Messed up and developed feelings for someone, not sure what to do.

>Take vacation from work
>Have idea to ask out coworker on a date before I take off in a few weeks
>First week, she's busy most of the night so I don't get a chance to ask her
>Second week, she herself takes off on the days I would've been working with her
>Get frustrated and ask another coworker out in her place, specifically as a friend since we're friendly but I also know she's talking to some other guy too
>Don't expect a yes but get one anyway

>Fast forward to vacation
>We have an absolutely great time together since we're on the same wavelength
>So good in fact, we wind up getting together again that same week
>End the night with a kiss before we leave
>Now have a crush on her too

She's wonderful but I don't think we can work out since we're at different points in our lives. The first one doesn't have as much baggage and is a much wiser choice, but now I'm torn between pursuing this new relationship or backing out before we get in too deep. But I feel like if I do call things off, there's no chance of going back to where we were. How do I make a decision?

>>33230708 (OP)
>We have an absolutely great time together since we're on the same wavelength
what more do you want? also if you werent retarded and dating coworkers, you could have dated both of them and ultimately chose the best one. But obviously you cant do that bc youre tarded

>>33230728
Coworkers are the best option I have since I don't get out anywhere else. It's one of the few places I can develop a rapport with women and slowly convince them I'm a dating candidate. It's even worse now since I just ended one relationship and now suddenly several of the women around me have gotten far more flirtatious. How am I supposed to say no?

>>33230708 (OP)
>I don't think we can work out since we're at different points in our lives.

That's just an excuse. If you like her then go for it, it's worth a go. You guys can figure it out if you form a meaningful connection. If not then it wasn't meant to be and that's fine. Don't avoid it out of fear.

>>33231008
I think that's actually really helpful, just say fuck it and give it a shot. I don't think there's any way to go back at this point anyway.

>>33231047
Yeah basically. It's quite rare to find a real spark so don't run from from it. Good luck anon, see what happens and just know that you'll be fine if it doesn't work out. You've been fine till now, right? Stay cool and enjoy.

>>33231364
Yeah, we're good right now. My biggest worry is that I want to eventually get married and she's stated she wasn't interested when we talked about those kinds of things last year... but then again, things can always change.