I have posted her asking for advice on how to seduce my mom but I realized that is unhealthy. The problem is that I cannot get hard to anything else, I have deleted all my porn, bookmarks and even advice on how to seduce her.

The problem remains though, I still don't know how to overcome this fetish as I cannot get hard without it.

>>33242862 (OP)
Do you have anything else going in life than to spam there mom attraction threads for months?

>>33242865
Well considering the fact that I'm actively trying to change I think that should be taken into account

nigger you made this thread not even a week ago. Just confess to your mom so you can get kicked out. You're almost as bad as the
"i wont read" tard. I like milfs too, i dont make a life of it.

>>33242880
>You're almost as bad as the
>"i wont read" tard.
I hate him too, but please help me out. I don't want to keep posting about this, trust me.

>>33242885
Nigger you post the same thread on the weekly. just go to gif and larp with the mummy fags

>>33242885
There is nothing you can do that to take up the cross, humans are perverted animals, and psychologists/therapists will advise you to replace your urges with something else, but you will not be able to live with yourself if you act on those said urges. You cannot prevent the thoughts which come to your mind, but you can prevent engaging in it. If a thought crosses your mind, focus on something else, IMMEDIATELY, DO NOT THINK ABOUT IT FURTHER. This is how i got over lust in general, we are all animals here but we have enough reason to change our demenaour.

>>33242898
I am done with this shit Anon, I won't go to /gif/ or any other degenerate board. I am done. I had enough.

If you won't help you really don't have to comment anything at all.

>>33242902

Thank you Anon. Out of curiosity, do you believe God exists? I was thinking about trying to convert to Christianity, maybe faith will help

>>33242862 (OP)
>I have posted her
Can you do it again?

>>33242911
Sorry, I meant ''here''

>>33242903
Then stop spamming adv with your mommy fetish you fucking retard. fuck off.

>>33242926
I think you are the retarded one if you don't realize that it's exactly what I am trying to do you nigger loving faggot. I am making this thread because I want to get rid of this fetish so I can stop making these threads. Go choke on some tranny cum faggot

Have you thought about some negative reinforcement therapy? Like hurting yourself when you watch that stuff. If you're a real fucking freak, you probably are, that might just make it worse.
I guess you could also just act it out in some way and it might snap you back to reality of how gross you are. Like sniff her dirty panties or lick her dildo. Don't get caught btw. If that doesn't shock you out of it and disturb you I don't know what will.
Otherwise, maybe try to find a kinky milf to act shit out with. Might get it out of your system. I really don't know. Sounds like your brain is cooked.

>>33242940
>Sounds like your brain is cooked.
That's what's worrying me. I had girls into me but I couldn't feel aroused enough, I think I messed up badly

>>33242943
So were you like molested or something, get into freaky porn for no reason, or did this somehow just develop out of the blue?

>>33242950
My mom was overprotective and crazy but never molested me. I started watching porn cartoons which depicted mom-son scenarios and all went downhill from there

>>33242958
>My mom was overprotective and crazy
How so?

>>33242862 (OP)
Psychologist here, son. My time is yours for the moment

>realized that is unhealthy
Well done, that's the right direction

>cannot get hard to anything else
Let's see it under another light. You haven't found anything as exciting, yet

>I cannot get hard without it

This will be very very simple

1) You sexuality is not purely genetical, you are not born with genes of craving your biological mother
2) That means, that something happened when your sexuality was formed, that associated desire with your mother (honestly, that happens more than you think, when we are young our mothers and sisters are fuckable women we see the most around, but society has solution for that through cultural restrictions)
3) Then after that event, or series of events, you have slowly reinforced that connection through repetition. You created neurological chains. Slowly. It's a bad habit. Like smoking
4) Which means, that by reinforcing something else, you can slowly rewire your sexuality towards healthier options
5) You are not even attracted to your mom specifically. It's just your nervous system has a need - sexual desire. The only way it is trained to get that is to aim at a certain woman. Your desire is not bad, you are not bad, you are not weird or wrong, your brain is just mistrained
6) If I would be you, I would dive slowly into childhood to see how did happen. Mother being overly touchy while tipsy? Certain porn? How did your arousal achored to her?
7) Then I would forgive myself, forgive my mother and whatever happened in the past. You can do that by writing down gratitude towards yourself, childhood, sexuality, mother
8) Then, I would accept that yes, while things are little bit strange, it's just a chapter of my life, time to enter another
9) I would abstain from any sexual stimulation for a week or two. Then, when desire is overflowing, I would find a woman other than mother and without sharing anything would get pleasure. Repeat until new patterns form

>>33242972
She treated me like a child to the point where my aunt (her sister) thought it was weird. Also she has depression and is extremely narcissistic so it's very hard for me to create a secure bond

>>33242976
Oh wow, thank you so much. So would you advice semen retention? I read about it on /x/ but I don't know if would help but since I saw that you would recommend abstinence do you think that practice could be helpful or would you consider it to be ''extreme'' and thus unhelpful?

