>meet girl through friends
>shows interest in me by holding by hand sometimes when we're walking and complimenting me
>ask her out for drinks
>she agrees
>we have sex later
>see that i'm saved as "anon hot" in her phone
>she sends flirty texts like saying we should netflix and chill
>Next time I see her I kind of spill spaghetti and treat her like a stranger I saw for the first time, leave without even saying bye
>she begins acting more cold, ignoring me asking if I want to hang out, making excuses, taking forever to reply to texts, her texts are a lot more dry too

Should I continue going for it? It almost feels rapey at this point.

>>33215319 (OP)
>leave without even saying bye


>leave without even giving her a hug****
I meant to say

>>33215319 (OP)
Just tell her that you had a spaghetti moment and you were feeling bad for reasons that have nothing to do with her. Communicate with her and be transparent. And tell her that you really like her.

>>33215356
then bring her roses and chocolate and apologize more
you fucking cuck

>>33215356
well I kinda figured out that she got mad at me because she thought I ignored her.
She said we should "netflix and chill" on Friday or Saturday. and then I just told her that sounds good. Apparently I was meant to specify a date. I thought she meant that she's free both Friday and Saturday so I was going to message her on Friday if she wants to hang out on Saturday because I assumed she'd be tired from work.

Anyway, since that happened she's just been a lot more distant, showing little interest.

One night I spent the night with her but as we were watching a movie together she told me she was on her period. She still invited me to bed and we cuddled but I felt like that was her way of telling me to fuck off home and I was unable to take the hint.
It just feels fucking rapey. I want this to be a mutual thing but I feel like it's just me trying to show her that I like her.

>>33215319 (OP)
Provide context
Who is she within the friend group
Did you both have much of a friendship before

>>33215405
My (gay) friends' roommate. I've known her for about 2 months. We've had sex 2 weeks ago.
She gave me hints that she was interested like she would hold my hand when we got drunk and would compliment me so I decided to go for it. I don't think I was in the wrong here.