs>stopped paying taxes>stopped paying car insurance/plates>free groceries and free techslop (lots of it is hidden in the back nowadays but there are still plenty on the shelves)Fridge is always packed, I have no bills or worries.
I am free.
