Thread 33219907

How do you continue to believe in love?

I'm not a cel but I was a late virgin loser, I now date fairly regularly and basically, dating is 100% performative at this point. I straight up assume none of the women I date will last long term beyond me being the best option they have at the time. I'm kind of OK with that as long as I don't become financially entangled with them but I want to create a family legacy which is a problem. I don't even care if the chick I get pregnant likes me, I care if she will fulfill her obligation to the family unit.

>>33219907 (OP)
>How do you continue to believe in love?
the gifts my children make me and the small gestures they do

>>33219907 (OP)
I don't believe a word of this thread is genuine, so I won't read it.

>>33219907 (OP)
>I don't even care if the chick I get pregnant likes me, I care if she will fulfill her obligation to the family unit.

You should care. You need to understand that children are always affected by their upbringing when they become adults. What happens at home sticks with them, subconsciously. So if they see mommy and daddy not liking each other, that kid will have relationship issues and trust issues with the opposite sex right out the gate. They'll unknowingly recreate the same fucked up dynamic they saw mom and dad embody with whoever they date or marry.

If you dont care about a relationship with the mother of your child, and just want an incubator for your offspring, you should look into hiring a surrogate. That way you will be the only one with legal guardianship. The biological mother will just be an ovum donator, and the surrogate will have no continuing legal relationship or right of access to the child after birth. Its not cheap, and not legal in all states, but it sounds like it would suit your desires well.

Love and friendship are a myth, nobody has ever experienced it.

>>33219928

I want her to take care of the kid, I don't care if she likes me though.

>>33219934
lol, muslim behavior

>>33219979

Literally behavior of every functional society in the history of the human species.

People don't marry for love, they marry for economic cooperation and as business arrangements. Love as defined in post-60s west is pretty much new.

>>33219990
>Love as defined in post-60s west is pretty much new.
This is easily proven false

>>33219907 (OP)
All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.

tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to