Securing a relationship - /adv/ (#33233359) [Archived: 1586 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:55:50 AM No.33233359
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I'm just wondering on how to have a stable relationship. I feel like I'm past the washy wishiness and rainbows and I see relationships as something that's little more like a business, knowing it's not a Disney movie. No matter how a woman can be devoted to you at first, there will always be some bullshit that'll come up and you'll be the bad guy anyway, despite your greatest efforts on holding everything together.

I've heard that women find lack of things going on in your life as severely unattractive. So I wonder, is being a gym frequent, having hobbies such as hiking, shooting, music and having an education/j*b enough to keep a woman interested in you? Does starting in sports competitions enhance how well you're being perceived by her? Surely it's better than being a league of legends player with nothing in life.
Also while I know it's impossible to prevent bullshit argument fights from occuring, how do you minimize it? Is it okay to leave someone if they simply do the same thing over and over without changing themselves and not being mature? Obviously there are more women that are better, but is it possible to "fix" someone? Or is it simply better to move on and throw them out like she never meant anything to you? I'm in my early 20s.

I've been through shit and need some advice. Thanks.
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Anonymous
6/17/2025, 3:31:54 PM No.33233748
>>33233359 (OP)
You're in your early 20s and no one understands how to get to the fucking point and just say whatever is bothering them. There needs to be prefacing to ignore emotional inflection in the voice, be honest, and ignore whatever background emotional shit that paints mood. Just try.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 7:49:40 AM No.33237473
>>33233359 (OP)
Can some one explain what the print is supposed to mean?