How do I find out what people are saying about me? - /adv/ (#33220418) [Archived: 1662 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/15/2025, 12:47:55 AM No.33220418
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sometimes I think i have a bad reputation in town because sometimes people act really nasty towards me. Though I'm not sure what people are saying because they dont say it to my face or they lower their voice when they're saying it so i dont hear from a distance.

Sometimes people insinuate what they think of me. Like for awhile random people were asking me personal questions for no reason and some of their questions were bizzare like questions about my ethnicity, at one point they asked me if i was German italian, or russian italian. Even though there's nothing italian, russian, or german about me. One time I was talking to people peddeling illegal ciggeretes because i was wandering around asking people for ciggerettes and for some reason he played what sounded like jewish folk music on his phone. People thought stranger things so maybe they thought i was jewish because i offered them money for the ciggerette?

This all started when a black girl made up a story about me because she thought i was ratting out her crack head parents. it started when i looked out the peep hole into the hallway and said to dad "bunch of blacks" and then she started threatening me and calling me a racist because they heard me saying that(the walls in that building were thin). after awhile she made up stories that i touched her and then people started harrassing me. it's calmed down over the years but ther's still pockets of people that act nasty towards me, like black people espeicly ones in positions of power or random homeless people.

if I wrote all of the context about this I could write a book. So I guess that's enough. I thought of writing a book about what happened. A lot of people think I'm schizo when i talk about random people stalking me and people treating me like shit for no reason. It seems to have calmed down because my neighbours dont harrass me, most of my neighbours are indian, i smell various ethnic foods in the hallway.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 3:41:26 AM No.33221034
>>33220418 (OP)
You spend a lot of time in the fantasy land in your head instead of what actually is. You don’t need to care about everyone’s motives for the random things they do. Nothing happened or is happening. Nothing will happen except you f-ing things up with your imagination.
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 3:43:49 AM No.33221040
>>33220418 (OP)
"what other people think of you is not your business"
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 3:46:30 AM No.33221049
>>33221040
nta but this is bs. It's often beneficial to know how others view you so you can act accordingly.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 3:51:03 AM No.33221065
>>33221049
women should only post in the ATOGA threads. thanks.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 4:00:07 AM No.33221091
>>33221065
What are you implying here, faggot?
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:29:50 PM No.33224287
>>33220418 (OP)
I know what my friends think of me and I don't care about anyone else. If I asked, they wouldn't tell me honestly, so they're not worth my time. The best you can do is judge yourself fairly, use friends to ground yourself, and strive to be the best version of yourself. Also stop associating with nasty people and drug abusers