Thread 33242615

Why do girls not like it when they realize I have no friends? I get along fine with my coworkers and family. I just haven't really found anyone worthy of being my friend yet!
Why is that such a deal breaker?

>>33242615 (OP)
They want to date men that can maintain friendships. It might just be instinct. Men that can't maintain friendships are likelier to die or face hardship. If something bad happens they'd rely entirely on their partner. If you have kids they might be like you.

>>33242615 (OP)
>worthy of being my friend
What an odd way to put it.

>>33242615 (OP)
I'm going to be real with you: a guy with no friends is a fucking loser.

>>33242615 (OP)
people with a character so hard to bear no person has ever put up with their shit to be their friends are either a massive red flag about anger issues, bland, boring or low quality.

>>33242615 (OP)
>I just haven't really found anyone worthy of being my friend yet!
cope
like every human, you've met plenty of people you wished you were friends with. THEY deemed you not worthy.
if you can't even face that fact on an anonymous message board, you're probably fucked up.

>>33242623
Oh fuck.
>>33242628
No... I never really felt like a loser except in the friendship department
>>33242648
I think it's the anger issues. I think I should go to therapy again
>>33242656
True, I did... And zhey didn't see me as worthy. So I do the same to others.
But when I was a child, I had lots of friends, but then puberty and high school happened... And ever since I never really had any friends. Or maybe I just wasn't willing and was scared to make any new friends, except for online ones.

>>33242615 (OP)
>Why is that such a deal breaker?
because it's abnormal. It's normal to know a few brows and have some buds.
>>33242664
>No... I never really felt like a loser except in the friendship department
What you feel like doesn't matter, the fact is that to other, normal people? You're a loser for not being able to build or maintain friendships. Always been that way. Whether or not you FEEL like that's the case doesn't matter.

>>33242615 (OP)
There is no reason to tell anyone you have no friends. If they ask, say something like "I have lots of friends but no one special."

>>33242666
Oh... So what can I do about it?
I feel like my high sensitivity and autism and traumas and fears are the cause of this. Especially fear of betrayal, of getting betrayed again.

>>33242772
Oh my God, such a life hack!!! But wait, girls can kinda catch up to that... Should I just gaslight them into believing I have many friends ? Lol

"genuine femcel" has posts trying to help a femcel out of a position she can just woman her way out of. you are a truecel, hit the gym and ignore women, i'm not telling you to fag out, just focus on building lifelong friends. One in a million chance you get your ana de armas gf, 100 percent chance you build friends for life.

>>33242794
idk if it does it for you or not, but i picture this when i'm fucked up. like a reminder than there's always more retarded shit to do that everyone scorns before i die.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CRnCzZ6vqtQ

>>33242615 (OP)
Because they can't get social capital through your contacts. D'uh

>>33242794
Based. So fucking real, 100%. Thanks bro. WAGMI

>>33242809
>social capital
What does that mean?

>>33242819
Honestly I have no fucking idea since I don't feel it or see it.
But I'm told that default-brains obtain a sense of self worth, reassurance, and fulfillment from having a broad network of people that copy their emotions, or express positive emotions in response to her presence.

>>33242805
lol, literally the exact video i listen too on loop. She's a reminder that it's always worth it. Even if we might never have her, it's good knowing we would be presentable on the 1/1,000,000 chance she ever comes around. She is as good as lifting for w*men as is gets.

>>33242814
Lifting for ADA is a bigger high than any drug.

>>33242826
>ADA
What is that?

>>33242664
>No... I never really felt like a loser except in the friendship department
Doesn't matter. If you have no friends, that's exactly how every woman you meet will see you.

>>33242773
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and grow a thicker skin. There's plenty of archived threads on this board for how to make friends.

>>33242964
Ana De Armas

>>33243577
I just feel so socially retarded sometimes, like I never really belong anywhere. For example, someone is goofing around and I don't know wtf to do so I just slightly walk away and past that person, not looking at them but instead to the ground.
And whenever I kinda do make a friend, they start forgetting about me and ignore me, then I delete them from my life. Rinse and repeat...

>>33243577
But the weird thing is that I had a plethora of friends when I was a kid!!! Wtf happened?

>>33243572
Guess I'll just have to lie to them then. Or actually make some friends. But I'm already fucking 26, dude. I've probably been repeating this same behavioral pattern for like 15 years now...

>>33242824
Hmm, that's kinda weird

>>33243888
>Having a network of people is good
>>hmm that's wierd
I'm a spastic piece of shit and even i can understand why having people you can call on is good. You're a RP'ing faggot.

>>33242615 (OP)
> I just haven't really found anyone worthy of being my friend yet!
Griffith?

>>33243902
I only ever relied on my family

>>33242615 (OP)
guys get attached easy anyway but if he has no family or friends or anything you cannot breathe. They latch on, become obsessed since thats all they have and they get scary

>>33242615 (OP)
because then you need to use her friends and you might ruin that

>>33242615 (OP)
It's all about social clout, women associate it with how much lust for life you have when you have a large social circle. For women social clout = success.
Just look at the normie replies itt, tells you everything you need to know about their illusionary friendships.

>>33242615 (OP)
I'm the opposite. I know a LOT of fun places / people around.
women don't find me that attractive and it takes quite some effort to get that first date.
then they meet interesting people thanks to me and I get laid.

>>33249087
Pic related?

>>33249065
That's so retarded though, I'm not keeping all of the social contacts I had from schools years ago, or from people that can't even reply back to me or from people who aren't aligned with my own goal.

Why do you care though? I'm well spoken, fit, approachable, stable job, house and not ugly
I have no "friends" IRL I have a couple online buddies that I'll chat to once in a blue moon

I just have no urge to make new friends who won't vibe with me and i do not really want another girl friend, I am happier alone

>>33242615 (OP)
How does anybody have friends that aren't online these days? I had tons of friends growing up and in high school. Then went to college and made new friends there; after graduation we all moved to find jobs. I haven't had a real friend my age that I see regularly IRL in probably 3 years at this point. I go to work and everybody their is 15 - 30 years old than me (I'm 26). I don't see guys that could be my friend anywhere, and even if they are around my age and could be my friend probably half of them are married and busy with married life. I just can't believe that many normies have irl friends.

>>33251268
Why I care? Because I hate getting rejected by hot girls just because I don't have any friends.
Anyway, do you have a girlfriend?

>>33252549
Yeah I wanna know too haha. I hope it's not too late to make friends

I love you guys