I'm in a relationship, have been for almost 2 years and its going well. the thing is, I'm sort of crushing on my partner's best friend. I have their insta/disc and I've chatted when them a few times. They're also in a relationship too but I don't know what to do considering its been a few months since ive felt like this. Should I wait until it dies down or should I act on it? should I just break up with my current partner? I don't know.. I don't know if anyone else experiences this too, and I feel kinda shitty for having these feelings

>>33233086 (OP)
It's a crush. Wait until it dies down. Until then stop stalking the friend in order to reduce temptation.

Love is more than a feeling, it's an active choice. Despite what people say it's somewhat normal to get a crush/lightly infatuated when you are in a long term relationship. Use the opportunity to ask yourself why? Why do you have a crush on this person? Are you just inexperienced, and they are new? Do they offer something missing from your current relationship? And how real are your observations, are they grounded in reality or are they fantasies and daydreams?

You shouldn't cheat on your gf, just break up with her if you find yourself dissatisfied in a way that you find unbearable, or if there's something that you now realize is a deal breaker.

In the meantime, I would actually talk to your friend more in a way that you can break your fantasy version of them and get a more realistic view of them. A crush is just a lack of information.

>>33233086 (OP)
>partner
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dilate.