My long term girlfriend is autistic. We have broken up before but ultimately ended up back together because I just do not understand "normal" women. I probably have ADHD/ADD whatever, but am a mostly normal well-adjusted guy - but I have never gotten anywhere with normie women. Thankfully I love my gf but the time apart really made me see that for us tards I think trying to find a girl on the spectrum is the way to go, despite the difficulties that comes with that. Thoughts? Any other tards happy with fellow tardettes?

>>33220942 (OP)
My last relationshp involved a lot of fighting and breaking up and repairing, and ultimately she started talking to a new guy because in her words his validation was too addicting and couldnt stop. I would rather be with a normie girl going forward. Yea maybe they wont be as high IQ, artistic, creative as my ex but I have experienced that and its not what I need in my life. Just a chill bitch who doesnt cause problems and goes with the flow.

>>33220942 (OP)
My favorite relationship ever was with a girl with autism. I love her dearly.

>>33220956
that's rough man. thankfully my gf is retardedly loyal, like just cannot let me go no matter what. i guess there's autistic dedication and there's that autistic tickle where everything needs to be just right for them to be happy. hope you find a chill bitch bro
>>33220959
me too.

>>33220980
>that's rough man. thankfully my gf is retardedly loyal
I appreciate that. However, I also thought my ex was "retardly loyal" until she wasnt. I guess I was naive about girls with attachment issues, and how they can turn on a dime

bamp

>>33220942 (OP)
People on the spectrum tend to be better partners with a like person, rather than mixing/matching. Your experience is well documented.

>>33220942 (OP)
>Any other tards happy with fellow tardettes?
Yeah, I'm an adhd dude with autist wife. I've dated normie girls, other adhds, a spooky psychotic borderline. None of them has made me happier and fulfilled than my autist wife. I intend to grow old with her and have her bury me when I die.

How do you fucks manage to carry on a household where you're living without welfare checks? Our people need tard wranglers, and you're lego-ing together into a couple. How are you paying bills?

>>33224409
Both me and my autist wife have jobs. It's funny because without her, I can't function with adhd, I just relapse into laziness and sleeping all day and cluttering trash around. But there's something about her that just fixes my shit. I think autists and their constant routine building and spergy organizing fixes my people. And I fix her socially too, I spend hours yapping and telling her about social rules and how they work and why humans use them and when to spot them and how to execute them, because as an adhd all I do all day is spot patterns and talk about them. It's a winning combo.

I have social anxiety and the worst date of my life was with a girl who also had social anxiety. There was zero chemistry. Now, I am married and have two kids with a girl who has no friends and is a workaholic but can be social if needed and has no mental disorders. As for autism, I am still friends with a girl who has it (met her around the same time as my wife), but she always rejected my advances.

>>33220942 (OP)
Multiple people suspected my ex gf of being on the spectrum. She might have been, idk, I was thought to be on the spectrum too by a psychologist I was seeing.

It was a really comfy relationship but the problem was it was too comfy. We were both way too deep in our comfort zone and neither was pushing the other. My current gf is way more of a normie, she was in a huge sorority and has a ton of friends post college. idk it's nice when she brings me along to their get togethers and stuff, just a bunch of people I see every week, it's like I got adopted into a giant family. Definitely out of my comfort zone and sometimes I just wanna sit at home and play games but so far it's been a good balance and I can feel my social skills improve

>>33225322
>it's like I got adopted into a giant family.
this sounds pretty comfy too desu. why did you and your ex break up anyway

>>33225322
>>33225935
>why did you and your ex break up anyway
i also want to know

>>33220942 (OP)
I'm so autistic that I can't tell apart autistic girls. Even the most socially retarded girl has it much better than me. Women are all normies in my eyes, no difference, no exceptions, at least for the ones I met until now.

>>33220942 (OP)
As an ADD haver I can confirm that every single one of my friendships I've ever had, it's all with adhd and autistic ppl. Even if we didn't knew it at the time. Our brains simply work different then the normies, if even having a friendship with them is hard, then a romantic relationship is honestly impossible.