So I fell for the meme bros. I never thought that would happen to me of all people the most stone cold incel from this place. But she captured my heart alright, I never felt this towards anyone else.

For context I am 19 (M), I currently live in Brazil, and she's 20 (F) and lives on the US.

Uhm I guess the advice that I'm looking for is, how can I mentally equip myself for what might happen if things go south. You know life is a major bitch man, and I'm genuinely scared for the first time in my life about someone else other than me. And I do not like that feeling a whole lot. It's new but I wish that I could love her and also just push that away.

She told me she's also concerned about me, but in all honesty that only makes things tougher for me. I don't want her to be concerned about me. (I know that's selfish)

Maybe I'm just being incredibly stupid because this is the first time I ever felt like this. It's just that I never expected to feel this way. Is this what people call "love"? If so, is there a smart way to navigate this or am I just bound to get fucked because of the nature of this relationship?

>>33236082 (OP)
>"LDR"
I won't read delusional, app-addled threads. Go outside.

>>33236177
I mean ok? thanks for the bump dude

Don’t overthink it. Keep talking and getting to know each other, when you fall in love you’ll know it. Google some online dates like escape rooms, movie nights, video games etc. Met my husband years ago and moved across the world to be with him. LDR works if you really love your person.

>>33236332
i think thats a fair advice. i genuinely do love her. she also seems to love me and appreciate me very much. i'm so happy right now. it warms my heart, and makes me feel a little bit at ease, knowing other people (like you) have also gone through that