>>33242986
Semen retention is completely different thing, forget about it

Pay attention. Since you pleasure yourself a lot, you need a certain stimulation to get hard

See it like this, there can be the most beautiful woman wet in front of you, but if you came 10 times already you wont be excited

Your goal is not to do weird practices, your goal is to get horny, so horny you would fuck anything. Besides pills, just not pleasuring yourself for a week or two makes you hornier, in natural way

Then you will have less resistance with your sexuality. Your nervous system would be so starved it would happily eat bland porridge (another woman) instead of a stake (mother)

Ideally is you doing it raw and cumin inside her, for hormonal reasons. Dont do it with strangers tho, use rubber. Either way you will get your reward hormones, and your nervous system will take notice

Another woman = feels good

Through consistency and repetition, each time will be slliiiightly easier. Think of it as a gym for your sexuality

Just don't try to escalate from one depravity to another, keep it healthy

>>33242993
Thank you, do you bring great points, I didn't think I could actually find professional advice here. One last question, how could I heal from my my mommy issues/childhood trauma? I think it's going to be an important aspect to forgive myself and become my own person and find an identity separated from my mother

>>33242998
I see your gratitude, I like it

First of all, you are already separated. She is not your guardian anymore, you are formed and self sufficient. Feel these words in yourself, say them out loud. Because the language you use to talk to yourself and about yourself is your reality

You are an independent adult. Self conscious and on your way towards being better self

> how could I heal from my my mommy issues/childhood trauma?

It takes time, it's a journey of months and sometimes years. However you are not BPD/Psychopath with a brain structure formed for life

You are an average man. With usual shitty childhood. Everybody has that. The reason is biological. Procreation is not tied to parenting in any way. Meaning that bad parents are not limited in procreation. Meaning, they are vast majority. Instead of becoming ideal parents first, they just have babies

Biology is on the side of shitty parents. Its okay. It is how it is

Also, your childhood doesn't define you

All of these are just statements like instagram post or YouTube video. What actions you should take:

1) Dive into your childhood, slowly, gently, without judgement. You are not a victim. You are a product of a certain environment. Write down what you discover as neutral statements

2) Process facts as memories as they are. Feel them. Be angry, be disgusted, whatever comes. Be sad. Cry. Grief. You have to close all the leftover loops emotionally. Write down how that made you feel then, and how it makes you feel now

3) Add to each entry some gratitude. We cant feel gratitude with negative emotions at the same time. 'My mother was strange while being tipsy because she felt lonely, but she didn't do anything bad bad, so my case is very mild and I am leaving it behind' You can find gratitude in everything

4) Burn the notes. In ceremonial manner. There is a reason we are doing it for thousands of years. Let it all go

5) Repeat until there is nothing unresolved left in your heart

>>33243017
That's brilliant, I even did a screenshot for the advice you gave me. I won't steal any more of your time but I just wanted to say thank you for your help and advice. I got it for free and I am aware of just how lucky I was. I won't make more threads about this topic, I will focus on healing from this from now on. Thank you so much

>>33242976
>Psychologist here, son
I have an unrelated question but: Are false memories real?

Sometimes I have this intrusive thought of ''what if I have molested someone in the past and I just don't remember?'' I don't think I have done it but the thought keeps appearing. Maybe it's because I watch a lot of rape porn and I feel guilty and maybe that's the manifestation? or maybe I did molested someone and I just don't remember. Is there a way to find out for sure?

Is your mom actually hot OP?

One of you zoomer faggots needs to send your mom my way, I have an 8 inch cock and would be happy to satisfy your mother

OP's mom's name?
Albert Einstein

>>33243029
Excellent attitude. Last truth: sometimes it may feel that what you are doing is silly, not working, or why even bother. We have natural resistances, brain doesn't like new. New is risk, new is death. It would rather stick to old fetishes

Resistance is your confirmation that the direction is right. Think of it was a video game. If you are not leveling up, you are in a location you outgrew

I am not talking about my advice. It's a just a generalization because we are not eyes to eyes, mind to mind. I am talking about general healing and transformation. Keep returning to it, educate yourself, explore other tools, but keep going

>>33243036
Are yo ready son?

