>>33242853 (OP)Is the life you live really the life you want to be living? Like are you really 100% aligned with the vision of your life you want to head towards?
You don't need to behave like other people, but you do need to be the best version of yourself. It sounds like you're not satisfied with your life unrelated to the gf and that needs to change first. Once you live a life that is perfectly fulfilling without a gf, doors will open that make a relationship possible,
Here's a complete guide for the steps to a great life as a man: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YbfbAol5hRg
Since we're on 4chan the number 1 rule for getting a gf is: Get off the motherfucking goddamn porn forever with no exeptions starting right now. Watching porn robs you of valuable energy needed to take the necessary steps to find a gf