How do you find other introverts?
It feels like everyone in this country is an extrovert. People are always with their friends or messaging over social media and such.
I only want to be friends with a person that has as little regular social interaction as me.

>>33229802 (OP)
Online and then somehow meeting IRL is the only way.
Example: In the late 2010s I did this by complete accident because I got into a fighting game, met some people by playing and then met up with them at events/tournaments, most of them were introverts.

>>33229819
Do you know any way irl?

>>33229802 (OP)
Hiking clubs are mostly introverts, in my experience. Makes sense - the excitement that extroverts crave is better found in urban settings, in bars and raves or a football stadium with wall-to-wall people.

>>33229964
probably any event or a place with an activity that mainly introverts are interested in, like a library/book club, board game event etc. or just get lucky

>>33229819
Is online only found through discord?

>>33229802 (OP)
if you were truly introverted, you wouldn't be so desperately seeking social companionship. the truth is almost no one is actually naturally introverted. almost everyone desires regular human connection and bases most of their energy around things that predicate having said connections. calling yourself an introvert is a cope.

>has as little regular social interaction as me
and how do you not see this as a problem working directly against your alleged goal?

you are a confused idiot. go make friends and stop letting yourself be intimidated by people that are better at socializing and maintaining relationships than you are.

>>33233836
I don't think I'm desperately seeking it out.
I haven't been seeking friends for many years and it's been almost 6 years since I had anyone that I talked to hung out with that were not a family member.
>and how do you not see this as a problem working directly against your alleged goal?
How is that so?

I don't want to be friends with someone that is a complete normie to me. It does not have to do with being intimidated by having more friends or whatever. I just have not managed to find anyone near my level.

>>33229802 (OP)
what country?
move to finland or something and most people will be introverts too.

>>33233502
I've made friends before on 4chan. Anywhere you can swap email, signal, or whatever you want to communicate with is a good place to go.

>>33229802 (OP)
Anon, you can’t find introverts in public lol

>>33229802 (OP)
There's an effect that is easily proven with math where everyone you know is liable to be more social than you. People who are less social are not going to kick your door in to meet you. Sorry, not much is served on a silver platter in this world.

>>33234242
Denmark.
Compared to the other nordics we are extremely extroverted in general. I believe I heard once that Danes have the most friends and every time I'm outside everyone is either with a group of friends or messaging someone on a social media app or talking on their phone.
>>33234344
But was that on /soc/? It feels like a normie board even different from most of 4chan.
>>33235099
>People who are less social are not going to kick your door in to meet you
I know I just wanted some possible ideas to meet those people.

>>33235306
>But was that on /soc/?

Nope.

I actually managed to swap contacts with people from /x/ before. Not everyone replies, but if you're genuine and post interesting stuff in thread (no tripfagging) then someone might hit you up. Other good boards are /b/ and /trash/ with both actually having threads where people swap contacts. Look for signal threads or discord threads on /b/. For /Trash/ look for threads with a social interest. Mmos? "Healsluts". Furries and/or Roleplaying ? F-List / ERP. ect.

>>33235629
So did you find anything but gooners?

>>33239449
Yes. On /X/ I found people really into ceremonial magic and esoteric things. Very low reply rate, but once freiends were found we talked for years about spooky things. On /B/ I ran across people dealing with trauma, some disabled people, and one guy who really loved horror movies. Low reply rate but surprisingly deep conversation. /Trash/ is very casual and seems to have a mixed bag of based guys there to talk (but they don't like /soc/ for being too shallow) and high strung gooners. Thankfully you can always stop talking to gooners and the gooners mostly get the point and won't harass you if you aren't posting gooner stuff. Higher reply rate than the rest, but least serious people.

Be degen? Find degen. Be based? Find based. That's just how it goes normally. If feeling paranoud, then use a nice throwaway as a filter just in case. Remember to check the throwaway as I've had people forget, reply months later, and apologize. It kills conversation.
Once you know they're good, steer them to the real contact to make life easier. If they're a spaz, block them or make a new throwaway.

>>33239803
I look at /trash/ and it's all porn and degen threads.

>>33229802 (OP)
This extroverted and introverted stuff is a myth to make normies feel special like those worthless personality tests or mbti shit.

>>33229802 (OP)
>messaging over social media and such
well this is usually what introverts do with their close/good friends
if you're introverted even in the online world then i can't help you. find an autist from /soc/ or something

>>33233836
>Introverted means schizoid
Are you genuinely this retarded?

>>33233836
Introverts still need socialization. Just a different kind than what extroverts need.

>>33243833
It's a red board. Yes, there's degen threads and porn. There's also non-lewd stuff like their Vtubers (not the lewd thread, not normal thread), "Ha ha i hate myself" (chat community), Harahel Roleplaying (CYOA based roleplay), and drawing improvement threads.

>>33234219
>I don't want to be friends with someone that is a complete normie to me. It does not have to do with being intimidated by having more friends or whatever. I just have not managed to find anyone near my level.
Have you considered some of the people you meet also feel this way and are hiding their shit? It's usually the ones that appear the most quietly normal/boring that are like this as well.

>>33243833
It's a red board. Yes, there's degen threads and porn. There's also non-lewd stuff like their Vtubers (not the lewd thread, the normal thread), "Ha ha i hate myself" (chat community), Harahel Roleplaying (CYOA based roleplay), and drawing improvement threads. You'll have to look past the degen posts to find the normal ones. Even then, sometimes people do talk about other things in the degen areas like Healsluts (Mmo players) and Flist (Furfags and roleplayers) .