cant get a date or a gf - /adv/ (#33221319) [Archived: 1680 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:01:06 AM No.33221319
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every girl i ask out rejects me it makes me angry for a couple hours
my tinder profile has never gotten a like or a match i refuse to pay for it
i have gone to bars and nobody talks to strangers there
young women which is teenagers will look at me and grab my attention but i cant really ask them out or even talk to them in public im early 30s
ive never had a gf
i talk to people everywhere i go and talk to women ask them out
even if I get a good conversation going they just always say no when i ask them out.
I have never had sex
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:08:31 AM No.33221361
>>33221319 (OP)
Nigga you're so lucky at least girls talk to you. I go to university and not a single girl even looks in my direction or notices me cuz of how chopped I am. Before this I used to talk to some girls and I tried to get to know them deeply but suddenly they stopped talking to me.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:09:00 AM No.33221363
what did you say to them
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:10:53 AM No.33221369
>>33221361
bruh yk how chopped you gotta be to not be approached in university once
theres so many fertile hoes
praying for you bruh
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:14:27 AM No.33221381
>>33221369
I don't know why I turned out so chopped considering the fact that my dad was quite handsome when he was young and my mom was very beautiful as well.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:15:43 AM No.33221386
>>33221369
>>33221381
another thing i'd add is that I'm 5'7 with glasses, a moustache and a beard. I also happen to be Pakistani btw.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:15:50 AM No.33221388
>>33221361
fuck off this isnt your thread


>>33221363
they will flirt with me and happily talk to me but i can never get anything idk why i can give examples:

talked to a librarian for help with finding a book she seemed nice i asked if she wanted to get to know each other she laughed at me and i went back in to ask her if she was single cus i didnt know why she laughed. and she exclaimed how innapropriate it was to ask that after flirting with me. probably because other people were watching now that i think about it hmm

another one was at a book store i asked for help with a book search she seemed helpful but we werent flirting at all.
i asked her out cus shes really pretty and she said no but you're a nice guy which pissed me off for probably half the day
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:16:51 AM No.33221394
>>33221386
fuck off you brown faggot
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:18:36 AM No.33221403
>>33221388
just keep asking out more girls. it will eventually work. having a bitch tell you that you were acting inappropriate is extremely chad btw
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:19:43 AM No.33221410
>>33221388
>>33221394
Or what, bitches ?
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:21:14 AM No.33221412
>>33221403
the really pretty girl i really wanted to talk to more and she just said "you're a nice guy" it was so fucking infuriating I didn't even buy the book I wanted I just left and wanted to break stuff.

I don't want to have my day ruined again so I've been holding off on asking out the ones i like now its pretty lame.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:22:15 AM No.33221417
>>33221410
manlet says what?
4 eyes bitch fag
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:24:16 AM No.33221423
>>33221412
sounds like you have really bad anger issues, which in the event you ever do get a girlfriend, will probably lead to her leaving you anyway. best fix that asap
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:26:49 AM No.33221434
>>33221417
kill yourself dogbreath.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:31:07 AM No.33221451
>>33221423
sounds like you're a retard

>>33221434
you first jeet cow shit fucker
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:31:56 AM No.33221453
>>33221451
>sounds like you're a retard
yes, but at least Ive had sex and a girlfriend.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:36:16 AM No.33221477
>>33221453
you probably get pegged
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:36:53 AM No.33221481
>>33221477
cope and seethe
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:38:53 AM No.33221495
>>33221481
well i have a bunch of issues im working on the anger thing but im getting older and i want to get a gf or at least sex
half the issue with the anger is probably that i have never had sex desu
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:53:55 AM No.33221563
>>33221451
I don't fuck cows nigga I slaughter and consume them.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:57:05 AM No.33221585
>>33221319 (OP)
Learn to see things from other people's perspectives. Why would you, as a girl, want to spend any amount of time with this random guy (you)?
When you're with them, get out of your head and into theirs, and ask yourself what you'd want to see/hear next.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 6:10:10 AM No.33221642
>>33221563
nah u fuck their shit