Your nervous system is a naive child. It cannot tell the difference between reality, false memory, dreams, lies, irony, sarcasm or metaphors. In a dream you can get scared and get physical reaction. You can get unsettled by watching a video on 2d screen, aroused by reading text, you can get hurt by someone saying absurd thing about you – just a sound

Those emotions and feeling, those reactions are real to your nervous system, to your body, to parts of your mind

>Is there a way to find out for sure?
Get to the core. Guild is good, guilt is healthy. It signals to you that you are breaking some important inner subjective rule. And required action

Gently, softly, find out through your memory why rape porn excites you so much. But itself, it's not about rape porn. Its a vehicle to cover your need – need for pleasure

You actually have similar situations with op. His sexuality is trained towards mother, yours is trained towards violent intimacy

Which means, that somewhere in the past, where it was forming, when you got your first hormones and had no idea what to do with them, instead of usual boy-girl doctor play with getting handsy, something else distracted you and stayed

Try following the same steps I gave op

>>33242907
God is the only possible conclusion for existance. A being which by definition is most powerful, all knowing and all loving, whose absence is by definition evil, is by said definition the final limit of attributes we can apply to something, in reality which we can percieve.
If you do consider converting, don't do it immediately, it requires a lot of conviction, as changing your lifestyle as if the wind had carried it would mean that you have had no standing before, so you will probably not endure when you covert.

>>33243079
>Resistance is your confirmation that the direction is right.
You are completely right, whenever I try to change I feel it will be futile but even if it's true, I still need to do the right. Porn should be destroyed. If I had the power I would remove it from exitence. Thank you for your help, I would feel too embarrased to tell this to a psychologist in person so I'm really grateful that you chose to help me

>>33243079
>Guild is good, guilt is healthy. It signals to you that you are breaking some important inner subjective rule. And required action
As a professional, would you say that porn is inherently harmful? It always made me feel guilty and disgusted about myself, I didn't know if it was due to some religious guilt or something similar as I grew up religious. I gotta say that I am now realizing that porn does seem to be inherently evil

>>33243091
I know people that go to church every monday, I could give it a shot. It's true that I am realizing that a lot of christianity says is true so it's worth looking more into honestly. Thank you for your reply

>>33243103
>I would feel too embarrased to tell this to a psychologist in person

If you have money and will, I would recommend doing hypnotherapy. Therapists are just milking you with endless sessions and pills you don't need to

Hypnotherapy removes many social restriction, gently, naturally, and allows you to deal with things yourself, instead of people telling you how you should feel

I am just planting a seed here in your mind for the future

> Porn should be destroyed. If I had the power I would remove it from exitence.

Your ego wont like it, but you are expressing a limiting self belief. Porn by itself doesnt have power. Heroin doesn't have power. Sex doesn't have power. Its just a catalyst for power inside of you

If you destroy porn, something else will take its place. Sin, temptation and trials will always surround you. I implore you to see it in different light – instead of isolation yourself from seducing world, become strong and grounded enough to choose your sins and vices

Godspeed

>>33243120
Porn power comes from your survival biology, fundamental daily needs and you utilizing mirror neurons to cover these needs in unnatural way without paying required price

Think of it like this – porn is sugar. Cheap, easy to get, digest and quick to work. And it kills you. Ruins your body, mind and soul. But by itself its not evil, its just a chemical on the shelf or in a wrap

Porn is extremely harmful in scale of your life and in scale of society

It fucks up your sexuality, reward system, hormones, relationships, values

Actually it's a glitch, we are not suppose to see others mating on demand without any consequences. In nature it would be a punishment – someone in front of of you procreates, and you are not

>>33243139
>Sin, temptation and trials will always surround you. I implore you to see it in different light – instead of isolation yourself from seducing world, become strong and grounded enough to choose your sins and vices
Hm do you mean it literally or metaphorically? Do you think there's a God or a higher power? I'm sorry if I'm asking too many questions, I apologize I just find it very mind opening

>>33243170
How about this, let's entertain two possibilities

You are a child of the Universe. Part of the system. However you may call or picture it

1) Either Universe is flawed, pointless and useless. And so you are as a part of it

2) Or there is a grand design, gods, higher self, however you see it. It has truth, purpose and aim. And so do you as a part of it

You can choose either one, but first option is not benefiting you in any way. At all. It makes everything worse

Second option elevates you, improves your mental health, physical health, life, relationships and such

It is that simple

If you don't believe in anything, how can you believe in yourself? Historically, strongest ideologies had the biggest advantage. Strongest believers in anything – be it god, science, political movement, whatever – had the best results

We are designed to believe in something outside of cold facts. It doesnt matter if that something is actual real. Hope is not real. Dreams and ambitions are not real. Love is not real. Yet we are deeply moved by all

Allow life to help you find your personal flavor of belief

>>33243187
That's beautiful, thank you Anon, you helped a lot. I'm very grateful. I hope you have a wonderful day

>>33243191
Have an invigorating day, son