Thread 33222119 - /adv/ [Archived: 1141 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/15/2025, 8:53:36 AM No.33222119
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Is there a way of asking a girl out without sounding being a normalfag?
A polite smile and saying "You seem interesting, i'd like to take you out on a date" is beyond barbarous, it's been done a million times and it will be done, there is nothing special about it. The only part i like about it is that if a girl says yes, you can tell how shallow she really is, something i don't want.
So ultimately, is there a way to be unique in this way, so that i could avoid acting like a braindead normie with an emotional intelligence lower than the shaft of a guy with erectile dysfunction?
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 8:57:38 AM No.33222129
>>33222119 (OP)
>you can tell how shallow she really is, something i don't want.
your power level is showing
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:03:35 AM No.33222140
look in her eyes when you get the right moment and make sure the tension is there. and be direct with a "be my girlfriend" or something, but you have to say it in a way that's endearing or like you're amused by her, not emotionlessly.
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:13:36 AM No.33222152
>>33222119 (OP)
You might as well say "how do I say hello without sounding like everyone else?"
Its the social convention. Thats what people say when they greet people.

Same way if you want to ask a girl out youre gonna have to say "you wanna go to *thing* with me?"

Thats about the only issue with what youre asking BTW. You dont preface it with a dumb compliment then do a vague open ended "date with me".
If youre familiar enough with someone to ask this question, then youre familiar enough to say "I'm doing x this weekend, wanna come"?
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:20:56 AM No.33222168
>>33222152
Well, i don't really use a hello, to acquaintances i say something which in my language roughly translates to "Yoo, how goes it, how stays it", even to professors i'd say "Yo" instead of hello.
Doesn't help that i always carry a skateboard around.
Either way, if it does come to the things you've said, it probably won't even be my intention to do anything in a normal sense.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:26:40 AM No.33222173
>>33222168
It should be very, very clear what I meant.
Don't be this much of a faggot..
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:45:50 AM No.33222204
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>>33222168
"I dont say hello, I say yo"
Jesus fucking christ
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 12:22:28 PM No.33222515
Just ask if they want to go to the aquarium or a museum this friday, and donโ€™t say specifically as a romantic date. This way you look interesting with your choice of venue, you can hit a restaurant or coffee shop after, and the vagueness excites a girl โ€œdoes he like me, does he not??โ€
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 12:44:34 PM No.33222589
>>33222119 (OP)
Don't ask a stranger out. Look to girls you already know.
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 1:13:28 PM No.33222657
>>33222152
How does this work when it's an activity you wouldn't do alone? You're going to coffee/concert/bowling or whatever, you can't pretend you'd just go alone anyway.