Should I contact her again? - /adv/ (#33240905) [Archived: 951 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:16:56 AM No.33240905
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So this girl stood me up at our date despite being into me and teasing and flirting with me and then apologized for being shitty towards me and hugged me
But since then I cant get her out of my head and thinking what could have been especially in the sex life department cause she had the body of Ariel Winter but shorter and the way she would tease me by pressing her body against me and going close to my face and I really want to fuck her
So should I contact her and ask what the deal with us was and see if she wants to try again
A friend of mine got stood up too but got the girl to go out with him
Do you think I should atleast try?
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:20:13 AM No.33240919
>>33240905 (OP)
people will stand you up for all sorts of reasons, she could've just been nervous or she might of just realised you're too much of a faggot for her, you can try if you want, probably better than being left wondering what would've happened if you did
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:20:18 AM No.33240921
>>33240905 (OP)
Yeah why not. What's she gonna do? fuck you less than zero?
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:38:52 AM No.33240984
>>33240921
his dignity is at stake. i say you delete her number
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:43:09 AM No.33240994
Have some self respect, don't let yourself be dragged around clinging to her leg.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:12:34 AM No.33241883
>>33240905 (OP)
You're putting her on a pedestal. Maybe things work out if you hit her up, but odds are that they won't and you'll be sacrificing your self-respect.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:21:20 AM No.33241923
>>33240905 (OP)
>So should I contact her
No. If she really is into you she will realize she fucked up and reach out to you, either directly or through a mutual friend. Otherwise maintain your dignity and value and don't chase her. Sometimes girls will flirt just to feel wanted, even if they don't want the guy they're flirting with. They also make dates they have no intention of keeping for the same reason, or because cancelling later is less confrontational than saying no IRL. If a bitch cancels, ghosts, or even just leaves your text on read then you should be ready to forget her name.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 9:51:40 PM No.33244561
>>33240905 (OP)
In my honest opinion she looks like a skag unworthy of any meaningful attention.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:56:21 PM No.33244904
>>33240905 (OP)
If you haven't already at least reach out to ask wtf was going on when she stood you up. Any energy beyond that is just going to come across as a lack of self respect. You've shot your shot already, if she was interested she'd go out of her way to make up for doing that to you
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 11:02:07 PM No.33244928
Anon as much as you probably hate to hear it the chuds are right. If they aren't instantly saying yes and are excited to see you then fucking drop them.