I told my bf i love him a month in the relationship i know im stupid and retarded.. but listen we were fwb first and then he asked me two months in if i wanted to be more and i agreed i have genuine feelings for him and when i told him he was making like a joke like "do you have a crush on me?" and i replied yea im in love with you and he replied "in love?" and i said yes now im too scared to open my phone so i turned it off....... i was planning on just telling him i was drunk tomorrow morning and lying and call it a day but what if i dont wanna take it back? what if i genuinely feel a strong connection towards him? i think of him every day and not just in a sexual manner but in like id love to make this man breakfast in the morning and rub his feet. should i go with that excuse tomorrow morning if i feel like he's uncomfortable? will things now change between us? have i ruined absolutely everythingb????????? now im like drinking vodka cus of the stress. he hasnt replied in 20 minutes. kms

WAIT GUYS UPDATE HE REPLIED AND HE RECIPROCATES I WONT ROPE TODAY

>>33217335
congrats

>>33217309 (OP)
Dude I tell my guy friends I love them all the time, and my female friends too if it's a moment that needs it.
Love is a shit word in English because it means a lot of things. I have been in hot water in relationships because I told girls I loved them... I just meant they had my trust and respect on a deeper level. It's ok to love people you aren't in love with if he is not mature enough to get that than it's his issue.

I love you as a fellow retarded /adv/ spaz, do what is right for you.

>>33217335
Well, good. But it is nearly always best to be honest about how you feel, anyway. If you tell someone you love them and they leave you, the reason for them doing that is because they don't feel the same way that you do; and *if* they don't feel the same way that you do, do you really want to stay with them forever and have them not feel the same way as you the whole time? Trust me, that's bad. If the other person doesn't feel the same way, it's better to know about it so you can break up, move on, and find someone else; and the sooner you do that, the better. So there's nothing to lose by being honest - and sometimes a lot to gain.

CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU!

Alright everyone, what's the lesson we've learned from this thread today?

>>33217309 (OP)
Hahah why does this sound exactly like the conversation I had yesterday just a bit skewed for anonymitys sake, even the train of thought resembles someone I know
Did you two meet on a military shooter type of game on steam like insurgency by any chance?
Either way happy he reciprocated anon

>>33218202
nope! we met bc i made a post i put my discord and he happened to be a few hours away and we shared humor and interests and found eachother attractive so we met up :3