no friends - /adv/ (#33235138) [Archived: 1597 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/17/2025, 10:02:24 PM No.33235138
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if you’ll just call me a loser please don’t reply to this thread. ive lost all my friends in the last 3 months today today it hit me i genuinely have no one i could call a true friend anymore and i was just a floater or a 3rd option to everyone my whole life. i help everyone around me but never get anything in return and it’s my fault when i speak up for myself. i don’t understand how it got to this point even my parents noticed i used to have so many friends now i’m just a loner , i guess no one appreciates kindness anymore
before anyone asks i was never an arrogant or stuck up person ive always had a bubbly friendly personality , made friends easily and yes i am pretty quick to get angry but its always super short lived and i always apologise i help everyone around me and i don’t understand how it got this way this has always been my biggest fear
Replies: >>33235158 >>33235220 >>33235229
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 10:07:56 PM No.33235158
>>33235138 (OP)
> But I'm nice
https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/the-difference-between-being-a-good-guy-and-a-nice-guy/

Be good, not nice. They are tired of being usef.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 10:22:17 PM No.33235220
>>33235138 (OP)
Just because you made friends easy doesn't mean your friends were good people or that you're a good person. If there's a side of you that you believe helped drive a wedge, fix it or try changing a little. Be less emotionally needy, maybe. If you think the problem was with your friends, find better/ different people to be friends with. Life sucks, longtime friends can turn into bastards. If you let it eat at you, you'll just end up weird and alone for even longer.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 10:23:48 PM No.33235229
>>33235138 (OP)

Me alone too
It hurts but 4chan is my frend