How to know when to leave a girl alone? - /adv/ (#33223942) [Archived: 993 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/15/2025, 7:42:03 PM No.33223942
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Yesterday she invited me to hang out, we did that, then we went back to the place she's renting, had wine, watched a movie and cuddled. When I tried to touch her more intimately she took my hand away and wouldn't reciprocate when I kissed her, but she'd also occasionally kiss my hands.

At like 4am she said she's going to bed and I can't remember if she asked me to come up with her but I did anyway. Then we just cuddled, chatted, and chatted even more in the morning.

The last time this happened, she specifically said she was on her period but I still went up to bed with her.

The time before that again, she asked me to go to the bedroom and we had sex, although we were drunk so it didn't last long. She later texted me saying we should "netflix and chill" and made other flirty comments.
She also called me hot and gave me other such compliments.

I feel like i'm being super autistic and not taking the hint that it's late and I should leave and she doesn't know how to tell me to fuck off so she just lets me go to bed with her lol, but then she's also very touchy, kisses my arms, rests her head on my chest, seems happy to talk with me etc.

I'm super fucking confused on what I should do. Should I just continue doing the thing where we watch a movie until everyone else goes to sleep and it's just us?
Or should I take the hint that I should leave when everyone else is going to bed?

Or is she a strong independent woman who has the ability to tell me to fuck off if she really wanted to?
Why is this all so confusing?? Do normies instinctively know what to do in these situations???
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 7:43:56 PM No.33223948
>>33223942 (OP)
Also she's the one who really started this, when we were out she'd grab and hold my hand or put her arm around mine.
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 8:42:06 PM No.33224128
>>33223942 (OP)
>How to know when to leave a girl alone?
When she calls the cops.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 8:58:03 PM No.33224180
>>33224128
well I don't think she'll do that. But I also don't want to be a nuisance.
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:07:01 PM No.33224206
>>33223942 (OP)
>feel like i'm being super autistic

Yes
Relax
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:10:49 PM No.33224222
>>33224206
I do ask her if i'm overstaying my welcome and she usually just tells me that I worry too much.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 11:15:07 PM No.33224650
,
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 3:47:19 PM No.33228434
>>33223942 (OP)
Again, push her onto her back and blow a big raspberry on her tummy. She'll love it.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 3:51:47 PM No.33228441
>>33224222
>tells me that I worry too much.
Delete this useless thread.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 6:32:45 PM No.33229129
>>33228441
>Delete this useless thread
what do you mean? She tells me that but I don't know what she actually means. It might just be her being nice. I have valid concerns since it didn't seem like she wanted to fuck last time, putting my hand away when I put it towards her crotch.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 7:09:13 PM No.33229338
>>33223942 (OP)
I realize this may sound like empty advice, but the most powerful thing you could do is to learn how to not care. I can't tell you how to do that, but figuring that out at least gives you a goal to work towards.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 7:10:37 PM No.33229341
>>33223942 (OP)
you are raping her
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Anonymous
6/17/2025, 12:48:59 PM No.33233453
>>33229341
really?