I'm an autistic girl with huge breasts. J-cups. No I'm not fat. Almost all shirts give me tactile discomfort. The only exception is compression shirts, which are very comfortable for me but they're skintight... I personally don't mind wearing them but friends and family say that they're too provocative and I shouldn't wear them. But any and all other shirts feel itchy and crawly and create in me constant discomfort. What do I do?

>>33236138 (OP)
if you're autistic why would you give a single shit about what your friends say about something that makes you comfortable? they have mentally no first hand experience with your sensory issues

>>33236138 (OP)
Stop wearing shirts. #Freethenipple

>>33236145
Autistic people like me have trouble realizing when we make others feel hurt or uncomfortable, but we care deeply if we do realize it. We're very empathetic, just dumb.

>>33236146
I wish

are you literally my ex girlfriend. oh wait probably not because she was a whore who loved to show off her giant tits for attention

>>33236164
And nobody's ever dated me so I'm nobody's ex-girlfriend. :p

>>33236166
sad. I hope you find someone to make yor bewbs feel nice and a shirt that makes them comfy

>>33236138 (OP)
>big tits bait
I won't read larping bait threads posted in order to get the subhuman incel morons going.

>>33236138 (OP)
big tits are unattractive and annoying to live with as you have realised, get a breast reduction surgery

>>33236191
It's not just my breasts, though. Shirts have been uncomfortable for me for the entire area they cover since I was a little kid. I hate the way they make my lower back and tummy feel, gives me the shivers.

>>33236198
okay could i see you without a shirt on

>>33236198
do you wear shirts with the graphics on the front. I do not like them either. Go to a nicer mall and find the comfy section.

>>33236220
This!

>>33236138 (OP)
Sports bras. Nice tight big ones.

>>33236152
>Autistic people like me have trouble realizing when we make others feel hurt or uncomfortable, but we care deeply if we do realize it. We're very empathetic, just dumb.
You didn't read my post at all

Why does them being hurt at what you need to wear have any standing whatsoever when they don't have your first person experience?

if i said i was seriously offended you didn't have a bullet hole in your head would you put one there to be "deeply empathetic" to my ridiculous needs

When you don't wear a bra and we can see your nipples and you have gigantic gigatits that we men wanna stick our dicks between, you come off as easy. Women are mad at you for that.

>>33236383
nta but autistic people get used to deferring to neurotypicals because they're always right and we're always wrong and messing things up

>>33236476
Neurotypicals are not "always right" in fact they're pretty much consistently always wrong, it's just that unless you were born with a lot of money you are forced to be under them so they get to decide what to do with you.

>>33236504
a lot of even high functioning neurodivergents lack basic understanding of emotional and social cues and as humans are social creatures this is not a good thing. depending on their conditions, some neurodivergents cant even think for themself so no i would say they are below actual humans and the fact that humans allow them to survive is counterproductive to the human race

>>33236138 (OP)
Ill hold them for you

>>33236138 (OP)
Wear something tight like that, the way you like,
and then something else on top that is thin and light.
Like a very light open-shoulder top, ripped shirt, whatever. It will make you look cool and punk, too, if it's one of those ripped tops.

>>33236476
>autistic people get used to deferring to neurotypicals because they're always right and we're always wrong and messing things up
no matter how neurotypical they can't be right about what you need to wear to be comfortable to function though?

>>33236138 (OP)
Your hair is getting tangled into your bras and tops. Do you wear a lot of stretch clothing to compensate? Then that's it. And it does feel god awful, like skin crawlingly awful. Get linen buttondowns, have them tailored. Or actually, pick up sewing and do it yourself. But make sure that the tops are big enough to compensate for tit depth. And invest in a lint roller. I swear to god, you'd better be delicate washing those bras and not wearing those disgusting sports bras that crush your fucking tits into you so hair they give a shortness of breath debuff.

>>33236166
I can make you my ex-girlfriend if you catch my drift.

>>33236191
Die

>>33236138 (OP)
OP, we need photographic evidence of what we're working with here. A lot of people here are visual troubleshooters.

>>33236138 (OP)
Consider reduction surgery. If you have any kind of insurance, it will probably be free

>>33243566
>picrel encouraging surgical mutilation
kys faggot

>>33236138 (OP)
Just wear the compression shirt, but put a breathable, opaque, and looser-fitting shirt over it.

No idea if it's safe to wear a compression shirt all the time, though.

how old are you?

>>33236138 (OP)
unironically go here
/r/bigboobproblems
and ask them

i've found a lot of great info on /r/bigdickproblems so im assuming it's the same for the sister sub

>>33243820
I turn 20 on November 1st!

Make them titties slosh around. Go bra less.

Post tits or GTFO larping faggot

>>33243982
Okay attention whore that's not autistic, there's bras made that are for big boobed women online, you know this. You unironically love the attention and validation people give you.

>>33236138 (OP)
Your sensory issues will only multiply if you begin dressing like a slut.

>>33236138 (OP)
idk but use moisturizer so you don develop skin irregularities due them being to big.

also maybe consider a bit of breast reduction if they are too annoying

>>33236138 (OP)
Wear a compression shirt and then something baggier on top of it.

>>33244354
nta but does wearing a tight shirt really make you look slutty lol

>>33236138 (OP)
Girl why would any of these men really know how to help you with this lmfao

>>33236138 (OP)
'Too provocative'
God forbid a woman has a figure underneath her clothes. Bro, that shit is NOT provocative - no matter how fat your tits are. Some people will just take any opportunity to be prudish or nasty.
If you're really concerned about it, you can always wear a light, loose shirt over the compression shirt. That way, you're covered, and you don't have to worry about uncomfortable textures.

>>33236138 (OP)
So your issue is that other people are horny for you and people around you have opinions?
Go hook up with someone possessive who has a lot of free time, that way you can be chaperoned and not get harassed for your breasts.
Also wear the comfortable clothes, but make it clear to the person you're hooking up with that it's a sensory thing. Otherwise they'll think you're trying to get people horny.

>>33236476
>autistic people get used to deferring to neurotypicals because they're always right and we're always wrong and messing things up
? I'm a sperg and I don't do that.
Neurotypicals are wrong all the time about all sorts of things.

>>33236515
>a lot of even high functioning neurodivergents lack basic understanding of emotional and social cues and as humans are social creatures this is not a good thing
Technically not false but default-brains also don't know social cues and empathy. You just automatically copy emotions and automatically project your own, and you assume you're connecting emotionally when instead you and other people are making the same blind guesses.
It does result in social cohesion so you do still have a point, but "guessing the same emotion by accident" is a gene check, not a skill check.

Bait for gooners

>>33236138 (OP)
>too provocative
Muslim?
Anyway, just wear something else over it. Treat the compression shirt like underwear.

>>33246089
>>God forbid a woman has a figure underneath her clothes.
Wearing something super tight is indeed provocative, or at least comes off that way. Doesn't mean OP is at fault, but she should be aware of it.
It's like a dude wearing really tight pants that clearly show his dick. Not quite at that level, but same idea.

I found OP.

>>33236138 (OP)
Shit bait