How big of a deal is vitiligo - /adv/ (#33217992) [Archived: 1087 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/14/2025, 10:58:37 AM No.33217992
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I got vitiligo a year ago and it has spread to various parts of my body. Particularly around around my eyes and on my dick, I'm white but it's still visible especially on my dick. I'm still a virgin at 25 and this kind of killed all of my hopes. I might be able to get treatment on my face, but I don't think I can on my dick. Treatment is expensive too so I haven't gone through with it yet. Health-wise it doesn't affect me besides sunburn, but in my day-to-day it's gnawing at my psyche.

Basically, is it over? Will girls run out of the bedroom in disgust even if I do manage to woo someone?
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 11:00:25 AM No.33217998
>>33217992 (OP)
Your hope for love or even just getting laid shouldn't be contingent on what your melanin is doing. People find love and get laid with awful disabilities and deformities. I'm not gonna lie and say it can't hurt your chances but you don't need to be with all women you just need to be with one at a time.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 11:27:12 AM No.33218065
>>33217998
I've been told I'm handsome a lot by people other than my mom. Being rejected because of my face I can deal with. But it's the thought of being rejected long after the fact once we're both naked. It's not quite to the level of nightmares but I think about it often.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 12:52:45 PM No.33218269
>>33218065
If you are handsome nothing matters, you could have a purple dick or balls on your forehead and women will want you. Women love when Chads have small imperfection, they think they have a better chance with him.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 1:07:12 PM No.33218310
>>33218269
Dunno about that. I'm an autistic shut-in nerd finally starting to step into the real world so I wouldn't exactly call myself chad. I know I'm probably getting worked up over something relatively small but I really can't find much online of people in the same seat. I guess I just don't want someone to run out on me after seeing my weird looking dick.
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 1:34:59 PM No.33218359
>>33217992 (OP)
Vitiligo is and will always be beautiful??
What the fuck are you spouting on about?
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 2:00:00 PM No.33218422
>>33218359
I'm glad that you think that. As another anon said it's probably not an issue if I find someone that tolerates it but it's constantly gnawing at me. This is true of many with the disease especially if it's on their face.
I don't like that it's always spreading, I don't want it on my face or my dick, I don't want it at all. I keep finding new spots, new white hairs, etc. It's spreading quite quickly and haphazardly and I never know where it will appear next.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 2:34:29 PM No.33218525
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>>33218422
Maybe you'll get cancer next and then this one will see trivial. Maybe you'll even be glad you got it.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 3:06:23 PM No.33218560
>>33218525
My friend just got cancer so yeah in comparison it's trivial. Maybe I will be glad I got it, it does stand out, especially in UV light
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 4:13:02 PM No.33218659
>>33217992 (OP)
I have it as well. You just learn to live with it is all. Try to be grateful for what you have and carry yourself with as much dignity and self respect as you can, despite your predicament. There has to be someone out there for us anon. Also, it may just be an exotic thing, as there are many models with vitiligo as their stand out feature. Just try to be grateful and make do with what you have, because it can always get worse anyway. My advice isn't the best, but I tried. I have it around my eyes too anon, I'm suprised I found someone like me. God bless you anon.
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 4:24:40 PM No.33218679
>>33217992 (OP)
My great uncle has it and he is also white. Honestly i dont think it is a big deal of you are white, just stay inside and use sunscreen outside and it will blend in better. Eventually the pigmented parts of your skin will go pale as well so it'll all even out.
Anyways it really doesnt affect daily life much other than maybe exposing you to sunburns more than normal. At least it isnt something crazy like melanoma or tumors or any number of gross and dangerous skin conditions.