Why do women move on so fast after saying they still love you?

Dated a girl for 2 years (long distance), my first relationship ever. She broke up with me 3 months ago saying it was because of family pressure and distance. Said she still loved me and wished me peace and i wished her the same. It ended respectfully.

I’ve been doing gym, hobbies, getting my life together. Felt okay until this few weeks.

Now she’s all over Instagram liking couple content, love quotes, cute relationship stuff. Looks like she’s already with someone else.

I’m sitting here wondering:
Why say you love someone, then move on like they never existed?
She became a lying whore in my eyes now and my mind can't grasp it.

Just trying to make sense of this. Anyone else been through it or can help me understand the mind of a woman? I'm a relationship newfag.

>>33230274 (OP)
>Why do women
Why does everyone on this site always generalizes entire groups of people

>>33230274 (OP)
>Why do women move on so fast after saying they still love you?

biologically women HAVE to move on faster. biologically their minds are wired to seek a companion who can impregnate them asap. who can give them loyalty and commitment. idk what drive your break up but if she saw she can’t be with you long term she has to find someone else because biologically her eggs are not forever. Your pp can make babies until you die.

>>33230274 (OP)
Because they have options

If you had a few cute girls after your cock, you'd get sith at least one of them

It's nothing personal, just the way it is

Focus on your own shit and keep getting better. For men life is a grind. For women it's a minefield for other reasons, but certainly not a grind unless they choose to study medicine or become a lawyer or whatever.

>>33230334
>Loyalty and commitment
Most girls run from this in the early stages. Number 1 most common dating fail is being too clingy

>>33230274 (OP)
For starters long distance relationships are not real. Sorry but real. Second thing is that they move on because they 1. decided long before the breakup that they did not want to put in the effort to make the relationship work ultimately. 2. They have a lot of options. And in reality its fair because they need to move quickly to find the person they want to impregnate them. If it makes you feel any better she probably does love and cares for you. It just was never going to be a permanent thing. Breakups are opportunities for new experiences, new learning, new challenges. It isnt what we ask for but it is what we get.

>>33230360
Define long distance

1 hour away+?
2 hour away+?

>>33230329
Thank you, for standing out and saying the right thing, was about to be grasped by such vicious and corrupt thoughts.

>>33230382
>Define long distance
"no"

>>33230334
>>33230360

>impregnate them asap.

Here’s the kicker: she can’t even have kids. PCOS plus another infertility condition.

Yeah i'm never doing long distance again, took to much on my mental health, I was to much in love,

>>33230382
I live in europe and she lives in south america.Visited me a few times.

>>33230329
Just trying to make sense of things, propably guys to that to.

>>33230421
>Here’s the kicker: she can’t even have kids. PCOS plus another infertility condition.

this should be your kicker to move the fuck on. why mourn a woman who can’t give you babies?

>>33230442
this

>>33230274 (OP)
>Why do women move on so fast after saying they still love you?
To numb the pain.

>>33230442
I don’t know why I’m mourning it so much. We weren’t really compatible in many ways, but it was the first time I truly felt wanted and she was so fucking hot. I guess I’m just trying to make sense of how she moved on so quickly. I can't even begin dating someone else right now.

>>33230530
what made her fucking hot? aren’t women with pcos usually fat?

>long distance
women only actually love you after being fucked by you
the more you fuck them the more they love you
love starts in the pussy

>>33230274 (OP)
Fuck her, you deserve better than a whore like that, if it makes it better for you, she prolly fukced with another dude long time before braking up.

>>33230552
if you are her first kiss you will alter her brain chrmistry because of oxytocins overdose in her brain

if you fuck her she will worship you (especially if you’re her first)

>>33230563
What about raping?

>>33230583
she will resent the fuck out of you the fuck

>>33230563
F, here this is facts. My first kiss bf got me so attached to him. JUST FOR KISSING. Cannot imagine the damage he’d done me had we had sex, glad we didn’t.

>>33230545
She was fit, very nice face, didn't even use makeup. 9/10

>>33230552
I fucked her 3-4 times a day when visited it me for 1 month, how much dick does she need?

So basically, she had already checked out and didn’t see a future with me,that’s why she moved on so quickly.
And it’s confusing. I live in a first-world country, have a respected, high-paying job, I’m educated and somehow, that still wasn’t enough.
Sure, I probably dodged a bullet given chances of getting kids are very minimal, but still, what more do people want?

>>33230625
>I fucked her 3-4 times a day

did you cum in her?

>>33230625
>I fucked her 3-4 times a day when visited it me for 1 month
yeah but she never actually came (she faked her orgasms) so it counts as never having sex with her

>>33230274 (OP)
grim

>>33230274 (OP)
Women now have an abundance of men to chose from online. Every average woman and above who has social media, and they all do, is bombarded with hordes of male attention and suitors. But this also happens in real life, at school, in their social circle and everywhere else they go. They are importing millions of men every year into the west and have been doing this for decades now. The competition is fierce and you are now not only competing with your countrymen males but also endless supply of third worlders, some of which are hard working, decent looking, and willing to breed the average white woman and wage his life away for a chance to wash away his non-white genes.
No point mentioning the fact that all women who are worth their shit are already taken or the fact that a large part of women would rather be part of Chads harem playing the sex kitten.

>>33230274 (OP)
just fuck another woman

>>33230274 (OP)
>"LDR"
I won't read delusional, app-addled threads.

>>33230274 (OP)
>long distance
She may still care for you but this isn't working and she has accepted it has no future.