Thread 33240742 - /adv/ [Archived: 1546 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:44:25 AM No.33240742
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>Girl in high school I like, she's 8/10 in my eyes
>She's in accelerated classes, likes to read, and is athletic
>I'm like a 4 or 5/10 but I still want to get together with her
>Whenever I'm around, she acts flippant and rude to me
>I think I can win her over, I ask her out and surprisingly she agrees
>We go to a fast food joint, I keep trying to make conversation but she continues to have the same attitude towards me
>Even insults me a bit towards the end of the date
>I drive her back home
>Before she gets out, I told her I found her really attractive and I wanted things to work out but I didn't like how she kept disrespecting me so I knew she didn't feel the same way towards me
>Said if she wanted a free meal from me she could have been honest about it and I would have given her some money so that neither my time nor hers was wasted
>Told her thanks for the date and I hoped she would find someone she could connect with
>For the rest of the semester she kept when I was going to take her out again but I kept refusing since I thought she wanted free meals from me
>Eventually she ended up moving away and never heard from her again
What was her problem? That was my one and only date years ago. What did I do wrong? Any /adv/ on what I should have done?
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:51:27 AM No.33240779
>>33240742 (OP)
you already posted this in /r9k/ faggot im guessing this is bait but if not then she was just playing hard to get and you were too much of a dumbass to realise, who even gets offended by a girl acting rude it is hot
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:54:38 AM No.33240792
>>33240742 (OP)
she wasnt attracted to you. you didnt do anything wrong really. well you did yes by continually pursuing someone who obviously wasnt interested in you and kept disrespecting you and even simpcuck claimed you would give her money for free food, but there is nothing you could have done to keep her around. just move on. Christ man its been one year and you only went on one date.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:01:08 AM No.33240829
>>33240779
>you already posted this in /r9k/ faggot
That's why I'm posting here, they weren't helpful.
>she was just playing hard to get and you were too much of a dumbass to realise
How do you know she didn't want to use me for monetary purposes?
>>33240792
So I shouldn't have pursued her in the first place?
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:04:22 AM No.33240851
>>33240829
>So I shouldn't have pursued her in the first place?
Probably not considering she was rude. Dont deal with rude women. There is no degree of hotness that makes it worth it.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:11:54 AM No.33240883
>>33240742 (OP)
no one other than you can truly know how she was acting or why, it is more common for a teenage girl to be nervous and play hard to get as a defense mechanism but if you really were that much of an ugly faggot and her a bitch then maybe she was just using you, either way move on
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:12:00 AM No.33240884
>>33240742 (OP)
>What did I do wrong? Any /adv/ on what I should have done?
She probably would've hate fucked you. When girls are mean to you like that but agree to go on dates with you and put effort into spending time with you its usually because they've got a bit of top/dominant energy. They enjoy the back and fourth mean, sarcastic energy. It gets them sexually excited for you to play back. If you can stay playful and flick her shit back the sex with these types is really, really good. Also, unless you live in a fucking third world country there are not tons of girls out there going on dates with you in the west for $28 worth of thai food, okay? I don't know where this "free meal" meme comes from but if a girl just wants food out of you she'll stay in her sweatpants, text you and ask you to buy her UberEats or something, not get dressed and spend an entire night of her life pretending to like someone for food. This isn't fuckin Yemen.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:36:54 PM No.33244815
>>33240742 (OP)
>I thought she wanted free meals from me
>What did I do wrong?
Tell her she's paying next time, that's what you did wrong.
Either you break even after she pays for your dinner and never see each other again (win) or maybe she just had raging PMS that night and she actually likes you for real maybe you get a GF (win).
Is it really surprising that some chicks are as stupid as some guys? I assure you, they are.