how do i stop falling for girls that are bad for me? i tend to fall for chicks that despite beign funny and pretty they come from broken homes, they shout, lie, cheat, have tattoos, drink too much, have done drugs, etc
despite me having a stable job, master degree, eat well, read, go gym, etc
yeah my parents were always fighting and emotionally unavailable when growing up, so i tend to seek this unconsciously but i don't want to
>>33229822 (OP)Can you get girls with the qualities you like that are not like this generally? Are you indecisive about what you really want?
>>33229822 (OP)You can't, but, hopefully, you will grow out of it.
"Experience keeps a dear school, but fools will learn in no other."
- Benjamin Franklin
my gf came from a tough home but astonishingly she is the most authentic and genuine person i've ever met, in 5 years i haven't caught her in a lie even once, it's incredible, she made me do a lot of internal work because im someone who used to do white lies all the time, but she basically incapable of not telling the truth
>>33230030>Can you get girls with the qualities you like that are not like this generally?not really, i guess i have deep insecurities about not beign enough despite sharing some of those qualities
>Are you indecisive about what you really want?i know my ideal woman, but as i said i might have inferiority complex or something and i tend to settle
>>33230060i'm at the age when i don't want to deal with it anymore
>>33230069i'm happy for you
