Need some help in knowing how I can deal with the suffering that is associated with a sheltered life. Am seeing a therapist and on pills. But being 30 and sheltered due to mental incompetency has really made me upset over the years. I really wish I lived a real life.

>>33241630 (OP)
I hear ya, bro. I think the best thing is to be out in the world with appropriate support.

>>33241630 (OP)
You'll start to adjust to anything, if you are living normal it'll probably get better fast. You didn't miss as much as you might think in all likelihood, and nothing really matters except the present moment and using the wisdom of the past to prepare for moments in the future.

>>33241630 (OP)
What do you think we can do that your therapist and pills can't?

to win as a male you need to be maxxing something

if you are already 30 and super sheltered you would do well to sheltermaxxing since you already know how to be sheltered, literally a mastery of being sheltered

you can:
-clean your shelter
-improve your shelter
-find a craft that you can devote some of your focusing time toward
-become excellent at some thing

basically like you could be a Torah scholar, or a warlock if you are evil, or maybe some kind of accountant

a "real" life is w/e i have been in themn streets it's not more fun than RuneScape and you have plenty of time for women still just become excellent at something useful

>>33241630 (OP)
You're living it now.

Try to get off the pills, tell your psych you want to wean them and just fucking try with therapy. Face a lot of uncomfortable stuff, learn to live with anxiety and get accustomed to things. Surround yourself with possitive messages no matter how cheesy they sound or how dumb it looks on your home. Learn to play the fool, join a theater club, meet people and commit to them.

>>33241630 (OP)
The world sucks, you didn’t miss much.