Had to cut off all my friends and now im alone - /adv/ (#33233358) [Archived: 833 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:55:47 AM No.33233358
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Friend 1 - called me retarded for going on a walk and changing my diet (he tried to blackpill me it won't change my life anyways)
Friend 2 - sabotaged my career when I started becoming successful
Friend 3 - ignored meaningful conversations to send a bunch of dumb normie memes
Friend 4 - mind was rotten, all he did was send me porn and tiktoks how I should hate all women despite asking him not to
Friend 5 - turned out to be a pet abuser and saw no problem with it

This all happened throughout 2,5 years. Decided to cut these people off from my life since they brought mostly negative things to my life. Now I am all alone, with no one to share my thoughts with. I have no one to share my joy with, to mourn about our struggles. Without the internet, all I have left are trivial shallow conversations about weather or how did my exams go.
I thought I would be happier without them, but turns out it's pretty lonely not having someone to talk to for weeks. They were fake and I know I made the "right decision", but somehow I don't feel okay with it.

Can someone give me advice how to live with it, or maybe tell me how I'm wrong?
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Anonymous
6/17/2025, 1:53:25 PM No.33233528
>>33233358 (OP)
Selection of friends issue.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 4:53:43 PM No.33234008
>>33233358 (OP)
Friend 3 is the only one who doesn't sound like a piece of shit, just autistic. Maybe friend 4 as well, but he sounds like a closet case.
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Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:42:43 PM No.33234670
>>33233358 (OP)
Sounds like my friends when I did all sorts of drugs and degeneracy. I was in an awful friend circle ish 2012-2016. You have no choice but to distance yourself (physically, mentally, spiritually). Cut them off completely. Giving up amphetamine was incredibly hard. But finding new friends/community is even harder. I believe most friendships are built upon shallow values. For me, I would rather die alone than be around a bunch of wannabes. There's an Arab saying that goes: Show me your friends, and I'll tell you who are.”
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Anonymous
6/17/2025, 9:08:51 PM No.33234995
>>33234008
Oh not at all, he became a total leftist and studies psychology. Ironically he was the one initiating the discussions.
>>33234670
I think you're mostly right, my case maybe wasn't so extreme, because I was just a fucking loser, so I surrounded myself with anyone who I could, even if I knew they talked shit behind my back. Now when I got out of this cesspool I might have started being more "picky", or should I say more demanding of my friends.
Anyways, I am happy for you that you quit that habit and turned your life around.
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:42:01 PM No.33239322
Bumping so i can reply later without this thread getting archived
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:57:11 PM No.33243132
>>33239322
bumping it if you're still going to
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:00:56 PM No.33243146
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>>33233358 (OP)
you should have kept friend 3 and 5, their flaws wouldn't have impacted you negatively.
oh well. they're probably better off without a judgemental moron like you around
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:17:50 PM No.33243189
>>33243146
>you should have kept friend 3 and 5, their flaws wouldn't have impacted you negatively.
Friend 3 - can't talk to about my or his problems like actual fucking person. I want a friend, not a meme page.
Friend 5 - there are just some things I won't tolerate and animal abuse is one of them. Just like I wouldn't be a friend with a pedo.

I know you're baiting but I guess 2/10 because I still replied to you.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:21:01 PM No.33243200
>>33243189
nope, I was being serious
having a friend who kicks a dog once in a while >>>> having no friends >>>> having friends who drag you down
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:27:31 PM No.33243216
>>33243200
Well, um... no.
I wouldn't feel okay with myself knowing my friend is torturing animals or hurting other people and I am actively contributing to his well-being. Most people think the same as me. I feel like I am explaining how human connection works to an alien lol
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:52:16 PM No.33243288
>>33243216
>torturing animals or hurting other people
which is it? the latter is not OK
you and I are contributing to animal torture everytime we eat meat or use products tested on them btw (which means anything from drugs to crash protecting gear)
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:04:48 PM No.33243332
>>33243288
>you and I are contributing to animal torture everytime we eat meat or use products tested on them btw (which means anything from drugs to crash protecting gear)
1. just because we do it doesnt matter we should allow torturing animals just for the sake of it
2. hurting other people is still a thing; research modern slavery (for example nestle)
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:57:07 PM No.33243500
>>33243146
Friend 5 is a serial killer in the making you fucking psycho
>>33243189
You also said friend 3 became a rabid leftist which if he's insufferable about it is absolutely a dealbreaker.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:59:03 PM No.33243505
>>33243200
You're a fucking idiot and deserve to get your ass beat. Animal abuse is one of the first traits shown by a serial killer. KYS
>>33243288
Pseudointellectual faggot, fuck your entire false dichotomy and your trying to rationalize your own psychotic behavior. If you abuse animals, you deserve to be tortured to death
>>33243332
Honestly, you should ignore that anon, he has a sub-90 IQ and trying to justify his own psychotic behavior. He deserves death.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:08:07 PM No.33243741
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>>33233358 (OP)
when it comes about our own species, things seen cannot be unseen
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 2:34:23 AM No.33245903
>>33243132
bumping it again because i eventually will
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 2:56:50 AM No.33245997
>>33233358 (OP)
Yeah, I get it. All my childhood friends became alcoholics It's why I don't drink.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 3:34:07 AM No.33246117
Just embrace being a loner loser and It's kind of fun. I walk and drive around at night listening to "sad piano music" playlist from YouTube. I talk to my reflection and just myself. I talk to myself openly loudly at work and people look but don't say anything. I talk to myself about how much I hate my life and want death. Every other Saturday I head to the bar and drink my sadness away. Not even sad, I guess I just like the idea of sadness.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:04:44 AM No.33247553
>>33246117
You're very sad, anon. Be honest with yourself, no matter how painful it might feel. It's better than suppressing. If you suppress, you stay stuck. I've been exactly where you are. It is a kind of death. You're not really alive right now. Admit it, start changing. You don't have to live your life in this quiet desperation.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:23:12 PM No.33250603
>>33234995
Judging by your answers I think you might be more of the problem than you realize.