Thread 33215237 - /adv/ [Archived: 1724 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/13/2025, 10:19:13 PM No.33215237
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I just wish that I was handsome...
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 10:29:19 PM No.33215275
>>33215237 (OP)
Ok.

Work out
Get a nice hair cut
Dress well
Get a hair cut
MAYBE get braces if your teeth are absolutely fucked

Complete those things and wish granted.
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 10:29:45 PM No.33215277
>>33215275
Why am I getting two haircuts?
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 10:30:17 PM No.33215279
>>33215275
I agree with these but he should also get a hair cut. Can't forget that one if you truly want to look better.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 10:33:15 PM No.33215299
A nice haircut and a bit of muscle won't change shitty genetics.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 10:34:04 PM No.33215304
>>33215237 (OP)
Meh, his eyebrows are too thick and also that jawline is overrated.

He also needs a haircut.
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 10:38:53 PM No.33215331
>>33215304
imagine having so little to come up with in your salty little insult that you actually refer to someone's jawline as being "overrated" lmao
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 10:39:23 PM No.33215333
>>33215277
Because I'm a retard and didn't proof read, sorry boss my bad lol

But seriously, they help. Some guys look great with long hair, some good with medium or short, but you gotta find a style that really suits you

Same with glasses if you have; make sure what you have actually suits your face.
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 10:44:02 PM No.33215358
>>33215333
I used to fall for the looksmaxx shit, but it honestly doesn't make any difference if you're not naturally goodlooking.
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 10:47:00 PM No.33215378
>>33215358
I look like a solid 4 when I don't care and get cat called on the job when I do.

Is it not a mans duty to see the heights of which he is capable of reaching?
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 10:48:35 PM No.33215389
>>33215378
Been there, done it. Women will still overlook you for a goodlooking dude who doesn't try.
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 11:03:29 PM No.33215470
>>33215389
No, they will overlook you for someone who isn't a relentless pessimist.

