This probably will sounds strange but I have a drunk fetish.
I usually take care of this by paying camgirls that are willing.
And I have had partners indulge me on a few occasions.

Purpose of the post though is how do I intentionally get an alcoholic GF?
I'm from Michigan and I am shocked when I see people complain about their alcoholic partners.
To me that's literally my dream.

Any advice on ways to help me find someone?
I won't go to AA that feels shitty.
I also don't like to use bars at all because I care about consent and I worry that I'd get some serious shit from people taking a random drunk chick home.

>>33221318 (OP)
The thing is, having such a creep as you for a bf would be bad for the girl, sustaining here in a self-destructive lifestyle. You are superficial and irresponsible and need to take this one life you will ever have seriously.

>>33221413
>op is the worst imaginable creep and should correct himself or die
go take a trip to /d/ and try to tell me if op's fetish is "creepy."

>>33221413
I understand that view, but I'm looking for someone who WANTS to party and if they don't that's fine too.

Plus they would have a lot less to worry about, since I have my own place, they wouldn't need to work, or drive.

Plus fun things like concerts and travel.

>>33221318 (OP)
I saw your post a while ago, and it got me thinking.
imo online dating is genuinely your best bet, something busted like Plenty of Fish or maybe Bumble.
something like
- early 30s
- looks older than she is, or heavy makeup
- 'often drinks' filter (obvs)
- high stress job (+ upper middle class)
- college educated

it's just an optimisation problem where you can just get good at picking people with the characteristics, both physical and mental.

also, you should get therapy.
but you know this.
but, this isn't a throwaway statement.
you will suffer for this until you learn the lesson you are avoiding. or don't, might as well.