I don't get turned on by a girl once they go from being just meat I get to fuck around with to being a significant other who lives with me or I see very often

I like cuddling them and being sweet with them but maybe I jerked off to porn for too long or devalue women too much but once they get to a certain threshold of emotional something then they are no longer just a thing for me to cum in or use for my pleasure, some kind of madonna whore complex or something

Any way to get around this? My current girlfriend is understanding to a point but it hurts her really bad emotionally because she takes it personal that I don't mix love and lust

i don't get turned on by them when they reach a certain age.

>>33217671 (OP)
This is bizarre.

>>33217682
Understandable

>>33217690
Thanks man

>>33217695
>Understandable
it wouldn't be if you knew what age.

>>33217710
As long as it's around puberty then it's whatever, it's just biology

Younger than that and yeah you have issues

>>33217695
So what are you gonna do about it, go to a shrink? Just fuck her despite whatever reservations you have? It sounds like you have some hangups about sex.

>>33217710
We got the implication.

>>33217717

>>33217671 (OP)
I won't read male slut burnout threads. When will they ever learn - I can't say I particularly care.

>>33217671 (OP)
Stop using porn and even masturbating. If you’re lacking sexual energy for your gf don’t spend it in other places. Jacking it to fantasies and porn at this point is essentially giving up on the relationship. Other than that, idk. Loss of sexual interest can point to other issues in the relationship.

>>33218706
what an incel response lmao

>>33219263
okay reddit