Hello. I have a brother, and recently he moved out back home again. We used to share rooms, but when he leaved I had the room for myself. But now he's back, and I have to share it again.

The thing is, I can not. I can not bear his presence again, he's such a lazy slob that doesn't know to do anything even if he's older than me. He doesn't clean, he takes my stuff, he ask me to borrow stuff and never return them. He stays until late making calls with his friends and don't let me sleep. He watches videos on high volume, he doesn't respect my stuff.

I know these are normal stuff to share a room with a sibling. But honestly I just want him to go away again and start doing things by his own instead of sucking all the money from our parents with his private collage. I don't want him here. I don't want to keep up with this and keeping picking up his mess when he goes out with his friends. How can I make this change? How can I make his life miserable so he has no option but respect my stuff and space? I just want my privacy.

>>33219929 (OP)
>when he leaved
Just fyi, the past tense of leave is left, not leaved.

>>33219929 (OP)
>"now he's back again"
I won't read glutton-for-punishment threads by spineless morons who can't say "no."

Thanks, my first language is not english. Sorry.

>>33219945
>14
Is not that. I *can't* say no. Even if I tell him to respect my stuff he doesn't. My parents force me to share my stuff with him. My parents think siblings must not fight, I'm practically forced to co-live with him. But thanks, maybe should I be less tolerant with his bs.

Complain about it to your parents, that's all you can do if you've told him these things and he hasn't changed. Btw, 4chan is an 18+ website, so you really should not be here.

>>33219972
I've told to my parents, but they keep allowing his behavior and telling me I'm such a selfish person. I don't know why they go so soft on him and so hard on me. Feels so unfair to me. But thanks though. I won't be here on 4Chan often, thanks.

>>33220002
Sometimes things appear unfair to a child that make sense to an adult. Maybe talk to them about this topic and not just the room thing. Maybe there is a chance they tell you what this is about, if you appear mature enough - if you are mature enough with your reasoning.

>>33219929 (OP)

Kill his ass. Duh. Make him respect u

>>33219929 (OP)
>Reported.!
You mist 18 or older to post here.
>Reported!

>>33219929 (OP)
If your parents will not do anything about it, your only options are to either move out or make him want to move out. I assume you are a NEET so that limits your options,

Try being annoying yourself and maybe he will move out on his own. The best option here is use threats of violence and then actual violence itself to let him know that his behavior will not be tolerated. Beat him up when he makes a mess. If he doesn’t return your stuff, destroy his belongings as retribution. If he plays videos too loud, destroy his speakers. None of his actions are normal for roommates who have respect for other people.

But before you do this, give him a really good warning first. It would help if you also let your parents know what you plan to do. It’s just common courtesy to let someone know before you beat them up. Maybe he’ll straighten out on his own when he realizes how serious you are.