Give yourself some credit man, you're bound to be somebody's type.
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 11:17:10 PM No.33215539
>>33215470
>No, they will overlook you for someone who isn't a relentless pessimist.
Lmao yeah that's how it works
>you're bound to be somebody's type.
Based on what?
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 11:47:10 PM No.33215642
>>33215539
>>No, they will overlook you for someone who isn't a relentless pessimist.
>Lmao yeah that's how it works
It is, ugly dudes get girls so average dudes are more than capable; they usually have some desirable traits in personality, often funny, but are almost never a doomer pessimist.
>>you're bound to be somebody's type.
>Based on what?
Based on the fact that there are over 7 billion people on earth, 3.5 billion women, and that every single human being is unique and has bespoke tastes.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 12:00:19 AM No.33215698
>>33215642
Women might be turned off by pessimism but they have to be initially attracted to the guy in the first place. That doesn’t happen when you look like me.
>and that every single human being is unique and has bespoke tastes
And yet women generally are attracted to men with the same traits. Huh.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 12:16:11 AM No.33215780
>>33215698
>Women might be turned off by pessimism but they have to be initially attracted to the guy in the first place. That doesn’t happen when you look like me.
What do you look like? What about you makes you so uniquely hideous that no woman alive would be interested in you?
>>and that every single human being is unique and has bespoke tastes
>And yet women generally are attracted to men with the same traits. Huh.
Some people are into eating shit, some people are into missionary only; there's a pretty wide spread of what people like and dislike and you're bound to fit in there somewhere.
Yes most people are into the norm, but a large subsection of those people are also into other things, and the only way to know if they're into you is to try.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 12:22:06 AM No.33215814
>>33215780
>What do you look like?
I’m not going to humiliate myself by listing all the things wrong with me. Just take my word for it.
> Yes most people are into the norm, but a large subsection of those people are also into other things
Just because some people have fetishes doesn’t change the fact that women are generally attracted to the same traits in men. Trying to argue that every person is a unique snowflake is risible.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 12:28:24 AM No.33215846
>>33215814
>I’m not going to humiliate myself by listing all the things wrong with me. Just take my word for it.
I refuse to. I managed to land an incredible wife with a crooked boxers nose, fucked up teeth and a wide ass head, it's possible until you give up.
>> Yes most people are into the norm, but a large subsection of those people are also into other things
>Just because some people have fetishes doesn’t change the fact that women are generally attracted to the same traits in men. Trying to argue that every person is a unique snowflake is risible.
Every human is unique, implying that humans are carbon copies is an unfortunately ignorant take.
Also, implying that just because women tend to like the norm doesn't mitigate the strength of my argument, people can like steak and candy too so just because they tend to have similar tastes towards one type does not mean that is their *only* taste.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 12:31:19 AM No.33215861
>>33215358
>>33215389
you underestimate putting effort into your appearance. Specifically lifting and gaining muscle. Feminine women are attracted to masculinity, and muscle is masculine. Being muscular makes you at least fuckable. Also women see big biceps and a nice chest the same way us men see tits and ass - they're sexual body parts. So being muscular and fit makes you a sexual person in their eyes.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 12:35:06 AM No.33215890
>>33215846
>I managed to land an incredible wife with a crooked boxers nose, fucked up teeth and a wide ass head
Some women like dudes that have a face with ‘character’. You could be more attractive than you think.
> implying that humans are carbon copies is an unfortunately ignorant take
You ever notice how certain women (and men) are massive sex symbols? In your universe this wouldn’t exist because every human is a unique individual therefore there wouldn’t be masses attracted to the same person over others.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 12:36:21 AM No.33215901
>>33215861
And I told you, I’ve already been done that path. My fucked up genetics made working out worthless because I still looked weird and undesirable.
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 3:50:50 AM No.33216830
>>33215890
>You ever notice how certain women (and men) are massive sex symbols? In your universe this wouldn’t exist because every human is a unique individual therefore there wouldn’t be masses attracted to the same person over others.

Already responded to this.
>Also, implying that just because women tend to like the norm doesn't mitigate the strength of my argument, people can like steak and candy too so just because they tend to have similar tastes towards one type does not mean that is their *only* taste.
You can think multiple people of different archetypes are attractive.

You also proved my point here
>Some women like dudes that have a face with ‘character’. You could be more attractive than you think.
>Some women

Doesn't need to be all women, just some that find you attractive.
You've stated my message in your own words, so you *know* it's possible and choose not to try anymore.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 4:03:32 AM No.33216868
Yall would get a loving partner if you let a chubby/fat autistic girl into your life. But you wont date her because shes not skinny.
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 9:41:10 AM No.33217876
>>33216830
Not really. It’s disingenuous to pretend that men and women aren’t hardwired to find specific traits attractive. Although men are more diverse in their tastes than women. Probably because men were designed to propagate the species, whereas women had to be more selective.
As to your other argument, some women are attracted to men who are unconventionally attractive. That doesn’t mean jack when it comes to me, because I am not attractive on any level.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 10:07:45 AM No.33217923
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>>33215861
>Feminine women are attracted to masculinity, and muscle is masculine. Being muscular makes you at least fuckable. Also women see big biceps and a nice chest the same way us men see tits and ass - they're sexual body parts. So being muscular and fit makes you a sexual person in their eyes.
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 4:48:23 PM No.33218748
>>33217876
>I am not attractive on any level.

You don't elaborate why in any way, acknowledge that people have diverse tastes and actively erode at your own point. It's cope that you cling so hard to being unattractive, you just don't want to try so you shift the blame on "society" instead of your own inactions and attitude. You don't want to be held accountable for things within your control because you aren't willing to do the work to fix it.

The thing that makes you unattractive isn't your appearance, it's your one track minded self hatred. You can do a lot with your appearance, but you need to fix who you are inside as well to stand a chance. Only you can fix that.