>talk with a girl
>asks me to hang out tomorrow
>say yes
>tomorrow comes
>send her a msg
>becomes active for a min, then disappears

I wasn't being a creep, pushy or something like that. I'm confused why they keep doing it. My friend pushes me to double text, but I don't think it's a good move. What should I do? I've had gfs and one night stands, but shit like this make me doubt myself.

>>33229969 (OP)
Don't double text, leave it alone and if she ever gets back to you, don't reply for a few hours and make zero effort to be funny, witty or anything

She's stood you up. She made plans, decided she couldn't be bothered and didn't let you know. Don't go out of your way for her, she doesn't deserve it

Ideally you'd just block her and forget it

>>33229969 (OP)
>>33230080
Also don't let it damage your confidence, if you need constant validation from others then you're in a for a long, shit life because as men we very rarely get it. You've probably heard the phrase about many men not getting their flowers until their funeral. Focus on your own shit and derive your self worth from that. Achieve something, even if it's just at the gym, and your confidence will be much improved.

>>33230096
>go 2 gym
kill yourself unironically.

>>33230127
>t.angry fat fuck who's already killing himself with twinkies

>>33229969 (OP)
Treat them like a bro, so think about it too hard. If they dont respond then whatever, dont waste your time. But dont be afraid to text them a few times if you really had plans. Standing anyone up is bad and deserves a few texts to be sure. And if shes freaked out by a couple of texts then fuck her. You dont need to date someone so irresonably skittish.

>>33230920
T. Gymcel

it's very common to ghost in today's world. you just have to know how to live with it. However, since you've been pretty successful in dating scenes as per your account, why do you cling to a few failures? let it go, man.

>>33233040
For example I've been stressing for not getting one of the jobs, but when I got another one (good job actually ) I felt nothing. I'm retarded

>>33229969 (OP)
Move on
If you need to start jumping through hoops to hope to get a woman's attention it's already over, it only gets worse from here
>But
No

>>33229969 (OP)
she's a flake, the trash took itself out