4 of the last 5 women I've dated were child sex abuse victims. trying to work out if this is my type or i'm their type, or if it's just common.

I am a high trust male, fairly Asexual, ambivalent about sex, so assume I'm just the least rapist sort of man. But at the same time I am frustrated, because this is no something I signed up for. Many have ongoing relationships with the perpetrator, and killing the perpetrator doesn't help either.

>>33239183 (OP)
>I'm just the least rapist sort of man
They are drawn to you like a moth to a flame and what they believe will heal them. It doesn't work. They will view you as the perpetrator ultimately and sabotage the relationship, usually by fucking some real dirt bag abuser. Either as punishment for being the perpetrator or because they see you as weak because you aren't. Usually neither view is exclusive and both exist.

>>33239218
that's pretty much been the experience. They dated me because I might be an abuser, but wasn't. After a while they get sick of me and just straight up get themselves raped then break up with me.

And this has happened four times, I'm sick of it.
And all the weird shit they do with their brothers, exes behind my back, I'm not a cuck. If they want to get assfucked by their brother that's their business but I'm not dating a woman who's unfaithful. If she's 30, she's not a rape victim, it's a fetish and she's cheating on me