Is it even possible to fix him?
He doesn't want to weigh himself, and doesn't get up from the couch. He had a stroke 15 years ago, survived and got fit but since about 8 years it's been downhill.
I live on the other side of the globe so I see him once or twice a year, but my sister is marrying soon so I'll see him.
Qrd

>eats at Burger King every other day
>can't walk 10 meters without resting
>pisses himself
>shat himself a few days ago
>made my mom depressed because of his health
>doesn't care about dying
>compulsory liar
>is fine with never seeing his grandchildren
>grandparents have to focus on not crying when they see him

He lied to my face before I left the country, promising he'd get better, I came back to see him even more obese. He'll lie about seeing doctors too.
I already made peace, and am still pissed at him lying to me when I had a long discussion with him, but my sister wants to act, and we're afraid our mom will just kill herself if he dies.
I think getting him into one of these weight losing facilities would help him, but we can't force him so we're fucked.

That is lovely stuff. Have you considered suicide? If only due to your aspergers and the fact that nobody will ever love you

>>33218271 (OP)
He has nothing to live for, so he's ending his life the "good" way

>>33218271 (OP)
I got diagnosed with adhd and the meds really do curb the insatiable desire to be a fat fucking pig.

>>33221761
*like the black hole inside my soul that I try to fill with food is full enough. It’s still a depressing empty hole but I can ignore it.

>>33218271 (OP)
Only he can help himself.
Time and time again people have to be reminded of this. Its one of life's hardest lessons apparently.
You cant do anything. It sucks I know.
My dad drank and smoked himself to an early grave. Nothing anyone could have done.

>>33218271 (OP)
Put some whoopass on his enabler.