Started a new job super quiet and overly polite, and now I feel stuck in that image. I want to be more chill and social, but it’s tricky since people already see me a certain way. Has anyone else gone through something like this? Or got any advice? Just curious if others have felt the same.

>>33232437 (OP)
First impressions matter but don't expect yourself or others to keep up the same conduct.

I tell a lot of dirty pussy asshole jokes with people I know, I would never open with that stuff.

>>33232452
>I tell a lot of dirty pussy asshole jokes with people I know
The nurses in your psych ward? The other winos in the alley?

>>33232437 (OP)
Just be nonchalant about it and don’t be afraid to have a conversation.

>>33232516
No with winos I start with that, another situation I'd get to know you first then I'll go hard.

>>33232437 (OP)
Yes they are that Iimportant but they can be over come.
I once heard it takes 10 times to overcome a first impression .this should be easy in an office setting. Just don’t try too hard