>>33221585
thats gay as fuck im not gonna do that people dont do that for me and ive never met anyone in my life who deserves that from me. they should be on their knees sucking my cock because i give them attention in the first place fuck them
the only things ive ever appreciated were animals no human is worth shit anyways they're all evil scumfucks.
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 8:27:11 AM No.33222044
OP you've got to go for people who don't seem busy doing stuff. like that librarian? no

early 30s means you can offer some stability and maturity (? depending on how you act), which is what a lot of girls want — older men. a quick search will tell you this

you have to capitalize on that, but it's not easily explained. one thing for sure is that in-person is better than the meat market Tinder is, though.

Pakastani probably means you can be dark and handsome and can groom yourself certain ways to get more girls. self-care will make yourself feel better, at least, if not for the girls
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:15:43 AM No.33222157
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>>33221319 (OP)
God may be protecting you from degeneracy, look into it further, it may just be your calling. If you embrace your situation people may even begin to hate you for being who you are, since you aren't constrained by your primal intentions.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:50:14 AM No.33222214
>>33221585
> Why would you, as a girl, want to spend any amount of time with this random guy (you)?
Asking tis question as a man will get you nowhere.
Women aren't fucking rational, they're capricious little goblins who are barely self-aware of their actions.
They absolutely WILL spend time with random-ass guys and losers over the better choice if it feels good in the moment. I've seen 6'3" millionaires get passed over for 5'7" warehouse worker dudes, because the warehouse dude was wearing a took with the right band on it and had stick and poke tattoos and "omg a slutty little mustache!" The textbook definition of Chad can in fact get snubbed.

The fact is OP has the sperg like most of us do, which means it's game over. Back in the day you could count on having a good job to bag a wife as a sperg but thanks to muh equality women can use their employers and the government as the surrogate man in their lives, so tough shit for OP.
>>33222044
>early 30s means you can offer some stability and maturity (? depending on how you act), which is what a lot of girls want — older men. a quick search will tell you this
A quick step off the internet and into IRL will tell you that in the West young women almost exclusively stick to men their own age brackets these days except the severely mentally ill.
I'm 33 and I even admit the whole "you peak in value in your thirties as a man" thing is big fat cope. Yeah you have more money and you're mature and established but YOU'RE OLD. Women don't want old they want eternal Timothee Chalamet with a dirty sanchez mustache and sailor jerry flash tattoos.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:23:57 AM No.33222273
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Have you tried being less of a faggot?
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:45:33 AM No.33222320
>>33222214
Perhaps I'm personally biased, but
> I'm 33
> more money
> *mature*
> *established*

I'm not seeing the negatives besides your self-imposed "old." Old is sixty, anon

"Cope" only applies because so many >30 men hyperfixate on their age (which is arguably not seen as 'detrimental' as a woman being >30 and single). I'm sure you could be a hotshot if you tried
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 11:14:20 AM No.33222356
Go back to punjab you brown piece of shit
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 1:04:41 PM No.33222638
>>33222044
im not the paki thats some guy trying to hijack my thread
thats just not how it workks work on your reading comprehensiopn before giving me advice

>>33222157
not a fan of god but in my dark moments i always call on whatever that is, I hate it
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 3:38:16 PM No.33222985
>>33221369
Also this
I like to LARP as an incel these days as an OLD FUCKING MAN >>33222214 but going back to college I did pretty good compared to anons here. I had a long-term GF for a few years, and a few flings and ONS around that. Yeah I had missed opportunities but that was also my first experience with women since I didn't date in high school
College is the easiest place to date, that's why DER SCHOOLER (who I haven't seen in a while) was such a successful troll. He was partially right about how hard it becomes to meet and bag a woman after school.
However he's a filthy fucking Paki >>33221386 and should not reproduce, let alone with a young white woman. And the funny thing is I remember even some short Indians and Pakis getting GFs at my uni, because they had good reputations for being really smart